ok well...i was going out with this guy and his name is austin....he started to get all flirty w\ other grrls like my BF (her name is Shelby)....so i broke up w\ him....me and shelby decided that he doesn't need a GF so neither of us went out w\ him....a day later i found out that austin and shelby were going out...i was going through like a little "deppression" thing cuz i was w\him for like 4 months....i still like him sooooooooooo bad but my BF is w\ him now and he flirts w\me but not like really bad....i miss him so much....i want to get back together w\ him sooo bad....i really loved him....
pls help out w\ as much advice as possible.... i need to know how to get over him...
thnx ")
2006-12-27 05:24:21 · 21 answers · asked by pink_luver 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what you should do is tell your Friend that you still feel something for him that's what happened to me to like my Friend was in your shoes and i was hers but she let me have him ya but tell your Friend he flirts with you and that u still sort of like him and shell know what to do or maybe shes just not a true Friend or what else is you should move on there are better fish in the sea and flirt your heart out with other guys K
2006-12-27 05:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by Desibabyy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off, this guy sounds a bit dishonest and so does shelby. What kind of friend is she when she says she wouldnt go out with him and then turns around the very next day and starts to go out with him? Look, just dont get clingy to the guy and keep away from shelby. She sounds back-stabbing like and you really dont need to be her friend
2006-12-27 05:31:00 · answer #2 · answered by Diamante 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your ex will never be happy until he has sampled every pretty girl his eye catches. You can continue back and forth with the friend, but he is going to have another girl waiting for him as well. Your ex likes flirting and loves the attention he is getting. He will never change and be with just one girl. I would move on to another guy that your friend doesn't find attractive. When you get a little older you will realize that you don't need to waste your time with this petty crap. There are so many guys out there who won't do that to you. Good luck and GOD bless.
2006-12-27 05:29:15 · answer #3 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go out with him, he's not worth your time and he seems like a jerk. And it also seems like you BF, may not truly be you BF, if she'll go after a guy that you are in love with. Even though you ant your ex are not together anymore, I believe its for the best, you should be able to see what a jerk he is now. His in a relationship yet he hits on other girl. Hun, you can do better, I know its hard but you need to try to forget him. Try hang out with new people to forget about this jerk, and maybe try working out or volunteering.
2006-12-27 05:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,
This is a tough one. If he is flirting w/ u after you broke up, that kid needs a life. He will never be satisfied w/ a girl and do not waste your valueable time with him. Keep looking for a special person that will make you smile, and a person that will never go out with your BFF.
And if you are still friends with that girl, you need to rethink that friend choice.
Hope I helped!
A concerned teenager
2006-12-27 05:29:32 · answer #5 · answered by !~CoNvErSe~! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely this isn't a comic book tale, I felt an same way w/ my husband. i exploit to w/ him the first 4 yrs we were mutually. now we were 2gether almost 8 yrs, and for the previous 3 a million/2 yrs i finished! i began seeing undesirable habit in him. Like spitting, not flossing his teeth. NO comic tale. also he has a tendency to have more desirable saliva in his mouth. i don't like that. Are you kissing too a lot w/ Saliva? Why do not you ask her. in case you both do not communicate about such issues as this, that's going to ON worsen! regrettably to say i'm @ that aspect w/ my husband, and he's now not wanting to kiss me! do not imagine you both can study one yet another minds. " communicate w/ one yet another " KEY note IN MARRIAGE!!! solid success
2016-10-16 21:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just search for someone else. I have never convinced myself that my best friend and I could never like the same guy. One would have to make a sacrifice. It's always what we don't have that we want. Just keeps your eyes open to whats out there. See he will continue to flirt as long as you allow him to. But you need to show him you aren't interested even if you are. Don't be foul just be secure with your current situation that you are in. You can have any guy you want if you put you mind to it. So why limit yourself with someone like that.
2006-12-27 05:35:23 · answer #7 · answered by afj60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry love, I think you are going to have to put this one down to experience. If a chap can play two good friends at the same time then I am afraid he is not worth any effort. Let your friend have him and just wish her luck. I think she will see him for what he is very soon. There are far better men for you. Good luck
2006-12-27 05:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by PHILIP C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to reconsider who your friends are and to forget this bum. If he did this to you once, he will always do it. It sounds to me like he is setting you up as his back-up GF.
Forget him -- move on, from both your BF and him...
Time and staying busy will help you get over him. Don't just jump right into another relationship - that will cause you more problems
Sorry - Good Luck!
2006-12-27 05:30:17 · answer #9 · answered by sandilo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple and to the point... You do not need back stabbing people in your life. What kind of friends are they?
Get on with your life and find a different and cuter boyfriend and definitely a girl friend you can trust.
2006-12-27 05:30:33 · answer #10 · answered by Samantha1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋