must I ask her to forgive me also? Were not friends any more, and I don't expect much to come from my apology I just want her to know I am sorry, and so I won't continue to feel that I should apologise for what happened if she forgives me or not thats on her I think . I mean what if she says no I don't forgive you then do I go on feeling bad over this or feel that at least I tried to let her know ? (This thing that happened was more than 6 years ago).
2006-12-27 10:10:55 · 9 answers · asked by turtle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The only thing you can control is how you behave and what you do. You need to free yourself of anything you feel you need to repent of.
I have had this sort of thing... it never ends up as you think but YOU will feel better and then YOU have a clear conscience when you meet God one day.
You are a noble soul. Bless you...
2006-12-27 10:16:16 · answer #1 · answered by SunValleyLife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 20:19:31 · answer #2 · answered by kirk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it has bothered you for 6 years you should contact this person and tell them how sorry you are. It doesn't matter if they forgive you or not, you have confessed that you did something you shouldn't have and that puts the ball in their court. You will feel much better after you apologize because you will then have put this out in the open.
2006-12-27 10:17:10 · answer #3 · answered by Margie M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize. Don't ask for or expect forgiveness - this will come if she so chooses to forgive you. The act of making the apology is what counts, NOT whether she forgives you. Once you apologize, you have done what you can, so let go of any negative feelings you have.
2006-12-27 10:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is write a note to her. Not because you don't want to face her but because you can say what you exactly want to more easily on paper.
I would do it, Not only cause your sorry but for your own need to put the past to rest.
Just tell her you know you were wrong and just wanted to say you were sorry.Tell her you have grown up and see the error of your ways and just wanted her to know how sorry you were.Let her know you understand that she more than likely wont forgive you and you understand and are fine with that.
2006-12-27 10:17:01 · answer #5 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say your are sorry for whatever you did and ask her if she would forgive you so that you don't have to feel guilty for the rest of your life. Say that you were stupid 6 years ago.
If she says, no i don't forgive you, then at least you tryed. At least you let her know that you are sorry.
2006-12-27 10:16:19 · answer #6 · answered by Leni ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, all you can do apologize and go from there. You have no way of knowing if she will apologize or not. If she does, great, if not then you told her how you feel and you've gotten a burden off your chest. Good luck.
2006-12-27 10:24:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel deeply about this apology then do it, but if i were you, since you and her are not friends anymore i would just forget it. because who knows, it might spark up a fight or arguement. leave it alone girl.
2006-12-27 10:36:06 · answer #8 · answered by ken's princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she isnt very nice then
2006-12-27 10:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by Ladywoman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋