i don't know what to do!
my friends boyfriend proposed to her but the other week we got drunk and slept together!
i do not know what to do!
i mean i tiold my friend and all but i still feel guilty!
should i tell my friend not to marry him??
(i was the one drunk... not him)
2006-12-27 04:39:51 · 10 answers · asked by missy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i mean i told her everything about what happened so??
i don't want to lose her!
but i want her to lose him!
i am not hte only girl he cheated with
2006-12-27 04:46:20 · update #1
if uve told your friend then you've done all you can. Its now up to her to decide if she will marry him or not and whether she will keep you on as a friend
2006-12-27 05:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by Classique 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a serious question???
If I were you I would probably go hide under a rock and drink poison cuz I'm a total sl*t. Why would you sleep with your best friend's man no matter HOW drunk you are??
Okay, enough making you feel worse. (Sorry, but where are your morals child????)
Now that we have addressed what is wrong with you-WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOUR FRIEND??? I mean, seriously, she is thinking about marrying him even though you and her man slept together??? You have NO right to tell her not to marry him, if you do that she will think that you do not want them to get married cuz you still want him! If you still want to remain friends with her (I mean, a sl*t and an idiot pretty much belong together) then don't say ANYTHING.
By the way, what the hell state do you live in?? Arkansas, Indiana, or Tennessee? Is this guy's trailor big enough for all three of you?? Maybe you should BOTH marry him!
2006-12-27 04:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by brteimeh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being drunk is no excuse, that's probably why you are feeling guilty. If you really wouldn't have done it if not for your drinking prove to your friend that you know what you did was wrong and seek some sort of help for your problem. If she sees that you can be that strong maybe she'll rethink getting married to such an asshole
2006-12-27 04:44:18 · answer #3 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!! Honestly, I think the wedding will be called off anyway for the fact that your friends fiance slept with you. He wasn't even drunk!!! Feeling guilty is what happens when you betray someone and you won't get rid of it for a long time. I'll be supprised if you and your friend acctually stay friends! Good luck.
2006-12-27 04:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by esaheartp18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you told your friend the complete truth of what happen, and she still wants to marry him, then there is nothing that you can do about it. If you didn't tell her everything, then you need too. You can not control what her ultimate choice is.
2006-12-27 04:44:06 · answer #5 · answered by In love with Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well common sense tells her to not marry him and for friends like you she wouldn't need enemies
2006-12-27 04:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you told your friend about this, because I think if you did then she wouldn't be anywhere near him or you.
2006-12-27 04:43:19 · answer #7 · answered by Sandra W 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
huh?
first - stop drinking
second - your friend is old enough to think herself
2006-12-27 04:47:32 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever. I'm glad you're not my "friend".
2006-12-27 04:43:22 · answer #9 · answered by Gasman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, did you get this off jerry springer? maury? which show?
2006-12-27 04:42:18 · answer #10 · answered by Kell Bell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋