Family & Relationships - 27 December 2006

What is so bad with a person like this??(see description in add'l details)

2006-12-27 11:04:22 · 15 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Singles & Dating

He has filled her head with the fact that he is trying his hardest, but he has no money, lives out of the city, instead of the truth which is he is a selfish substance abuser. My current bf cares for her and is great to her, yet she is always talking about how wonderful her daddy is yet she hasn't heard from him in 5 mnths. Is she just trying to hold on to the past? It hurts my bf's feelings when she says her dad is the best, and he's the one that's been there, not her dad, but he understands that she is only 6 and will be there for her. How do I make her understand that her father is selfish, and will never be a father to her? It breaks my heart to see her clinging onto what ever she can about her father, and he can't even call her on Christmas, or send her a gift, and she defends him. I don't want to hurt her, but she needs to know and appreciate the other people in her life that ARE there, and DO care about her and not live in the dreamworld that he has filled her head with.

2006-12-27 11:03:49 · 25 answers · asked by JENNIFER P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-27 11:03:47 · 13 answers · asked by hanu 1 in Singles & Dating

what is it like to be in love?

2006-12-27 11:03:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend recently moved in with me... becuz she was having problems at home... I have a car and apartment.. but she doesnt have a car... also she doesnt pay any bills--- I guess to save up for a car.. I have to drive back and forth to pick her up alot plus she rarely gives me gas... But the other day she gave her mom 300 dollars??? whats that all about.. am I not being understanding?? what should I do??

2006-12-27 11:02:51 · 16 answers · asked by Renee 2 in Friends

Australian, British ,London, Country ,New Yorker
Which ones do guys like more

2006-12-27 11:02:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she is getting very depressed due to daddy drinking and i can not get him to quit of his own will...he had a heart attack 3 months ago, and the doctor told him he could not drink with his meds...today is our 15th anniversary, and i hope that we can make many more.....any ideas?

2006-12-27 11:02:14 · 13 answers · asked by dyciane 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Were a car what kind of car best describes your personality and looks and why?

2006-12-27 11:02:09 · 19 answers · asked by D'oh! 5 in Singles & Dating

When you get in a fight or you just get mad at your significant other, do you replay the whole fight or conversation in your head over and over... even if you already made up?

Maybe I just think too much. Or maybe I have too much time in my hands. LOL.


By the way, I've been with my boyfriend for like 10 1/2 months. So the relationship isn't new and I'm not obsessively scared or anything of what will happen. Haha. I'm just curious.

2006-12-27 11:00:51 · 5 answers · asked by ( Kelly ) 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

This young woman I work with has a boyfriend who has not given her a Christmas present for the two years they have been dating. They now live together and he missed another one. She is very upset by this, but he says he doesn't believe in buying gifts. She is asking our advice on what to do. Is this worth breaking up a relationship over? I can't understand why he just can't get her a gift to keep the peace. Is this foreshadowing on their future? I think so, what about you.

2006-12-27 10:59:47 · 40 answers · asked by Pepper's Mommy 5 in Singles & Dating

Oaky....so I'm a little bitter towards men. I was with this guy I planned to marry. We both had the thought of marriage in the near future.... but the more I realized it...the more I saw how immature he is. As of recent, we are no longer together... and it doesn't seem to bother him. What is the age where men mature and deal with issues instead of putting it under the rug so to speak?

2006-12-27 10:59:14 · 33 answers · asked by Michelle 3 in Singles & Dating

Everyone has done something they regret.

2006-12-27 10:59:03 · 19 answers · asked by CUTIE 4 in Friends

2006-12-27 10:58:01 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 10:57:49 · 14 answers · asked by PEGGY J 1 in Singles & Dating

ok if your talkin under your breath to someone like your parents or your aunts doesnt that shpw hpw scared and chicken you are to say what you really want to say to that persons face cuz thats what my cuzins do and it gets me very angry and it gets to me like they dont respect!

2006-12-27 10:56:56 · 9 answers · asked by The CEO of Yahoo Answers! © 4 in Friends

There's this guy. And i really liked him. And he told me that he really really liked me and i told him i liked him too. And i went on vacation. So i came back and he had asked out someone else. This is the second time this has happened to me. I dont get it. Why does it happen to me?

2006-12-27 10:54:21 · 1 answers · asked by Karen Smith 3 in Singles & Dating

I used to have a crush on this one guy. After I learned more about his personality I got over it even though nothing ever happened between us. My best friend knew and told her boyfriend and considering the fact that we have the same circle of friends sure enough everyone is going to know about it. What bothers me most isn't the fact they will know but that she told it. I mean if I ever tell her something more important than a silly crush and tell her it's a secret will she be able to keep her mouth shut?

2006-12-27 10:53:37 · 11 answers · asked by meluea 1 in Friends

when i started talking to this guy, i did not anticipate a relationship. I knew he had ex issues. i just wanted to have fun. We go 2 college together. then he started telling me all these sweet things. it seemed as if he had deep feelings for me.

im usually the one who falls first, and it never works out. so i thought it would be ok to let myself go with him. this time, since he started it.

3months go by we spend all our free time together. maybe 3 months isnt long. mayeb im rushing? i think he should know if he wants to be steady or not.

i bring it up and he says: "i want to be with you. its just if i get with u now it wont be fair to you b/c me and her (the ex) have unresolved issues that i need to figure out and dont want to be thinking about while im with you. when im with you it should be all about you."

so now i wonder what to do. am i wasting my time. should i stick around. do i leave him alone

2006-12-27 10:53:13 · 19 answers · asked by Tian 3 in Singles & Dating

we've gone out like 5 times and he is still Nervous around me ,enough that I still dont know if i am seeing any of his real personality yet...why is this guy still so nervous around me (it kinda makes me nervous too )

2006-12-27 10:51:41 · 7 answers · asked by coppertv 1 in Singles & Dating

i was taken away from my mum when i was 5 (i'm now 13) because she used to beat me and always get p***ed up, fighting etc... she is a changed woman now and i go down to see her nearly everyday but i want to start sleeping there and my nan and grandad won't let me (i live with my nan and grandad) they are forever getting on at me and its getting me down. they are pushing me away and i want to go and live back with my mum, do i have the right to? how do i tell my grandparents i want to live with her? please help

2006-12-27 10:51:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am so sorry for your loss this Christmas. xx

2006-12-27 10:50:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My mom will be mad, but she had me when she was 15 so she should know how it is when you are young and preggie.

She will be a grandma at 28 and it will be great because she will have enough energy for my babies.

How do I tell her I am prego? My baby's daddy said he will marry me and we plan to move into a mobile home near my middle school. His mama will pay for the baby.

2006-12-27 10:50:41 · 24 answers · asked by HappyHippo 1 in Family

2006-12-27 10:50:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 10:49:54 · 11 answers · asked by babydol556 1 in Singles & Dating

im 21, and in short, my life time ive been engaged twice. and it seems once we took the step toward marriage, they both fell off... well i kinda pushed them off.... i found out one cheated, and the other left me for some chick he met on myspace(aka the root of all evil)

2006-12-27 10:49:38 · 43 answers · asked by Ashley S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating someone for 3 mnths, & I finally brought him over to dinner. He has tattoos, smokes, doesn't have a great job & has some other skeletons. My parents were kind of open to meeting, but apparently they asked him some things about his past that didn't quite sound real, so they basically told me he was BS-ing me, and I should start distancing myself.
On one hand, they really know people, plus they're my parents, & I know they want the best for me and raised me in a wonderful household.
If he's lying to my family on their first meeting, & yes, I think he might have exaggerated some things...then that's not cool. But I think he was nervous & stressed and trying to impress...I can kind of forgive that, although that's what my 'rents are really annoyed with. I've never felt so happy with someone before. He's made me feel so open & like just living is all that matters, nothing else. I'm so torn, I can't figure out how to do what. I love my family, but this is so hard!

2006-12-27 10:49:38 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please tell me what to do!! two months ago I broke up with my bf who I had for 4 years relationship...then suddenly I found a new bf...after that I didnt know why after having 3 weeks relationship...my new bf broke up with me....I didnt even cry for this two relationship....I want to know why? and am I ready for a new relationship?

2006-12-27 10:47:23 · 9 answers · asked by naomi 2 in Singles & Dating

Also, how do you find out if he likes you without directly asking him?

2006-12-27 10:45:50 · 17 answers · asked by Rachel 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this hispanic guy who just moved next door to my house. He's overly-friendly toward me and my sisters. He is always trying to invite us over his house and asking if he can come over our house when our parents go to work. I used to think he was crazy. He never cuts his grass, but as soon as it starts raining he goes outside and trims his hedges. I think that its an act. He always tells us that he wants friends, but he refuses to have coversation with adults. He only talks to us. He says it's because he feels weird talking to other people. (Our dad is hispanic, but it really makes no difference what our race is. He always talks to us in English) Do yall think he is a pedofile or is he just crazy? And how can I find out?

2006-12-27 10:44:53 · 13 answers · asked by Reese's Pieces 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been married for 7 years and my marriage has not been the same for the past 2 1/2 years... We are more like roommates than we are husband and wife..I have a good husband but he never wants to spend time with me...He constantly watches sports, never home and never really talks to me..I have told him how I feel and he still does not try to change in any kind of way...I am lonely and we spend no time together what so ever.....We are not even intimate but maybe twice a year..Does anyone have any advice???

2006-12-27 10:44:35 · 43 answers · asked by Cidne T 1 in Marriage & Divorce