another girl asked him out and later me and that girl became best friends. Then the boy broke up with her and I have a good feeling he likes me and I really like him but I don't want to make my friend mad or lose her...I want to have him, my friend, and then everything would be good but I Have no idea what I should do...I need your opinion please!
2006-12-27 05:18:20 · 15 answers · asked by blonde but smart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
think back to when you broke up...did you break up with him or did he break up with you? did you only still like him because he was your first love or because he was just soooo hott? did you only befriend his new gf because you secretly wanted him back? if you were only her friend cuz you wanted him then go for him....if you were her friend because you liked her for reasons that had nothing to do with him, then forget the guy. no friendship is worth loosing for an ex boyfriend. if you and this guy have broken up before, it was for a reason. maybe it will work out if you get back together, but 9 times out of 10 it won't work again.
2006-12-27 05:23:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn girl, you are confused. first of all well this is a kinda personall ? so it would be better if you figured it out yourself. but ill help you. ok first of all find out if the guy likes you. then ask your self do like him enough to (Maybe) give up your best friends. and from what i read they broke up correct, as in the thing didnt work any more. so it probably just youre nerves working over time. besides if you love him she doesnt matter. and if she your friend shell understand. well good luck on this rather confused affair. oh yeah and if he refuses cntact me i wont refuse, lol im just kidding good luck girl.
2006-12-27 05:25:48 · answer #2 · answered by jack m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you made your choice when you broke up with him. If you play those types of games, guys will look elsewhere. "Secretly" liking someone and breaking up with them is a mind game that no guy wants to play.
2006-12-27 05:21:29 · answer #3 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to ur friend about it. tell her how u feel about the guy and she should understand. i know it probally won't be that easy but when u get it over with u will feel better. tell me how it goes plz. u can e-mail at :
rocky_24_kookie@yahoo.com
I hope it works out 4 ya!
2006-12-27 05:27:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go out with him!!!! because friends will always be there u see how they broke up and ur still there? so when u two break up she wont b there and whose head r u going to lean on
2006-12-27 05:20:43 · answer #5 · answered by Upgraded Beauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 sum
2006-12-27 05:24:21 · answer #6 · answered by city 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figures your blonde, don't go back with him nimrod, theirs a reason why you broke up in the first place.
2006-12-27 05:20:14 · answer #7 · answered by doctorslapnut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find new friends and get yourself out of that situation
2006-12-27 05:31:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a hard thing u have in front of you. try talking to ur friend be starigh with her..that might work
2006-12-27 05:20:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go out w him if she duznt understand then she isnt a good friend
2006-12-27 05:25:12 · answer #10 · answered by nickizzle4rizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋