im confused because i really like this guy and im pretty sure he feels the same and we've been getting really close lately as in lots of hugging and kissing cheeks and generally just a lot physical contact as well as txting a lot. But for the last couple of weeks we havnt been able to c each other cos of xmas and stuff and iv txted him twice but i havnt had a reply....i dont rle understand y hes gone cold all of a sudden....is it cos hes gone off me or could it be because of sumthing else? any ideas?
2006-12-27 05:22:53 · 16 answers · asked by make_a_wish995 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There could be any number of reasons why he hasn't replied to your texts.
Christmas is always a busy time of the year for anyone, so try texting him again sometime this week before the New Year. Don't text him anything like, "Why haven't you replied?" Just a, "Hi how was your Christmas?" kind of thing will do and then see what happens.
I'm sure he'll get in touch with you again at some point, but if he doesn't, then that's the time to try and get some kind of proper answer from him.
2006-12-27 05:47:24 · answer #1 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have a lot of commitments over xmas. I would wait until after the holidays and hopefully things will get back to how they were. Good luck!
2006-12-27 13:25:53 · answer #2 · answered by flyingconfused 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you wait a few days more, then just ring him. don't text him. ring him! The text message might not reach his phone or he might of lost his phone. if you know where he lives then go and visit, after all its christmas and people do visit each other don't they. if you don't know his address then, you got to ask yourself why!!! let's face it, if you are so close with each other what i have suggested should not be a problem!! if you don't get anywhere after all that, then move on with your life and forget him with some happy memories!!! good luck!!
2006-12-27 14:23:56 · answer #3 · answered by b1uecee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because boys have no attention span. Out of sight and out of mind on those school breaks.
When school starts, he'll be back. Stop obsessing over him and do your thing during the holidays. You keep texting him and it will become a game to him...."how many times will she text me today without me answering"...
Don't give in and enjoy yourself.
2006-12-27 13:26:26 · answer #4 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could just be busy, but it's a bit suspect (not to mention rude) to not reply to either message. My advice would be to not text him again and see if he contacts you. Then you can ask him about it face to face when you next see each other.
2006-12-27 13:25:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try calling him and being honest about how you feel. If he doesn't answer, try your best to put him to the back of your mind until he contacts you- but don't make anymore contact after that.
2006-12-27 13:26:28 · answer #6 · answered by Brown eyez! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey...it's the holidays. Wait until the holidays are over to come to a decision. He could be just busy with family and friends so don't jump the gun.
2006-12-27 13:25:40 · answer #7 · answered by tonaloha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well right now its too soon to tell. instead of txtin (sum times they dont go thro)jus call him and if no answer either he lost the phone or is caught in all the hype of the holidays and it prob. sliped his mind. right now its too soon to tell. make it easy on yourself just call him! that way you can get stright to the point and wont have to suffer.
2006-12-27 13:29:35 · answer #8 · answered by butta77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is just sad
maybe he IS hard to get, and a hard man is good to get I have heard
maybe his wife is being impossible so he extrapolates to ALL women without even considering
maybe he is really sorry for whatever he is or isn't doing right
2006-12-27 13:26:30 · answer #9 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually when you cant get ahold of someone its not like they are dying on a street corner,,they usually dont want to be found,,move on.
2006-12-27 13:26:35 · answer #10 · answered by heartzz_ablaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋