My husbands ex wife keeps calling him on his cell phone?

Question

She left him for another man and there kids are grown men. However 6 months ago I found her cell phone # in his wallet. He said that his son gave it to him. Then 3 months ago she called and left a message on his cell to call her at work. I was so upset so I suggested that we call her together and find out want she wanted. He replied that I could call her and stated that he didn't know what she wanted and didn't want to talk to her. So i called her and asked her if Joe ever got hold of her and did she want to talk to him and she said he called her already, so I caught him in a lie. He said that he called to tell her that she did not need to call him and it was a real problem. I kept his cell phone and nothing happened untill 2 days ago and she called again. and I suggested that we call her together and set my mind at ease that nothing was going on with the two on them and he refused. He wante to wait an call the following day (

Answer 1

Dam babe, it seems he is still in involve with his ex-wife. Good luck.

Answer 2

I understand your concern but is there any chance your being a little paranoid? From what you've stated, nothing really strange has happened. They were together for a long time and will talk from time to time. You will need to accept that fact, they have a past including two children they raised together. It doesn't necessarily mean there's something going on in the present. He's probably embarrassed that you want to both talk to her at the same time...i would feel like a kid. Give him the benefit of the doubt until he gives you absolute proof he is cheating on you. Otherwise...this speculation may ruin your relationship with him. Good Luck!!!

Answer 3

Someones lying. How did you find out she left him for another man? Do you know all the circumstances behind the breakup? Funny thing about most married couples even after the divorce is that they still love each other, they just can't always make the relationship work. It's a little out of place for you to call this woman. Your problems don't lye with her but with your s/o. Trust me, if he didn't want her to call, he would stop her form doing so.

Answer 4

I Think You Just Need To Talk To Him Completely Truthfully

Answer 5

Check your cell phone bill and see how often the calls to and from her have been going on.

If it was nothing to worry about he would have easily offered what the conversations were about. But if they are contemplating getting back together than of course its hush-hush.

Answer 6

Well there is a reason that he will not call her in front of you and you need to find out why! If my husband did this to me it would be hard for me to say what I would do! I know that I would forever be a step ahead of him! I would talk to him and tell him that he is hurting you and see what you get out of that. If he gets really mad then he is definitely hiding something!

Answer 7

sweetie,im sorry these two are still having some kind of relationship he keeps avoiding trying to call when you suggest it my question is why do they need to converse in the first place,tell her as well as him you know what they are doing and will not tolerate anymore,tell her not to call him or your house at all tell him if it doesnt stop it is only going to escalate he should think about what he is doing is it going to be worth it to him.....good luck

Answer 8

Stop it. You married a man that had a family. They can communicate as often as they like. Sounds like you are not secure in your marriage. If you keep this up, you will drive him to her. Let them talk.

Answer 9

Why don't you just switch the sim cards on your phone so when she calls, you'll get it?? It is a bad way but.......if you want to know that bad, then go for it.

Answer 10

that is the problem with people, your husband and his ex got divorced for a reason. so now he is going to lie to you and get divirced again. i would talk to him and her and keep your guard up. now you are having trust issues and that is not good.