together then. But shouldn't we do something fun/special? I hate to be a nudge and bug him. Maybe he doesn't really want to spend New Year's together?
2006-12-27 10:00:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means that he is either not sure he wants to spend new years with you so at the last minute he can do something else OR it means he has no creativity or initiative and is not taking it upon himself to make plans.
Personally, if he does not firm things up with you by Friday, I would make my own plans or pretend you have plans and not spend the evening with him. You don't have to be mean about it ... just show him that you have a life. :-)
Leaving you hanging is very disrespectful. He actually may not know better, but if this is the case, then it is time he learn.
2006-12-27 10:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by americansneedtowakeup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say he says he wants to spend time together on New Year's Eve.
Maybe he wants to surprise you with something special.
Maybe he's not a big party with a bunch of drunken strangers type of guy and he's afraid that's what you want to do.
Maybe his cash flow is a little tight right now and he's embarrassed to tell you.
Who knows? Only he...and you, if you ask him.
Reconfirm what he initially said (about being together then), then ask him what he would like to do. That doesn't mean that you have to be nudging or bugging.
By the way, does he know that you want to spend New Year's Eve with him?
Good luck and have a Happy New Year!
2006-12-27 18:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by pat z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Are we in the same relationship? Ask your guy what he is doing. Depending on how new your relationship is he may be afraid that its too early to spend the night together. If he doesn't have plans ask him to do something with you. If he does have plans, but your not invited go out with your girlfriends! Don't put too much emphasis on the holiday. If he's there for you on other days, I'm sure things will be fine. If it makes you feel better my boyfriend is going to NY with his buddies and I wasn't invited.
2006-12-27 18:05:24 · answer #3 · answered by bug461 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bug him about it...honesty is a key to a good relationship and if he doesnt wana spend new years with you he should be honest.....i think it would be better to know the truth than for him to bullshit you and blow it off some how
2006-12-27 18:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure he wants to spend new yrs. w/ you...he prob. just tryin to think of somethin to do b4 he makes ne official plans w/ you! ya know! just ask him what he has planned for that night/day and see if he wants to hang out......sound like your relyin on him to be there, ya know! he should want to hang out! GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-27 18:05:46 · answer #5 · answered by ILUVBOO-BEAR! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋