Do I deseve this punishment?

Question

I'm 13, my mom was on a trip for 2 months and my grandma took care of me and my bro. Well, I agree I did what I shouldn't, joined a bad crowd, did some dangerous stuff. When mom came back she grounded me. She got to know I also disrespected one of her rules, she makes me dress with modesty and I always have to wear a bra. I disobeyed, when she was out I didn't wer a bra cause I don't like. I was disrespectful to mo and she gave me an additional punishment. Till Feb 10 I have to wear a shapewer, that is, that piece of underwear tha covers all of your torso and clips at your crotch and has straps over the shoulders. They cover a lot of my brests and are made of very thick tissue, makes me sweat a lot. Kinda uncomfortable, but I have too keep it on all day long, except to bed. I hate that thinhg but mom is being strict. I'm not totally grounded, she allows me some fun, I can play tennis but wearing that thing. Shes not so mad and is treating me with love, but I realy gotta wear that thing

I'm in Australia, it's hot and that shapewear makes me mad!!!

Answer 1

Well you know the old saying, don't do the crime if you can't do the time. In other words you should always think about the consequences of your actions. I know it is easier said then done but that is life though. I am sure everybody have been there many times. Life is all about learning lessons. Now you learned that you shouldn't disrespect your mother. From what you wrote, it sounded to me that your mother is a very understanding. Talk to her and tell her that you will try your best not to disrespect her anymore and you don't like to wear that shapewear. Maybe you behave yourself enough times and prove to her that you meant what you said then i am sure she is going to stop you from wear that uncomfortable shapewear. I hope that helped. HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

Answer 2

Your Mom is doing good, you know she loves you. Feb 10 seems like a long way away, but it will come soon, and you will remember the rule about wearing a bra. Hang in there, and when it is over, you can probably talk your mom into buying you a nice bra.

You are growing up fast, and over the next few years the rules will loosen a bit, although your Mom will always want you to be safe. Don't be afraid to discuss the rules with her every once in a while, she was a young lady once too.

Answer 3

Yes, actually, if you disrespected her I think that's a reasonable punishment.

You know, it's better for your breasts if you wear bras. They will start to sag much earlier in life if you don't wear support, and supported breasts are perkier and more attractive.

If you find bras uncomfortable, you might try going with some nicer, more expensive brands, like Victoria's Secret. They will measure you for a proper fit and have some very good, plain, modest bras that are extremely comfortable and give you the support you need. Myself, I'll never go back to cheap bras again.

Answer 4

So your grounded for not wearing a bra in summer? or are you grounded for hanging with the wrong group?
Your mom is worried your gonna go to far with boys. She is now worry free for the remainder of the summer. There is no way you'd ever let anyone see your under ware now.
I'm sorry this embarrassment has happened to you. But I guarantee that is what your mom is up to.

Answer 5

Well i think that maybe next time your mom tells you something maybe you will listen, she tells you things for a reason. She is the parent and you aren't. If i kept disobeying my parents like that i would have had it alot worse. And i hope you stay away from people who get you in trouble.

Answer 6

confident, this is a stressful undertaking, with the aid of fact she replaced into placed in the region of having to settle on which discern to obey. Your ex genuinely don't have finished what he did. It replaced into disrespectful to you, undermined your authority, and brought about rigidity and uncertainty on your daughter. in simple terms given which you're no longer collectively any further, does no longer mean you're no longer on an analogous side - you're the two on your daughter's side, and he or she does not choose mothers and fathers competing for her affection by employing attempting to be "the good guy." He could have referred to as you (no longer in front of your daughter) and reported that he had was hoping to spend some time together with her, and asked your permission to postpone her punishment till ultimately a later time. If he concept the punishment replaced into excessively harsh, he could have suggested this to boot, and doubtless you 2 could have worked out a diverse punishment for destiny circumstances, even nonetheless it replaced into genuinely no longer ok for him to attempt to negate a punishment that had already been given. once you get domicile, you could tell your daughter which you get exhilaration from that she referred to as you to aid you be attentive to concerning the placement. tell her that, with the aid of fact of her honesty, she would be accepted to do a lighter chore (or an analogous one, for much less time) the next day. tell her which you and her father could communicate the suitability of a diverse punishment for comparable offenses, yet that regardless of determination is reached, she would be envisioned to abide by employing it.

Answer 7

At least you didnt catch a skillet 'cross the back of the head.

Answer 8

Well I guess you'll never disobey your mom ever again huh?!

LOL..... Shapewear...... LOL

Answer 9

It sounds as though it could and should've been worse. Be thankful come Feb. YOU'RE FREE!!!! All of you ;)

Answer 10

hahaha thats funny. maybe next time you will follow your moms rules