Whenever my boyfriend and I have sex he never makes a sound. He only makes noise whenever I do oral. I worry so much about him enjoying it that it sometimes makes the sex awkward for me.
2006-12-27 04:47:16 · 26 answers · asked by SweetnSour 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you have to wonder what he is thinking about.Or should I say whom.Long as he calls you by your name and not Britney your OK.
2006-12-27 04:53:59 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everyone is different, not all people are screamers and moaners.
There is nothing wrong with it, one way or the other, same thing with women...not everyone is the star of their own porn film and holler for all the neighbors to hear. Have you tried communicating
your concerns to him? Most men love oral sex and are more vocal when it comes to that...but when it comes to sex, they concentrate so much on fantasizing and pleasing you that they may not be as verbal or none at all. My husband is the same way and I find nothing wrong with it, we have spoken and he enjoys sex just as much as he likes oral. I always talk to him during sex and he seems to respond to that, and talks back as well. Try it!
2006-12-27 05:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by earthstarlatin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys feel awkward about making sounds.
For a long time i wouldn't make a peep because I felt like i sounded stupid.
I sat down with an ex of mine, and we talked about it. She asked me why I was so quiet, and I told her I didn't feel like I needed to make any noise.
She asked me if I found it to be a turn-on when she moaned. And of course I did.
She made me realize that she was just as turned on by my moans as i was by hers. And that it would make it better for her, if I let go of my reservations a little more.
You should talk to him about it. Don't be imposing or threatening, just calm and easy, you know?
2006-12-27 04:58:05 · answer #3 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him during sex to open up his vocal cords. Some people are just focused on what is happening down there and do not verbally express the enjoyment. I love to hear my man make noises but he is quiet too so I just start talkin to him all sexy like to get him into it. Works for me.
2006-12-27 04:53:38 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Crickett 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No need to worry about ti hun. i remember i was with this guy that made noise so much so i use to ask him if he came when he stopped. But then when i got supper comfortable with him and him with me he would make grunts or breathe deeply when he was about to come or sometimes he would even squeeze me. So even if he said nothing i would no. Don't worry about it.
2006-12-27 04:54:17 · answer #5 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's normal. but isn't it a huge turn on if they make some little noise? So, usually during sex, i'd make him make some noise by asking him.. "how do you feel hun.." things like that.
2006-12-27 05:04:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If worried just stick to oral and enjoy the noise/s.
2006-12-27 04:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by Jai 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yea.... I've noticed this too. MOST guys dont make sounds. I think they get a little embarrassed to do so. Its something you have to work with your man on. I have been with my man for almost 4 yrs, and he has come around and he now does make sounds. I think most guys assume they should be silent partners when it comes to sex. Good luck
2006-12-27 04:50:30 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey....you are having sex with him! Of course he loves it. Some people are just quiet. Don't worry about it and don't ask questions or that'll wreck the sex mood. Just go with it and get into it and stop worrying
2006-12-27 04:53:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some people are noisy during sex, some people are quiet. It is sweet of you to worry about him, but he may be lost in another world. Assuming you talk to him afterward, ask him how he felt.
2006-12-27 04:52:45 · answer #10 · answered by enslaved2her 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-15 09:05:39 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋