Its my elder sister, shes 4 years my senior, but we aernt particularly best of friends, we had a fight on the eve of christmas over a very trivial issue. And i told myself that i wouldnt speak to her ever again until she goes back to her school which is far from home. shes so touchy about respect, and misinterpretes almost all my actions, though we are now in good terms, i dont know for how long.Ive told my mum, but she just says i should try and understand my sister and she'll talk to her.Right now i'm so guarded when i talk to her, i dont want to have any more fights with her.I have a junior sister, and though i am her senior, we are very free with eachother and are best pals, pls i need advice, do i just let my senior sister be, and try and understand her like my mother says.......this days i'm not really excited when she calls to tell us she's comming home on break.
2006-12-27 04:41:54 · 8 answers · asked by funky girlie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
YOU GIRLS ARE SISTERS AND TROUGH LOVE OR HATE YOU ARE FOREVER BONDED BY BLOOD... YOU LOVE YOUR SISTER AND YOUR SISTER LOVES YOU IM WILLING TO BET YOU GUYS ARE SO MUCH ALIKE THAT IS THE REASON FOR THE FIGTHING. I DONT LIKE MY SISTERS ALL THE TIME AND WE DO ARGUE SOMETIMES BUT I DO LOVE THEM VERY MUCH. WORK IT OUT IS MY ADIVICE GOOD LUCK.
2006-12-27 04:58:34 · answer #1 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell us a little more. How old are you and so one can determine your sister's age. Also where in the pyramid of kids do you fit in and how did you get along before she left school 'far from home'. How long has it been since she left the nest for school and what was her pecking order in high school.
2006-12-27 04:47:43 · answer #2 · answered by Notorious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I trust you hun ? just about makes my head spin now and lower back .............. when I finally end up picking one i make constructive i tell all human beings that grew to become into sooo large how incredible all of them are ~ cos they are certainly ......... and in any case, that's what this is all approximately mate, talking with one yet another on a sense good point ? CHEERS ?
2016-11-23 19:46:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what i use to have the same problem with my older sist...... we didn't talk for more than two years.. now we're best friends.. specially because she moved out of the house.. haha..
just kidding.. she did move out of the house though.. but i say .. give it some time... and than try to talk to her with respect and dont bring this from the past.. if you do , all your going to achieve is to still live the same way you were when she was there... pretend nothing happen.. and start fresh
2006-12-27 04:53:17 · answer #4 · answered by JACKIE M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first of all, your question is WAY too long. Maybe you should talk to someone professional about all these issues. As far as not getting along, maybe you should just steer clear. Be the better person and the ADULT, and just don't argue back. Kill 'em with kindness.
2006-12-27 04:45:13 · answer #5 · answered by -Bibee- 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well when your sister ever comes home to visit. talk to her and tell her that you don't want to fight with her anymore, just tell her that you respect her privacy and she should do the same. when you fell an argument coming on, turn and walk away. to avoid. it. but what your mom says is true, let her be. good luck.
2006-12-27 04:55:36 · answer #6 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother is right of course. Everyone is different and we can't always get along but we should always try especially with family.
2006-12-27 04:45:42 · answer #7 · answered by Sandra W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well grow up, you two are sis and should help each other, and yes your mom is right now she get home ever now and then so why fight with her
2006-12-27 04:46:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋