I want her back.My ex said she just wants to be freinds, but y is she acting like this?advice please?
My ex said she just wants to be freinds, but y is she acting like this?advice please im in pain.. we r both 19
My ex said she just wants to be freinds, but y is she acting like this?advice please im in pain.. we r both 19
she said even though shes not with me, she still loves me. i dunno what to do im confused!!
i was goin out with my ex for over a year, we broke up a month ago.. she has been ringin me and emailing me, txtin me alot lately, the other night she heard i was txtin another girl and she went crazy, and got really upset... so i talked to her and said that other girl dont mean anything,, she didnt beleive me but she does now... i told her i love her and i wud do anything to get her back, she broke up with me cause she was confused bout what she wanted.. she said the oter day she would think about gettin back together, then she said lets just see what happens, if its ment to be it will happen....she asked me to meet her last night for a drink i met her.. then we went to a club in the city, she kept flirting with me, kissin me on the cheek, and almost kissed me on the lips several times, held my hand, hugged into mr all night, does this seem like she might want me back, she just needs time?
2006-12-27 10:11:12 · 23 answers · asked by dan w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She is a manipulative biatch. You need to start treating her like crap and quit being such a pu*ssy. She thinks you're a complete pu*ssy for cow-towing to her every need. Have some respect for yourself. If you want to get her attention, start dating other women. The more women you date, the more she will be compelled to please you. The more you treat her like crap, the more she will respect you.
2006-12-27 10:34:17 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your ex wants to play the field and still wants benefits with you, sometimes girls get needy and want to be held and kissed etc but not committed, that is a sign of immaturity on her part for keeping your feelings in limbo. You need to let her get mad. There is an old saying Eye 4 an eye, tit 4 a tat, you give away your dog I'm giving away my cat... so what's good 4 the goose is good 4 the gander. You do your thing and watch her reaction. We always want what we can't have. Don't give in to her she will want you more if you back off.
2016-03-29 08:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody needs time. but honestly if you two dont really know what you want then i woulsd say that you two DO need to just be friends. I would bet you $100.00 that if you started going out with some other girl she would more than likely wake up and try and get back together. You're only 19 and most people are afraid of being alone, but just wake up and realize that you might be too good for her., and when you meet somebody new, you will forget about her....... It happens all the time....................................... Find somebody new!!!!
2006-12-27 10:18:54 · answer #3 · answered by i am game 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of 2 things #1 she dont want you but doesnt want another woman to have you (a woman thing). #2 shes useing you as a backup incase she doesnt find anyone better or shes not sure the guy shes with now( the new one)will work out.
2006-12-27 10:37:46 · answer #4 · answered by thebubbleking2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably had a hard time dealing with things being repeated. The problem is, if you have a habit like that and the other person can't handle it, then they have to move on.
I suggest you specifically look for people who can deal with the repeating factor. When you do, keep her.
2006-12-27 10:14:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is doing this so that she can do whatever, or who ever she wants to and not feel guilty, then if things don't work out, she can come back to you, and take all of your money, your kind of under the glass...break in case of an emergancy...think about it, and think about what you should do...have a nice day!!!
2006-12-27 10:16:41 · answer #6 · answered by nilbog2u 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah i agree wit Btrix...but i still kept reading, but next time don't do that because u just about pissed me off and made me stop reading..anywayz it just sounds like she needs some time from the looks of it it looks like she may want to get back with you or she just maybe playing games with you, ask her how she really feels about you and why she kept teasing you like that and acting as if you gues go out when she keeps telling you that she doesnt want to be with you.
2006-12-27 10:18:27 · answer #7 · answered by t0xic_n_addictiv3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you need to do is learn is English grammar and spelling before you post another pathetic, rambling, sob-story.
Now listen closely, grasshopper, she does not want you. She is in love with flirting and pretending to be in love. She is in love with flirting and with fun of seduction.
But she is not in love with you.
You need to find another girl. Preferably one w/ a dictionary, my friend. You need an English-Intervention.
2006-12-27 10:16:32 · answer #8 · answered by krinkn 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It seems she wants you to want her but she is keeping her options open in case someone new comes along. In other words she is playing games with you. Move on. Sure it will hurt but to hang around waiting for her to decide you are the one will only hurt more.
2006-12-27 15:08:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course she still loves you she just wants you to realize that you should never do something like that.. i mean i bet you wouldnt want her to do something like that.. just give her time and im so so sure that you two will get back together... thats what happened with me and my b/f but i gave him the time and space that he needed and i knew that he would come back to me and for sure he did.. dont bug her too much cuz she will realize that she doesnt want to completely lose you.. im sure she still loves you.. Good Luck
2006-12-27 10:19:41 · answer #10 · answered by pixiejvgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋