Family & Relationships - 27 December 2006

The problem is the fact that when i was 7wks pregnant with her, he came over everything was going great then from like left field he started beating me and calling out of my name. He left me in a pile of blood and what a coincidence that my bf friend came over. she took me to the hospital . I was in like a trance of how the person that says they love you could do such a thing. Well the police got involved and he went to jail and got two years on probation and our little girl was born during the time. Well i had so much animosity against him and to this day still do even after all the counseling. he had supervised visits. As much as it killed me to let him see her i still did, because i didn't have to heart to hold her from him. My problem is my daughter only spent 10-15days with him threw the 4yrs and still has him on her mind day in and out. I cant make him be a dad but i cant tell our daughter that. Ive tried to get her mind on different things and occupied her more. its not working.

2006-12-27 05:24:43 · 6 answers · asked by Smile Alway's 3 in Family

ok well...i was going out with this guy and his name is austin....he started to get all flirty w\ other grrls like my BF (her name is Shelby)....so i broke up w\ him....me and shelby decided that he doesn't need a GF so neither of us went out w\ him....a day later i found out that austin and shelby were going out...i was going through like a little "deppression" thing cuz i was w\him for like 4 months....i still like him sooooooooooo bad but my BF is w\ him now and he flirts w\me but not like really bad....i miss him so much....i want to get back together w\ him sooo bad....i really loved him....

pls help out w\ as much advice as possible.... i need to know how to get over him...


thnx ")

2006-12-27 05:24:21 · 21 answers · asked by pink_luver 2 in Singles & Dating

If you live with one of your parents & they have been separated from your other parent for over 10yrs, & you're legal. Does that parent ( the one you don't live with) have the right to tell you how to live your life?

2006-12-27 05:24:08 · 9 answers · asked by Lue 2 in Family

his morals/beliefs?

his personality?

something else?

2006-12-27 05:24:06 · 23 answers · asked by Music fan 4 in Singles & Dating

I know it seems like an odd question, but I'd really like some feedback from guys about this. I know so many women who are very small/petite and never work out, and others who are healthy weights with seriously toned bodies and men always seem to check out the petite/skinny ones first.

2006-12-27 05:23:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

At my bank that i go to there is this bankteller that i truly like a lot. I know that the banktellers are suppose to smile and be friendly towards the customers. What is the best way for me to fnd out if she is single or is dating someone. I go to the bank once a week to deposit money and she is there whenever i see her. What should i do or say next? How can I get her to like me and to be able to go out with me?
Thanks again

2006-12-27 05:23:18 · 2 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 05:22:54 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im confused because i really like this guy and im pretty sure he feels the same and we've been getting really close lately as in lots of hugging and kissing cheeks and generally just a lot physical contact as well as txting a lot. But for the last couple of weeks we havnt been able to c each other cos of xmas and stuff and iv txted him twice but i havnt had a reply....i dont rle understand y hes gone cold all of a sudden....is it cos hes gone off me or could it be because of sumthing else? any ideas?

2006-12-27 05:22:53 · 16 answers · asked by make_a_wish995 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 05:22:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my relationship is falling apart, how do u know if you should keep trying to make it work. I woke up this morning realizing that maybe its my fault for our breakup, well see i guess i should just clarify the situation between me and my ex bf-- well we dont live together or anything like that... see he goes out like 24/7 with his boys but when i want to go out and hang out with my friends he doesnt allow me to.. he calls my phone constantly and tells me to go home... also when he is home he calls me and talks to me all day but when he is out with his boys he is rude and disrespectful and hangs up on me alot.... so whats the deal here?

2006-12-27 05:22:47 · 22 answers · asked by nasreen682002 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi,
I'm over 18 and my parents are too overprotective. Last night I was watching this movie and it was very good so I stayed up late to watch it till 3 am. My father came inside and began yellow and slapped me across the face. They told me to go to sleep but then I told them right now it's break and I want to finish this movie. They said that I disturb their sleep. I mean I close my bedroom door when I was watching the movie and he just open the door at 3 am in the morning just to give me lecture. I am not disturbing anyone when I watch the movie.
Not only that but also every time I go where anyone they always question. Where are you going and who are you going with ? I know they care for me but then I am not doing bad thing like drugs. And I don't go out that much anyway. Like once or twice in a week. When I say I go out I mean i go to stores that's all or hanging out with with my girlfriend. I'm just tired of how they treat me when I'm over 18 and not dong anything bad thing

2006-12-27 05:22:40 · 10 answers · asked by Lomus 2 in Family

2006-12-27 05:21:36 · 25 answers · asked by Music fan 4 in Singles & Dating

Why are some guys reluctant to make steady eye-contact?.... when communicating, or speaking, but make more eye-contact when the woman is speaking, and most guys are directly looking at a womans mouth....i have had this many times, but isn't that supposed to be a sign of the guy wanting to mate with the woman, or have sex with the woman, when guys do this to me, i actually find this off putting....so what does it really mean when a guy looks at a woman's mouth? and why dony guys make steady eye-contact unless the woman is speaking?

2006-12-27 05:20:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Right well spent xmas with the family which was really great but there was just on thing that really annoyed me, your probably all goin to call me self-centered or whatever but the thing is there is so much favouritism between me & my older brother he received a load more presents than I did, more expensive ones too with money on top too. I know this sounds really pathetic but it just seems that he's worth more to my parents so they spend more on him.

2006-12-27 05:20:39 · 26 answers · asked by imcoolendof123 1 in Family

well he broke up wit me and i dont no why i mean were still friends and all but i want him back!!PLEZ HELP!!!

2006-12-27 05:20:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

another girl asked him out and later me and that girl became best friends. Then the boy broke up with her and I have a good feeling he likes me and I really like him but I don't want to make my friend mad or lose her...I want to have him, my friend, and then everything would be good but I Have no idea what I should do...I need your opinion please!

2006-12-27 05:18:20 · 15 answers · asked by blonde but smart 1 in Singles & Dating

On your face or chest?

2006-12-27 05:18:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my wedding is in 3 months and i have nothing planned. all we know is where it is gong to be at. is there any web site that helps with wedding planning?

2006-12-27 05:18:06 · 14 answers · asked by avery's mommy 3 in Weddings

He told me he doesnt want a girlfriend rite now he's in tx and I live in Florida what should I do?

2006-12-27 05:18:01 · 10 answers · asked by tamishaus 1 in Singles & Dating

My Fiance's parents live in Germany and don't speak english, should we have two weddings? One overseas, and one hear, or should we try to bring every one to one place?

2006-12-27 05:17:38 · 4 answers · asked by pilotjeannie89 2 in Weddings

i have been wit my bf for 2 yrs n sum months. i dunno y but im still so shy wit him n i kno thats not normal. i love him wit everything but im so shy i dunno y. like there are so many parts of me that he has not seen cuz im uncomfortable showin it to him cuz im so shy. y am i so shy n wat can i do to overcome this because i love him so much. now his prom is comin up soon i am 2 yrs older than him i didnt go to my own wit him cuz i was too shy im not a dancer n im not really into it. i kno hes gonna wanna go to his but im too shy to go. im fine wit everyone else but wit him for sum reason im so shy. y wit him am i only shy. wat do i do bout prom? how do i overcome bein shy around him n be myself? is this normal cuz i dont think so. plz help wit real answers only.

2006-12-27 05:17:10 · 19 answers · asked by Fahion_Gal 1 in Singles & Dating

like i notice dis guy fancies me but he hasnt made moves and i am getting sick but everyone keep slagging i am thinking of not thinking about him anymorebut i once fancied him and i stopped for about a month and again he came into my mind again wont people make jest of me even if he makes d move tanks

2006-12-27 05:17:02 · 7 answers · asked by ~~temmy.... 2 in Singles & Dating

okay heres what i need help with, for next xmas i need to get my bf something but i`m asking what to get him now cuz i wanna save up for it i honestly dont know what he likes well i dont know much about what he likes, but i wanna get him something really cool maybe something to do with sport esp. the yankees he loves them but i dont know what to get him, help!!!!!

2006-12-27 05:16:01 · 1 answers · asked by Joanna 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I NEVER want to have sex with my husband any more, and it's hurting our relationship. Every time he touches me, I want to push him away. Any advice that can help?

2006-12-27 05:15:35 · 20 answers · asked by stephanie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Wish your girlfriend was hot like me ?

2006-12-27 05:15:03 · 7 answers · asked by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 in Singles & Dating

If soo give me ur names....ok?

2006-12-27 05:15:01 · 4 answers · asked by Janelle H 1 in Singles & Dating

Other than traffic signs say stop, hahahaha

2006-12-27 05:14:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so were talking about like new years and stuff & i said


me: wow there's only 5 days left in 2006 woah the year went by fast

him: hmm i wonder what i should do for new year's...?

me: are you gonna try and get that midnight kiss? hahaha

him: oh wow i want to. hahah

me: well make sure its a good gal......cuz its the begining of the year!!! no pressure haha

him: aha are you guna look for one too?




and yeah
this is in comments
were ok friends
and i don't know
exactly what to reply.
thanks!

2006-12-27 05:14:44 · 4 answers · asked by Laura 2 in Singles & Dating

i think im a spoiled brat b/c my mommy and daddy get me everything i want when i want it. am i a spoiled brat?

2006-12-27 05:13:34 · 52 answers · asked by dancer_4_life123 1 in Family

I honestly dont dig the whole gay thing . I know its old but it aint eve and eve and steve and steve is it . Im not religious in any way but that is such a gr8 way to put it . I mean come on we each have certain holes and tools and they fit together nicely the others are just wron especially gay men , ladies I can kinda cope with as they have nothing to stick in each other but OMG gay fellas and the whole BUM thing ERRRRGGGHHH . Seriously

2006-12-27 05:12:06 · 42 answers · asked by C 3 in Other - Family & Relationships