I NEVER want to have sex with my husband any more, and it's hurting our relationship. Every time he touches me, I want to push him away. Any advice that can help?
2006-12-27 05:15:35 · 20 answers · asked by stephanie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try to indentify what it is..
Is it lack of romance?
Do you not feel well?
Unfulfilled (even though you have much... do you recognize that you do?)
Talk openly about it with your husband and MAKE AN EFFORT!!
Think of how you value your husband, and don't let go of it. If you are putting yourself first that needs to stop too.
Start giving and enjoy giving - that will bring health in alot of ways.
2006-12-27 05:20:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes this really is such a common marital issue. I have no idea why the hormones work this way. Go to your Dr and discuss this situation. There is a cream that can be purchased that will help with your libido. I suggest the cream because it does not have the adverse side effects of pills. But make sure you follow thru with this other wise it could create other issues that you don't want to deal with. Meaning affairs etc.
2006-12-27 05:19:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a classic vaginal transport, this is maximum suitable to attend approximately 6-8 weeks before doing something extreme. communicate on your different 0.5 approximately your needs, gown alluring, and in some unspecified time sooner or later, could ought to have a sitter for the toddler ( wait till the toddler is older) and take off for the nighttime. After new child beginning, hormones are varieties loopy and the force in simple terms wont be there till issues come back to favourite. yet there are how you could beat the gadget, its all psychological. hello, a great night out, eating and a visit to a lodge for some wild and loopy intercourse is a good thank you to spice up your esteem.
2016-10-06 02:02:33 · answer #3 · answered by grumney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see a doctor it may be something more physical than mental. Everyone is quick to jump to the mental, but if you yourself are not feeling well, who wants to be pawed upon.
You have to think about why they made viagra...not just a sex drug, but a drug to help men with erectile dysfunction, and women can have the female version. It's called Female impotency.
Signs: avoiding sexual intimacy, lack of sexual energy or desire
More women suffer from poor sex drive then men, they just don't realize it.
Causes: stress, menopause, hysterectomy, birth control pills, prescription medications, hormonal changes, parenting, age, diet
So if you love him, and you know that you do...then get checked!
2006-12-27 05:27:35 · answer #4 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever had a bad orgasm? Hum? I mean, even the worst orgasm I ever had was really really good. Come on now. Even if you are not smokin hot or in the mood, give it a shot anyway. Whats the worst that could happen? You have an orgasm that is only good? Sure beats none now dont it? Plus think of it. It you are pleasing your mate, you are more likely to get more of what you want from them in other ways.
2006-12-27 05:20:02 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you guys had kids? I know that changed my sex drive a lot. But it does slowly start to come back. You just have to remember to make time for just the two of you. And don't rush it - the feelings will come back.
2006-12-27 05:27:28 · answer #6 · answered by imadancr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have some advise that may help. Why don't you plan a nice romantic weekend getaway . That time alone with no distractions will enhance your relationship so you can both become intimate and explore each other. Give it a try as I'm sure you won't be disappointed. Go for it and have fun!
2006-12-27 05:22:06 · answer #7 · answered by lorrina b 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Only Justin Timberlake can help you. A few years ago he stole all the sexy in the world, and only recently did he decide to bring it back. You probably haven't got yours yet, he's a busy guy. I suggest you write him a few dozen letters. That ought to get his attention.
2006-12-27 05:29:11 · answer #8 · answered by Steven S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seek either (or both) therapy to understand why you are reacting this way, and see a doctor to see if there are any HEALTH reasons why your libido is low - many illnesses can also decrease your libido - so I suggest seeing a doctor about this - and fast, or you may lose your marriage.
2006-12-27 05:18:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try vigorous exercise three times a week. after exercise take a hot shower. sooner than later your sex drive will come back. exercise increases the heart rate, more so than sex, however the exercise increases libido.
2006-12-27 05:23:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋