You guys taking the wrong way, is talking on the phone is cheating, she lives the same city i live and we never meet on the side, never talk about ourself just about life, we meet only when there is family party, but i know she like to get with me and me too, but we never talk about that yet, that's why i aske IF A MARIED MAN FALL IN LOVE IS WRONG?, TALKING ON THE PHONE IS NOT CHEATING, IS IT?
2006-12-27 10:00:58 · 22 answers · asked by Da one 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can't help who you fall in love with, but you can help how you act.
Most humans will get crushes or fall in love with many people over their lifetime. This is natural and normal.
If you are honest with your spouse there should be no problem when you have a crush.
If you are lying to your wife and keeping secrets then you are treating you crush like an affair and it is wrong.
2006-12-27 11:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by Shannon S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do something to satisfy your feelings, then that is considered cheating. If a married man falls in love with someone else other than his spouse, and he satisfies his feeling of being in love by talking to the girl on the phone, then that is already considered as cheating. BECAUSE there will come a time that talking on the phone with this girl isn't enough anymore. So you'll do what next? Meet the girl of course... And then you know what happens next...
2006-12-27 10:08:04 · answer #2 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That may even be worse--the phone thing! An emotional bond is way more intense than a sexual one.....perhaps it would do you well to think of why you have to talk to another woman on the phone, rather than the woman at your side, the woman you pledged to be with forever. These are questions that only you have the answers to. I think you already know what you are doing is wrong. Fix it and come clean with your wife!! Then you can decide whether or not you are going to stay with her, or the phone lover!!
2006-12-27 10:09:34 · answer #3 · answered by lucitienne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is cheating. Would you like your wife to talk to another man and do the same thing you are doing? Would you like her talking to another man and develop feelings for him while shes married to you? I don't think so. If you really want to stay married I would cut this other woman off and if you want to be with this other woman then u need to let your wife know that you do not feel the same about her and need to take some time apart. Don't keep what your doing up because it may backfire and you wont have anybody!
2006-12-27 10:08:20 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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You guys taking the wrong way, is talking on the phone is cheating, she lives the same city i live and we never meet on the side, never talk about ourself just about life, we meet only when there is family party, but i know she like to get with me and me too, but we never talk about that yet,...
2015-08-23 07:49:34 · answer #5 · answered by Bobine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply, yes it is wrong. Would it be wrong if your wife was doing the same thing and having feelings for someone else? In the eyes of the law, it is not wrong to just talk, but if you look at it morally, it is totally wrong! You should devote yourself to your wife and not even talk to this girl, as you know, if could lead to something(as you stated). Also, 30 minutes of pleasure could ruin what you've taken a lifetime to build. Remember that!
2006-12-27 10:08:25 · answer #6 · answered by DSQ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think "cheating" is doing anything that you keep secret from your wife. If your wife knows you're talking on the phone with this woman and your wife doesn't have a problem with it then there's nothing wrong. If you are keeping this secret from your wife, while you technically may not be cheating, it's not right.
2006-12-27 10:04:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to get physical with someone to be cheating. If you are lying to your wife about the calls ie, not telling her, if you are sneaking around, and you know your wife would be upset if she found out. Its cheating.......you can cheat emotionally and/or physically. You already admitted you got feelings for this other woman. I guarantee you...you keep phoning, eventually you will meet "just for coffee and a chat" which also you will convince yourself "isnt cheating" and then , before youknow it.......
2006-12-27 11:02:03 · answer #8 · answered by Rowan1964 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is a commitment. Falling in love with another sometimes can't be helped...but think about if your wife was doing that to you or what if the one you're in love with moved on from you. Then what would you be left with? Nothing, just a wife maybe even family that you turned your back on for something that didn't last. good luck with this.
2006-12-27 10:20:37 · answer #9 · answered by Meeeeeeee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can cheat emotionally. If you are giving ANYTHING, (time, confidence, etc.) to a woman other than your wife, you are cheating. I am a married woman, and happen to have a very dear friend of over 20 years. He was there for me more than any other friend I have ever had. There is nothing I would say to him that I would not say in front of my husband. Since my husband and I have been married, they have become friends as well.
2006-12-27 10:04:58 · answer #10 · answered by Helen T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋