Cleans his house, cooks dinner for him, does his dirty laundry, drives his drunk *** home when he calls at all hours of the morning/night, buys him clothes, NEVER calls bugging him, waits for him to call her unless important, invites him to do things at her expense., sexual favors at his command,... etc... Please tell me how you would treat a woman if she treated u this way, and with no strings attached... Be serious i want mature adult answers.
2006-12-27 04:38:32 · 26 answers · asked by soinluv04 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
marrying this guy would be out of the question, he would be worse after your married
and if I had a girl like this I would ask her NO tell her I am ( we are ) sharing all the work and other stuff in the house, why should she do it all, after all at least half of it is mine, and why not cook for her and surprise her too, I think she would like that sometimes...
sorry if your doing all of it, teach your children a better way, without putting guys down in front of your children, take a different approach and tech them what you know it should be like, so when your boys go to there, their wife will love her mother in law...start a new thing for the future,
smile
good luck
2006-12-27 09:06:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a woman did even half of that for me, I'd treat her like a queen! I cook and clean for my wife. I do more than my fair share of helping with the kids. I do laundry. All that before and after putting in an 8 hour day at work. I've been doing it for so long that I now feel that it is expected of me. It gets old, but what do you do when you do it for the people you love?
2006-12-27 04:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by Arty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. Quite honestly, I would stay clear of this type of a relationship. Guessing it may be you, at the risk of hurting your feelings, I feel that the woman who does this is either very insecure, or head over heels in outer space. Call me masochistic and an MCP, but I'd not be able to live with myself if I made someone, do all that for me..
2006-12-27 05:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by Sarab s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems as if she is what you call a women because I might be in her shoes now, she just needs a man and seems as if she doesn't have that..I think she deserves to be treat like a queen because she is treating him like a king...maybe if she step back a little bit he will start to appreciate her..she should stop doing all those things for him and let him do somethings for her..
2006-12-27 04:43:23 · answer #4 · answered by T-MAC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman, and if I were a guy I would treat her like she is treating herself, with obvious disrespect. If you make it so easy and you are nothing but the ultimate doormat, then what do you expect, a proposal? dump this idiot immediately and spend the money on yourself, get good counselling for your self esteem issues. Make sure the next guy you meet does a lot of things for you. Its' give and take, otherwise, they would walk, piss and puke all over you. Wake up!
Good Luck
2006-12-27 04:44:10 · answer #5 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a rarity. Just like me; a traditional woman, a woman with value, worth, and love. Like me, you've probably been taken for granted, forgotten, and lost time and love and affection.
Remember who you are, and how much you are worth. It's gonna take a pretty special man to break down my shields. I refuse to be a doormat for anyone ever again, and you should do the same.
2006-12-27 04:47:41 · answer #6 · answered by ndngrlz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a one way relationship. She needs to expect more from him or get out of the relationship and find someone who plays fair.
2006-12-27 04:42:21 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy with a girlfriend like this would likely start taking her for granted and expecting her to serve him at all costs. Personally, I would never to any of this stuff for a man. I have myself to serve.
2006-12-27 04:41:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would treat her lyk a princess if she does sexual favours at my command and all the things mentioned above by u I would teat her lyk a princess
2006-12-27 04:50:13 · answer #9 · answered by Dj Badboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question is, how should she be treating herself? Not like this. If this is how he treats her, he doesn't care for her and certainly doesn't love her. He's using her. She needs to realize that this is an abusive situation and she deserves better! (Been there, done that AND won't do it again!)
2006-12-27 04:42:45 · answer #10 · answered by Cynthia D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋