Family & Relationships - 26 December 2006

Well today we went out with my husband and we were shopping with the gift cards we recive, first we went to gap and there was these suarer that cost more than the other one, to make it shoter he got rip off and I got up sad because this always happends. when I sais (what ever is your money anyway)and arguin he said to me shut the f*** up he never had said that to me and we have two years of married Why did he said that to me and should I forgive him I go so mad that I walk home from the store. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-26 13:29:44 · 23 answers · asked by babylove 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am a bit shy so im not that great at getting guys attention by being outgoing
and i like this guy..... how do i get his attention? i always try to look nice and smile. i make eye contact with him if i see him glancing at me......i have talked to him a few times in person and a few more times online...........is there anything more i can do because lately he has been ignoring me............ this doesn't seem to be working

2006-12-26 13:29:39 · 4 answers · asked by sweet_pea 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, i've been dating this guy for over a year & its been a REALLY crappy relationship. There was a LOT of cheating & lieing (both ways). about a month or two ago, i wanted to just leave him because i knew it would never work. But he convinced me to give it another try & we both promised things would change. Its been almost 2 months since then & i have changed, I really have. I fell in love with him all over again. I know he cares, but he has a BAD way of showing it. Lately he's been really busy & ive only seen him once in the past 3 months. He hardly EVER calls me, he rarely answers when i call & he pretty much just doesnt have time for me. When I confront him asking if he wants do be with me/why are you doing these things, he denies all of it. He says he loves me & cares, but I just don't feel it & it's making me SO depressed. What should I do?

2006-12-26 13:29:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont know why, but ive always been attracted to older men, that are about 10 years older than me. Or, just older, like 4 years older at the youngest. I dont know why, and i dont know how to stop it, or if its right to like someone that old, especially since im a teen.

2006-12-26 13:28:50 · 15 answers · asked by ava 1 in Singles & Dating

Me an my wife just seperated an my brother inlaws wife texts me all tha time

2006-12-26 13:28:27 · 12 answers · asked by bd4arms 1 in Singles & Dating

I already have a best friend but, I have this one friend who is jealous of my relationship with my best friend and she keeps calling herself my best friend. So, I keep telling her that i don't know what best friends are. Then, when we get in fights she brings up the whole best friend thing again. What do I do?

2006-12-26 13:28:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I love my husbad and do not want a divorce. We have been separted since the middle of October because of my attiude problem. Anyway one minute he will say that he want things to work out but he need time and don't want to come back to the same situation.But as soon as I started asking when he coming home he get upset and say that I am questioning him and that why he's not coming back. He also say that I will never change. Did I get upset and cry and then he tell me that I need to grow up. Get over it. Move On. Let it Go! I don't love you anymore. Stop calling me. Then one day he told me he was bi-polar. That he wanted the marriage to work and once again I asked when was he coming home and he keep saying he need time. So I asked if it was someone else and he said see there you go thinking it somebody else. When r u going to realize that's it you. You will never change. As soon as I come home you will go back to ur old ways. I don't want to deal with that.

2006-12-26 13:27:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-26 13:27:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do guys mostly pick the skinny ones because they are pretty or do they go for the thick ones that have a great personality?

2006-12-26 13:27:11 · 9 answers · asked by amber j 2 in Singles & Dating

hes been cheating on me an i dont know wat to do

2006-12-26 13:27:08 · 10 answers · asked by i_make _it_rainakapatrickschica 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it wrong to forgive someone who had cheated once, but to leave later on; after discovering you're honestly NOT okay with what happened?

2006-12-26 13:26:28 · 19 answers · asked by melsaruly 2 in Singles & Dating

Thank you all for your responses, even the ones that called me self - centered and selfish! For the persons wanting more background information about my situation to make a better response here it is... I'm in my early 20's and my Army guy in his 30's. I've also been in the military but, not in the same capacity as him. I'm working on my degree and will return to the military after graduation. About a month after dating nearly three years ago, my Army guy was deployed to Middle East, and I waited 15 months for him to return. Whenever he called during that period, I was there to support, listen, and send him materials that he need. He returned 18 months ago for two months, and then left for training. Shortly after, he was deployed again. In the past my sweetheart indicated marriage but, I need more time. The odd part is before three weeks ago, I didn't hear from him for eight months despite my e-mails. He family told me he was fine, but it didn't make sense. I thought it best to end it

2006-12-26 13:25:53 · 2 answers · asked by Happy Bee 1 in Singles & Dating

The girl (23) is very mature for her age, a college grad, has a good job... has been through alot in life... always lived w/father so is def not seeking a parent, she wants to have a family one day and a loving husband
The guy (43) chose the career path after the military in hopes he'd find a wife somewhere along the way... women he'd been with cheated.. he took time to figure himself out and what he wanted and focused on work. now owns a house and has a good stable job and wants a family.they both agree on many things, life, children, relationships, love, have some of the same friends... The girl is friends with his mother and two brothers, helped move him into his home and set up/organize it. There is a flirtation between them nothing more than friendship... the girl wants to wait till marriage or engagement for sex and the guy knows this... could this become a good relationship/marriage?

2006-12-26 13:25:44 · 3 answers · asked by mk2004 2 in Singles & Dating

My cousins live in spain and at the moment they are in essex (england) we are hoping to go out tomorrow but just cant think where, we were hoping to go somewhere different as we dont get 2 see them very often does any1 hav any ideas, (ages 10, 15, 19,)

2006-12-26 13:25:31 · 4 answers · asked by Everything happens for a reason 4 in Family

ive been married almost 14 yrs but cant stand the inlaws ive tried countless ways to get along helping them giving them things being nice well my nice is gave out this year at christmas they are a big family we try to buy nice things for them we spend alot on them and i try so hard for a nice christmas we get 1.00 gifts from them i know it is not the money its the thought but that hurts cause it dont come from the heart its like i have to buy us a gift my daughter is 11 and she gets her feelings hurt to i had to buy most of the food for christmas dinner and there are 5 plus more family who wont help out my mother in law tells them not to worry abt it and they are not poor i cried all day christmas day and christmas eve please help i am a only child and my mom passed away 2 yrs ago she was very sick im so tired of trying please help thank you happy new years ps my spouse says dont worry abt it but i cant

2006-12-26 13:24:27 · 11 answers · asked by rob 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been with my g/f for about 3yrs. After 1yr of seeing each other i slept with a collegue at a xmas party. I told my girlfriend and had to pretty much beg her to not walk away from me there and then. Her nearly leaving made me realise how much i cared for her and i thought it wouldnt hurt this bad if i didnt love her.

A few months back my g/f admitted to me that she wasnt happy, didnt trust me, and didnt love me as much as she did. She actually packed her bags and went, only to return the same night. This confused the hell outta me.

Well, xmas party again this year, and this girl (engaged to be married) starts telling me she has a crush on me and next min we are kissing. She wanted to sleep with me and temptation was high, but i resisted.

My question is, if i really loved my g/f then i wouldnt cheat on her right? (no matter how drunk i was?)
Im still young and probably dont kno what love is but i thought i loved my g/f, but why would i cheat like this?

Your thoughts?

2006-12-26 13:24:14 · 32 answers · asked by piuyf 1 in Singles & Dating

Reason 1 - She said she didn't feel a spark on the first kiss.

Reason 2 - She said she couldn't see me doing "things" with other girls. I'm not gay and I'm far from acting like it.

She did this a week ago and she tells me that she made a huge mistake and that she can't let me go because she doesn't know what would happen if she lost me. I still like her but these reasons just blow my mind. She wants to hang out Sunday to talk about all of this because she really really wants to get back with me.

Should I get back together with her?

2006-12-26 13:23:57 · 17 answers · asked by holybass08 1 in Singles & Dating

A slow smoochy intimate dance you prefer or something lively?

2006-12-26 13:23:37 · 16 answers · asked by crazeeladee no more 5 in Singles & Dating

Me and my gf are split (I am female too) ....she is bipolar and hasnt received help yet but yet says she needs help and wants it. She comes and visits me at least once a week and we talk to each other on the phone almost every night when she goes to bed. She says she is confused about this other girl all the time but then said she only liked her as a friend but today she told me that girl is immature (as she has told me in the past) and said she told that girl to leave her alone cuz she was stressing my girl out. Then later my girl texted me and said no she isn't upset with me (cuz I asked if her if she was) and then followed by saying .... "I just feel dazed. I need time to collect my thoughts. I don't know who I am." What does that mean when someone says they need time to collect their thoughts? Cuz now she wont text message me back.....but still is calling other people. Help! Only sincere answers please.

2006-12-26 13:23:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why would guy choose to avoid and ignore a girl who's not a stalker or a bully.

2006-12-26 13:22:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ladies?? Are make up brushes good tickling tools?? I would think that for example an eyeshadow brush would be perfect for just between the toes... a powder brush would b a perfect tummy tickler ...etc. Any ladies tickled or been tickled by a make up brush and can state their experience?? Thanks for your time

2006-12-26 13:21:14 · 9 answers · asked by docboom2386 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 13:20:12 · 10 answers · asked by ۞ JønaŦhan ۞ 7 in Singles & Dating

Anyone here agrees with me that sometimes you find it hard to compliment someone that is better at something that you urself likes to do or wants to do. And its because u're jealous and you prefer to walk away than compliment or stay quiet. Distract whatever the person is doing so she/he can stop what they're doing, because you can't stand it anymore cuz.u're very jealous..

wut are some signs of jealousy?.

2006-12-26 13:19:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why are they not considered to be "bunny boilers"?

what if this behaviour has gone on for years?

What would you do?

2006-12-26 13:19:13 · 20 answers · asked by kiku 4 in Singles & Dating

I was talking to one of my guy friends today.. about a uncoming New Year's Eve. party and he says "don't do anything I wouldn't do; because I'm not going to be there." I think I know what he's saying, but feel the need to get other opinions. Thanks!!!

2006-12-26 13:18:45 · 6 answers · asked by faerycatcher 3 in Friends

I've been with my first boyfriend now for about 3 weeks. I'm falling in love with him, why do I have the urge to tell the world? Figurativeley speaking of course but why do I have the feeling that I want someone to know? Can a thing like this be explained?

2006-12-26 13:18:24 · 16 answers · asked by ♀♥♂☮Trippy Hippie☮♂♥♀ 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 13:18:14 · 39 answers · asked by John O 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-26 13:18:03 · 14 answers · asked by Kitana 2 in Family

i was riding with a friend that had to pick another friend up from a get together. there was this guy there who apparently was all over everyone & said that his goal of the nite was to get so wasted that he would use all of the 4 condems he brought with him. everyone was talking about how annoying, about himself and rude he was. one of the guys at the gathering asked if we could give him a ride home so my friend said yes. when we got to his house my friend had an issue to deal with and asked if he could have some time alone in the car with his friend so he could deal with the emergency and if i could wait on him at this guys house if he didnt mind, so i did. well during all of this i realized i had lost my phone somewhere. i asked the guy if i could use his phone and he sad yes. i called my bf and and we ended up having an argument and awakened people in the house. he kicked me out, redialed my bf and said i was cheating wit him & was all over people at the get together and its not tru

2006-12-26 13:18:00 · 5 answers · asked by freixas3 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm slighly overweight and all these people I work with and my mom knows try to give me all their fat clothes. I'm not even close to their old size, I'm a lot smaller. I don't want their rejected items, does it make them feel better to give you their old stuff?

2006-12-26 13:16:52 · 20 answers · asked by Martini Babee 4 in Friends