Family & Relationships - 27 December 2006

My guy is 17 gonna be 18 n he is a very good sportsman who only wears and likes branded expensive stuff. But i cant afford to give him an expensive gift

2006-12-27 04:34:34 · 2 answers · asked by sara 2 in Singles & Dating

He acted not embarrassed, but said "oh, no... why did you do this?" and needed encouragement to open them.

2006-12-27 04:34:07 · 18 answers · asked by Diane V 2 in Singles & Dating

I never believed in "closure"... I always thought that was something that people made up so that they could have a reason to dwell in the past or have one last, good arguement.

Getting closure sounds so much like justifying yourself, and I guess I never thought I needed to.

I've hit a point where I feel like I can't move foward emotionally, and I wonder if it's because I haven't had proper closure with a couple of bad past experiences.

How do you do that? How do you let go of it?

A friend of mine says that guilt is like a bag of bricks, and all you have to do is put the bag down.

Is it really that simple? I mean, how do you make this happen?

2006-12-27 04:33:47 · 21 answers · asked by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been together for almost 6 years. It has been very rocky but from time to time it is good. Then starts the arguments and the mean words. Does this mean that he wishes he wasn't with me? He is a flirt so maybe he wants to be single again.
He always has something bad to say about me and tells his friends that I am a bad person. He doesn't really show affection and our personal interactions usually end in an argument or him calling me a hurtful name.

2006-12-27 04:32:33 · 20 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-27 04:32:14 · 20 answers · asked by ...Tell Me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-27 04:31:55 · 15 answers · asked by loopyhaze 3 in Singles & Dating

my bestfriend is a guy i've known for 6 years, he won a basket-ball game, so i gave him a kiss, does this count as cheating on my boyfriend???

2006-12-27 04:31:35 · 40 answers · asked by nothing 1 in Singles & Dating

Nymphomaniac? Up until after my divorce, I thought women didn't really like or enjoy sex. Every woman I had a relationship with after my divorce really enjoyed it. My gf really enjoys it. She even takes care of business in the morning herself if I miss a night. Plus she has orgasm after orgasm with only a few minutes/seconds in between while I make love to her. Is this normal after you pass the age of 30?

2006-12-27 04:31:33 · 15 answers · asked by mvas800 3 in Singles & Dating

myself and my girlfriend are looking to get married but i want to get marriedin a church, but neither one of us are christened, do you have to proove to a priest/vicar that you are true followers of the religion, or is that just tv stuff?

2006-12-27 04:31:29 · 28 answers · asked by budda1983 2 in Weddings

She left him for another man and there kids are grown men. However 6 months ago I found her cell phone # in his wallet. He said that his son gave it to him. Then 3 months ago she called and left a message on his cell to call her at work. I was so upset so I suggested that we call her together and find out want she wanted. He replied that I could call her and stated that he didn't know what she wanted and didn't want to talk to her. So i called her and asked her if Joe ever got hold of her and did she want to talk to him and she said he called her already, so I caught him in a lie. He said that he called to tell her that she did not need to call him and it was a real problem. I kept his cell phone and nothing happened untill 2 days ago and she called again. and I suggested that we call her together and set my mind at ease that nothing was going on with the two on them and he refused. He wante to wait an call the following day (

2006-12-27 04:29:47 · 21 answers · asked by beekems 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 21 and I am engaged to be married in July. I've been with this guy for 2 1/2 years and now I am scared. I think that I need to be on my own and I don't know how to tell him that. Additionally, I just recently have been talking to my ex-boyfriend (as friends) who I think I am still in love with. My ex now says that he really wants me back and he will do anything. He is in the millitary and is on deployment right now and now things are kind of changing and he says he is confused but he still loves me. I think this is b/c he is so far away and doesn't know what to do. What should I do b/c now I don't feel the same for my fiancee. Any suggestions?

2006-12-27 04:29:40 · 22 answers · asked by Laura B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so there's this girl that im friends with and so is my boyfriend (she's actually his ex from like the 5th grade). I go to her locker and there's a pic of him in there. She has a boyfriend, so why does she hang a pic of MY boyfriend in there. So he emails her, tells her im upset and to take the pic down. She replies "hey boo, i dont know why'd she get upset but i'll take it down. Signed, ur little sister (if i still have that place in ur life)..this is driving me crazy! what do i do?

2006-12-27 04:29:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't have this problem yet really, but it could possibly become one. My BF's mother seems to have a pre-conceived notion of the "type of person" I must be to have been married twice in the past. I have no kids, lead a good life, make a good living etc. She does not think I'm good enough for her son (who has never been married). She doesn't know me and I plan on just being my usual self around her. I always get along with the parents so this is all new to me. Has anyone ever had the parents of the person you love negatively impact your relationship?

2006-12-27 04:29:08 · 9 answers · asked by pigmetal116 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If a guy is has a hard time keeping up at a girl's level (intellectually, monetary status, career, etc) why would he go to the length of being competitive if he wanted a relationship w/that girl?

Case point: I think this guy that I'm seeing has a hard time being the "guy" in the relationship because he feels inadequate I guess, although I've showed him countless times that I like him. But now he is trying to get me to confide in him whenever I'd have a crisis or something, like he needs to feel like I need him. Is that being genuine? But why is he being competitive? He did tell another guy once, about me, to not feel intimidated by me. Why would he say that? What could be his problem? And would it be stupid of me if I did have a crisis & confided in him? Is he trying to be a "man" that way instead?

2006-12-27 04:27:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And if so, can you give me a reason not to open up the wallet a bit on one?

And yes, it obviously is not the main reason for buying the ring...

2006-12-27 04:26:34 · 15 answers · asked by someguy 3 in Weddings

Is it true that a BJ is better when the girl has a tonugue piercing?

2006-12-27 04:26:14 · 13 answers · asked by kissykissy 1 in Singles & Dating

What positive signals should you look from him to see if he is receptive? How do you proceed if he says yes? If he says no? Thanks.

2006-12-27 04:24:37 · 1 answers · asked by hello T 7 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 04:21:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

When my only son was born, Me & my wife were not helped by either of our parents....No baby shower, offer to watch the baby and gives us a break. ( when both set of parents were fully capable of helping out...(just would have been a kind gesture...ya' know?))
Well my parents know that me and my wife are separated at the moment & Their GOOD Friend's daughter has just delivered her first born. My mom put a lot of effort into going to her baby shower...driving hour and a half away, when she didn't even try to get one going for her 1st grandchild ( and we lived in the same town.) Then my parents yesterday went to go see the newborn & brought back pictures and everything....The child was beautiful !!! but I couldn't get up for the baby ...seeing how much more my parents put more energy into their friend's grandchild. Knowing their friends didn't come to their grandchild when they lived less than 45 minutes away. Can anyone understand why the Hell I am so bitter?

2006-12-27 04:20:48 · 18 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family

My big sister is so self centered. She was late to my wedding (she was maid of honor) because she was too busy screwing her BF to help me put on my viel. She lies about stupid stuff for no reason. She cheats on her now husband with his boss and previously with his best friend. She is neglectful and mean to my niece. She is unsupportive when I told her about how I was sexually assaulted, and then changed the story to a something about her. When I come to visit she never has time for me. She "forgets" my parents birthdays, mothersdays, fathersdays.. she puts her friends before her family. She even says that having a baby ruined her life - right in front of her daughter. And now, she didn't even send a gift or card for my daughters first Christmas, after I have spent a fortune on her daughter for every holiday and birthday for 12 years, even when I have no money. I love her but she has ruined my family - my parents feel the same. Talking to her doesn't help - she just denies.

2006-12-27 04:20:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

he hang out with friends, sit on computer for hours,call his friends home sometime.he has plenty of time for his friends and for his movies,he is much interested in doing things which he like the most whereas gives very little time for me and when iam not at home he calls his friends arrange for drinks and enjoy.whenever i ask him to take me out he says iam busy today,iam tired but as soon as phone rings up from his friends he is ready before their say.iam fed up of his habit .is there any thing i can do?i have explained him thousand of times but in vain.now am 7 months pregnant and he always leave me alone .plz help me.

2006-12-27 04:20:06 · 16 answers · asked by simplewife20 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 13, my mom was on a trip for 2 months and my grandma took care of me and my bro. Well, I agree I did what I shouldn't, joined a bad crowd, did some dangerous stuff. When mom came back she grounded me. She got to know I also disrespected one of her rules, she makes me dress with modesty and I always have to wear a bra. I disobeyed, when she was out I didn't wer a bra cause I don't like. I was disrespectful to mo and she gave me an additional punishment. Till Feb 10 I have to wear a shapewer, that is, that piece of underwear tha covers all of your torso and clips at your crotch and has straps over the shoulders. They cover a lot of my brests and are made of very thick tissue, makes me sweat a lot. Kinda uncomfortable, but I have too keep it on all day long, except to bed. I hate that thinhg but mom is being strict. I'm not totally grounded, she allows me some fun, I can play tennis but wearing that thing. Shes not so mad and is treating me with love, but I realy gotta wear that thing

2006-12-27 04:19:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What do you like in girls?

2006-12-27 04:19:18 · 19 answers · asked by DaNiElLe 2 in Singles & Dating

ok well i am totally against pre maratial sex!! but i have been wondering about this............. if a guy like fingers you or like if you have oral sex does that mean that your not a virgin anymore?? again this as absolutly NOTHING to do with me it is just somethin ive been thinking about..........

2006-12-27 04:19:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met a guy who acted like a complete bachelor, but then found out that he is in a relationship. He only flirts with me, so nothing happened. I was just wondering how to react to him saying that he's not happy with her & wants someone he is attracted to? It's not wrong at all to flirt, correct ?Please no rude remarks because as I already stated I would not interfere - that's why I am asking for advice! Thanks!

2006-12-27 04:18:39 · 24 answers · asked by molly s 1 in Singles & Dating

My sons freind Jake never says thank you too me when ever I take him somewhere or if he sleeps over. He is always bragging about his $300 skateboards. When we went to wendys to eat,. i told jake to go wash his hands. Jake told me NO. I told him again to go wash his hands and he told me NO. I told him that we were not leaving wendys untill he washed his hands. Well we were late dropping jake over that night becuase the washing of the hands bit. Jakes mother yelled at me because I dropped him off late. I did not say a word to her or tell her why we were late. I bit the bullet. Since that happened in August Jake calls for my son to do things. We do not return calls , which included not going over for thier family christmas party, Yet Jakes still calls for my son to do things. I have not heard from Jakes mother since August and I feel its her resposibility to call me. What do I tell my son Randy to Jake on why Randy doesnt return his calls? Jakes mother needs appoligi

2006-12-27 04:18:35 · 14 answers · asked by DX 1 in Family

so, they're unreliable, not worth waiting for etc.. but why oh why do they all turn up at once?
here's the story, i've been single since june, split with my ex.. my decision, and i've enjoyed single life since then.. had a few dates, but there's man number 1.. let's call him S, who i've grown really close to and we've seen each other a few times and i'm not sure, but i may not be single much longer...
on the other hand, there's man number 2... let's call him C, ex colleague,never thought i would have touched him with a bargepole, but got to know him and think he's a really genuine, swee, funny guy. he left my work in august.. anyway, he ended up at the xmas party last week, and everyone seemed to be hooked on fixing the two of us up, and i wasn't gonna say no to a xmas kiss so flirted with him all night.. anyway, nothing happened, but we've been flirting ever since..
my dilemma.. i want man number 1... but how do i tell man number 2 i don't want him when i've been leading him on..

2006-12-27 04:18:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

of the bride. Should you share this with the groom at the bachelor party?

Or wait til your golfing someday?

2006-12-27 04:18:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

with my ex. We have been broken up for almost 2 years. Over the summer we starting talking again. He just walked away when we broke up, no official we are broken up or anything. Just ended all contact. I had met his friends and family and everything went well, his parents even hugged me goodbye. When he got back in contact with me, he said he missed me and he knew he was horrible. He just had issues that he needed to straighten out (they mostly had to do with committment). I had gotten over him but when he came back into my life it changed. What do I do? We are trying to be friends because we were friends before. He always contacts me when something bad happens in his life, i think i'm just confusing what used to be there with friendship.

2006-12-27 04:17:42 · 7 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

it happened to me

2006-12-27 04:17:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating