Family & Relationships - 27 December 2006

I want her back.My ex said she just wants to be freinds, but y is she acting like this?advice please?
My ex said she just wants to be freinds, but y is she acting like this?advice please im in pain.. we r both 19
My ex said she just wants to be freinds, but y is she acting like this?advice please im in pain.. we r both 19
she said even though shes not with me, she still loves me. i dunno what to do im confused!!
i was goin out with my ex for over a year, we broke up a month ago.. she has been ringin me and emailing me, txtin me alot lately, the other night she heard i was txtin another girl and she went crazy, and got really upset... so i talked to her and said that other girl dont mean anything,, she didnt beleive me but she does now... i told her i love her and i wud do anything to get her back, she broke up with me cause she was confused bout what she wanted.. she said the oter day she would think about gettin back together, then she said lets just see what happens, if its ment to be it will happen....she asked me to meet her last night for a drink i met her.. then we went to a club in the city, she kept flirting with me, kissin me on the cheek, and almost kissed me on the lips several times, held my hand, hugged into mr all night, does this seem like she might want me back, she just needs time?

2006-12-27 10:11:12 · 23 answers · asked by dan w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

must I ask her to forgive me also? Were not friends any more, and I don't expect much to come from my apology I just want her to know I am sorry, and so I won't continue to feel that I should apologise for what happened if she forgives me or not thats on her I think . I mean what if she says no I don't forgive you then do I go on feeling bad over this or feel that at least I tried to let her know ? (This thing that happened was more than 6 years ago).

2006-12-27 10:10:55 · 9 answers · asked by turtle 2 in Friends

2006-12-27 10:10:52 · 28 answers · asked by Alana C 1 in Family

2006-12-27 10:10:35 · 5 answers · asked by ♥heartbroken♥ 3 in Friends

He said as long as its under 100 dollars, I can have whatever I want, but in reality, I would rather have a nice dinner out with him with no kids and maybe something small from the wal-mart jewelry counter. Is this too giving?

2006-12-27 10:10:08 · 12 answers · asked by Black Widow Mollie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok see me and my boyfriend have been going out 4 3 months now and im 14 and we dont really spend time 2gethere since i cant go out on dates but i can have a boyfriend... and i want him 2 come over because im missing him alot and want 2 see him asap...so i asked my mommy if he can come (She knows about him) and she said its ok with her but i gotta ask daddy because he doesnt know i go with anyone...HOW DO I ASK MY FATHER? BECAUSE I REALLY WANT HIM 2 SAY YES!

2006-12-27 10:08:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She choses to believe him and pretends nothing is wrong. Our family is very upset w/ her.

2006-12-27 10:06:40 · 28 answers · asked by mary d 1 in Family

Things you can text or say over the phone to make your spouse want to leave work....

2006-12-27 10:06:29 · 22 answers · asked by ?asker 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-27 10:04:55 · 21 answers · asked by Taylor G 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 10:03:38 · 10 answers · asked by emily 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have a wonderful relationship, but he has a problem with saying the three words. He obviously really cares about me. Should I be concerned that he does not actually say the words? Please, I need some advice!

2006-12-27 10:02:31 · 24 answers · asked by star 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 10:02:29 · 9 answers · asked by dramagirl4life 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband cheated and the affair was disovered 7 months ago. He decided to stay with his family. I noticed how sad he was over a period of days last week and asked him about it, he said that eventhough he chose to be with our family (and still wants to be), he still missed the other person. Our relationship is 12 years old and we have three children together. How much of his feelings is part of the recovery process? how much of his feelings are normal? He is not able to see this person, because it will be obvious, she is now hundreds of miles away. So him meeting up with her is not a concern. I am trying to reconcile my own feelings of frustration, anger, confusion, did I say anger about what happened and now have to deal with this. I do appreciate his honesty, but I am concerned about his "feelings" for this other person. What do you think? If you have felt or been in my position or my husband's, your feedback would be greatly appreciated.

2006-12-27 10:01:30 · 25 answers · asked by curious 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-27 10:01:05 · 8 answers · asked by The Girl 2 in Family

You guys taking the wrong way, is talking on the phone is cheating, she lives the same city i live and we never meet on the side, never talk about ourself just about life, we meet only when there is family party, but i know she like to get with me and me too, but we never talk about that yet, that's why i aske IF A MARIED MAN FALL IN LOVE IS WRONG?, TALKING ON THE PHONE IS NOT CHEATING, IS IT?

2006-12-27 10:00:58 · 22 answers · asked by Da one 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-27 10:00:33 · 5 answers · asked by lasia 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 10:00:26 · 4 answers · asked by Rebecca D 1 in Weddings

together then. But shouldn't we do something fun/special? I hate to be a nudge and bug him. Maybe he doesn't really want to spend New Year's together?

2006-12-27 10:00:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been married for 3 years, I was in love with my husband and he loves me a lot but he cannot give me what I need, all i need is support I have talked to him many many times and he seems not to understand me, I care a lot about him and I never thought of falling in love wiht another guy, but things have changed in my heart and I am scared of those feelings, becuase, not searching I found a men who is everything I have been looking in for, he is so nice to me and I have fell in love, He wishes he could marry me. this is the type of guy that would do anything to make me happy and to bring joy to my life, I am so hurt inside about all this and my mind makes me think a lot about my husband and how would life be without him. I need some good advice, How can I forget this new man I met, if he is willing to make me happy, I know him and words are not what he does best, but his actions. I am still so scared and sad I don't find the right direction to go, But I am sure I want to what's best.

2006-12-27 10:00:13 · 12 answers · asked by moon light 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have to give detail here,My older brother remarried she thinks she knows everything. She started out nice to me,then one day tells my mom she saw me at Wal-Marts hanging all over a man(I was then married)and it wasn't true at all, I called her and told her not to be telling my mom crap on me, she called me a slut and that she wasn't lieing!I just hung up on her and told my very churchy mom I was telling the truth, so then a few months later I divorced my hubby due to him threaten me and kids by shooting us while we slept, I get back with my babies daddy and she then tells mom more junk, so I called her again and got into it with her ,I ended up hanging up on her before I got really nasty. Thinking totally I love my bubby so let it go. my mom had heart op. and she told me I wasn't to go see my mom! And one day she called to jump me over my neice getting her phone turned off,I blew up !And I called her everything ! She then called my mommmy! My brother wont look at me, what to do?

2006-12-27 09:59:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

So my boyfriend has 3 girls who are his best friends and they all are about 4 years older than him (their 20) and he calls them his "sisters" but one of them well he told me a while ago one of them asked him out (before me and him were) We've been together for 9 months and i really love him but lately I haven't been able to spend time with him, because he's always hanging out with them, every time I call it seems like at least one of them is with him, it gets me so mad! and my the time he gets home he just calls to say goodnight. I thought I would get used to this by now, but I havent because none of my previous boyfriends have had girls as a best friend and always were with them...so its totally new for me...I've told him that I didn't really like his best friends awhile ago but he told me to give them a chance...I have given them a chance and I dont think I can take it anymore, I honestly dont know what to do?

2006-12-27 09:59:37 · 10 answers · asked by Morgan Love 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in the middle of a messy divorce. The house is in foreclosure and I have a lot of debt. The house does have an offer but I will owe on closing and not sure how I can come up with the money for that. My divorce will not be final for a couple months, should I wait until the divorce is final or can I proceed with bankruptcy? The only debt that is in both our names are the three mortgages, what happens with them. How will it effect his credit?

2006-12-27 09:58:33 · 10 answers · asked by Single mom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-27 09:56:12 · 15 answers · asked by elio305 1 in Singles & Dating

elevator that someone just walked out of and the scent of their perfume/cologne made you smile with a great memory?

2006-12-27 09:55:37 · 12 answers · asked by City slicker 5 in Singles & Dating

I am living with a legally separated (for 6 years) man who has half custody of his ten year old daughter who stays on the weekends. Luckily, the three of us get along well and have a great time together. However, as he comes from a Catholic family, although they are happy with our relationship, they are still not comfortable with us sleeping in the same room.
We are all going on a cruise shortly and I'll be sharing a room with my boyfriend's 15 year old neice instead of my boyfriend. Does this seem right? Please keep in mind that my boyfriend is 40 years old. Should I just respect old values and not push, or is this insane?

2006-12-27 09:55:22 · 18 answers · asked by terribleatgames 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, So I have never bought a guy a present.
and now I have no idea what to get
him.
Ughh! His almost 15.

2006-12-27 09:55:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want a boyfriend, and I like someone and he likes me. But he's too chicken to ask me out and hes too shy to talk to me, and once we dated once, and he cheated on me but he did'nt even talk to me! It was horrible! That was all in one day, so i broke up with him the next day. It was valentines day too :(

2006-12-27 09:54:31 · 29 answers · asked by The Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 09:54:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so me and my boyfriend have a baby girl who is one year old. I want to know how I can make sure that she will stay with me if me and my boyfriend break up. I want it to be where she stays with me and he cannot do anything about it. I dont even want child support money from him. I am currently going to school and living with my parents. What can I do to make sure my baby girl stays with me? Please help!

2006-12-27 09:54:24 · 5 answers · asked by sliu927 2 in Family

2006-12-27 09:53:25 · 4 answers · asked by lasia 2 in Other - Family & Relationships