I nolonger trust my partner because he cheated and hurt me sevral times but i do love the person I'm with.
2006-12-27 04:08:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
One word....counseling.
It really is that easy. It's a first step. There is no quick fix.
2006-12-27 04:11:22 · answer #1 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK i ve been in the same situation and things really do change.(A LOT) I really do love my husband but i always worried about the 5 W's and how. I don't know your situation but iam sure that the hurt is the same. I gave my husband a second chance but i wish that i didn't because of the person iam now. I have always been strong but now iam stronger then ever. If i knew now what didn't know then i d be damned if i even give him a second chance. I honestly didn't think that it was gonna affect this much,i mean i know that it was gonna hurt but Ive changed a lot and i just don't see him the same anymore. People are different in their own way and if you decided to give your husband another chance then good luck and may GOD be with and your family.
2006-12-27 05:50:59 · answer #2 · answered by love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the foundation of a marriage, if you can't trust your partner it's not worth the pain. Love on the other hand will cloud your mind and let you think all is OK when in fact it isn't. If you can sit down and logically say it's know good ("cheated and hurt me several times") then believe me it isn't. Good luck and may God Bless you.
2006-12-27 04:40:22 · answer #3 · answered by beamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to resolve this is to talk to your mate and let him know how you feel. You should also seek counseling because you should not feel like this about your marriage. Marriage is about love, but trust is also a big factor. Good luck and God bless.
2006-12-27 04:24:15 · answer #4 · answered by TRUST_ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the base of any relationship! You need to leave, its going to hurt, but with time your heart will heal.
2006-12-27 04:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by veronica c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loving someone doesn't mean you have to be with them. You can love from afar.... and forgive me for asking, but how can you truly love someone you can't trust??????????
2006-12-27 04:12:16 · answer #6 · answered by The ReDesign Diva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love yourself first. leave him.
2006-12-27 07:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by blue violet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋