My husband and I have been together for almost 6 years. It has been very rocky but from time to time it is good. Then starts the arguments and the mean words. Does this mean that he wishes he wasn't with me? He is a flirt so maybe he wants to be single again.
He always has something bad to say about me and tells his friends that I am a bad person. He doesn't really show affection and our personal interactions usually end in an argument or him calling me a hurtful name.
2006-12-27 04:32:33 · 20 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He could want to be single again...but whatever he wants, please decide what YOU want, and I hope it's to not take what he does to you anymore. Don't let a person beat you into feeling bad by their words or actions.
2006-12-27 04:35:05 · answer #1 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to say for you to try and work it out and fix it, go to a church sponsored marriage encounter weekend, but it sounds like maybe it has gone past the talking and working it out stages,
maybe you should go see a GREAT attorney ( just so you know where you stand and what you can do about it), sorry but is sounds like he is done with you totally, he is just using the convenience of marriage of the home , food and clean clothes and like ( he is getting what else he needs from you too)
sorry, but you need to check out your options now before you really need them so your not scrambling like mad when and if it comes, but it sounds like it is coming anyway
and even though it may seem all guys may be like this, not all are..I know
good luck
smile
2006-12-27 09:13:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion: Advance yourself in the future, and your beautiful, intelligent, kind, and respectful daughter of 23 tell you these things about her husband. How would you feel? What would you do? What would you (want) your daughter to do?
Follow your own advice. You can do it, it may hurt but your happiness is the most important thing in life.
2006-12-27 04:45:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell this jerk that you have had enough of his abuse, tell him if he doesn't stop it Now! and make some changes how he treats you this marriage is over.
If he persists with this, try marriage counseling if he won't go, then i'd divorce this clown.
No one should have to put up with sort of crap
2006-12-27 04:42:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you marriage is rocky now, it will only get worse. Why are you with someone who treats you so horribly? Do you really desire to spend your life with someone like this?
2006-12-27 04:36:05 · answer #5 · answered by Creampoof737 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him if he would like to be single again and if so, give him what he wants! DON'T let him treat you this way, you deserve so much better!
2006-12-27 04:37:27 · answer #6 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that the two of you could benefit from marriage counseling. If he doesn't want to go, your marriage is over.
2006-12-27 04:39:08 · answer #7 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?? It seems a little immature to me that you are on Yahoo answers asking whether or not your husband wants to be with you....it sounds like you need to learn how to stand up for yourself when he calls you names and let him know that it is uncalled for when he speaks badly about you to his friends, etc...If you've been married for 6 years, I really don't understand why you haven't brought these issues up yet, but I think it might be time to stop looking for help on the internet, and start talking to your husband face to face. Good luck!
2006-12-27 04:37:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
trust me i know exactly what you are talking about!!! essayer said then done i also know! but you deserve better do you really want to spend the rest of your life like this?!
im faced with the same issue, and i cant do it either:(
2006-12-27 04:37:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this but he may not be into you anymore. How was everything during the beginning of the marriage?
2006-12-27 04:35:35 · answer #10 · answered by Fashionista 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋