Please tell me what to do!! two months ago I broke up with my bf who I had for 4 years relationship...then suddenly I found a new bf...after that I didnt know why after having 3 weeks relationship...my new bf broke up with me....I didnt even cry for this two relationship....I want to know why? and am I ready for a new relationship?
2006-12-27 10:47:23 · 9 answers · asked by naomi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no i dont think that you are ready for another relationship be single for a while and find out what you really want.. i think you just want to feel like you have someone that cares about you... spend time with your friends go out and have fun then you can start dating.. Good Luck!
2006-12-27 10:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by pixiejvgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No see u want to cry, but u want to be strong too. You might not cry now but u will find another relationship that wasnt that long, but u liked that guy. This relationship is just like the middle school dating game. U feel like ur going to be with him forever and yall say u love each other and then it ends. The tears u have been holding back from the 4 year relationship will come and a few tears may fall for the second one and thats when u will have a little comfort.
2006-12-27 10:53:32 · answer #2 · answered by one tuff babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may need to give yourself a break. A four year relationship is serious. It takes time to pull yourself back together. There is a lot to deal with. Eventhough you did not cry doesn't mean you are compeleted over the relationship. You may have carried the old relationship into the new one and that's why it's over so soon. We don't always cry after a relationship. People handle break-ups in different ways. Before you move on, spent some time with you.
2006-12-27 10:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by relationcounseling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your heart is growing stronger and refuses rejection. You are actually feeling the desire to wander and find out the real meaning of love. I have been through 4 relationships of 6 years each and I was really in love. I closed myself in and remained faithful without no knowledge of the real world. When my last relationship ceased I regained my sense of life. I found out I was well behind in living. And because of me staying in the house so much I was shy and had to get out of that. So now I refuse to fall in love I'm a wanderer just want to have a good time and let the feelings go elsewhere. And to tell the truth I enjoy every moment of it.
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2006-12-27 11:00:11 · answer #4 · answered by gettysdeemer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may have just been in shock. Most guys and some girls just get upset feelings in thier stomach. If you didn't you may just be very confident in your decisions. The three week one probably didn't affect you because you were use to more in a relationship than you had at that point. Only you know if you are ready for a relationship.
2006-12-27 10:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by delacroix192 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go out and meet different type of people and have some crazy casual sex. Don't worry about it. You will enjoy it so much and it will help you get over your previous relationships.
PARTY ON
2006-12-27 10:55:37 · answer #6 · answered by Skull F'r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were not ready to move on. Leave baggage behind cz the next guy might really like you and u might hurt HIS feelings and that's not cool.
2006-12-27 10:51:05 · answer #7 · answered by RoseFairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its fine usally nobody stays with there net relationship after a long one went bad
2006-12-27 10:53:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it time...date men, lots of them until you feel like you are ready to settle down withone...taste all the flavors!!!
2006-12-27 10:51:21 · answer #9 · answered by never2pink 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋