Ok, i've been dating this guy for over a year & its been a REALLY crappy relationship. There was a LOT of cheating & lieing (both ways). about a month or two ago, i wanted to just leave him because i knew it would never work. But he convinced me to give it another try & we both promised things would change. Its been almost 2 months since then & i have changed, I really have. I fell in love with him all over again. I know he cares, but he has a BAD way of showing it. Lately he's been really busy & ive only seen him once in the past 3 months. He hardly EVER calls me, he rarely answers when i call & he pretty much just doesnt have time for me. When I confront him asking if he wants do be with me/why are you doing these things, he denies all of it. He says he loves me & cares, but I just don't feel it & it's making me SO depressed. What should I do?
2006-12-26 13:29:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's either no longer interested or he's practicing a technique that some dating experts teach - "act like you don't care and she'll want you even more". If it's the latter, then I'd say judging from your behavior that's it's working. You need to change the way you're dealing with the situation. Try giving him all the room and space he wants. If he doesn't eventually come around, then you can be quite certain that's he really doesn't care or he's got somebody else.
2006-12-26 13:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was me to deal with this problem, and that is if you are sure that you trying but Mr sir doesn't want to just dump him my love he does not deserve you most of us men is really bad if it comes to keep a promise [sorry fellas but it is true] if he cant keep a promise now he will never. Any person if it is male or female will only really try if they really care and that is a fact in live that we cant get pass that so you already called it a crappy relationship don't waist your time on a looser I think you deserve better and trust me. there is better out there that will welcome your love and devotion and from what I can see in your question you seems like a really nice person and you Will do better then this looser that make empty promises. Good luck and remember treat people like you would like to be treated if they cant treat you in the same way you don't need them and they don't deserve you.
2006-12-26 13:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by tazdevil007au 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if you only seen him once in the last 3 months, that's a bad sign. If he truly loved you he would have made much more time than that for you (unless you are long distance). If you are not happy, you should end the relationship and move on. It sounds like you guys already tried to improve the relationship, and it's still going nowhere.
2006-12-26 13:32:44 · answer #3 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to see is that although you have a boyfriend, you don't have a relationship. If he doesn't see the beauty in you and treat you like a princess it's hardly the grounds for a successful partnership.
2006-12-26 13:35:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have changed and have grown on the relationship, and he has not, maybe it is time to seriously think of moving on. Believe me there are people who will definitely appreciate all you have to offer. He is not the only person on the face of the planet.......trust me. Go for it girl!
2006-12-26 13:43:05 · answer #5 · answered by cold runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This one is easy. If a someone cares about you he makes time for you. Physically,mentally,and emotionally. Actions speak louder than words. It doesn't matter what someone says only what they actually do. This guy is playing games. Don't let him get to you forever. Move on,he has.
2006-12-26 13:39:52 · answer #6 · answered by jjjb1114 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, you are so pathetic. Pumpkin, don't you have any self-worth? Why are you with a LOSER, don't you know what makes you? A BIGGER LOSER. Honey, move on. They are so many guys out there licking their chops to have to chance to be with you. Move on before this "relationship" ends really bad and people getting hurt, be careful pumpkin.
2006-12-26 13:34:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"IF the love can't get to you, then get the love to him." and you know what, it worked! Thats what happens in long distances and short.
PS. Get an avatar, for a moment there I thought you were a man!
2006-12-26 17:00:44 · answer #8 · answered by Mylo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of he looks at this like a extreme subject. so i think of it ought to be a good factor. wen me nd my xbf wer going out, he asked me if i enjoyed him nd we had bin going out for a month or so. yet i reported identity extremely consult from him in individual. no i didnt love him, yet i had extremely good thoughts for him. my factor is... i think of he has greater words to assert in individual than over the fhone or via a txt. he prolly wnts to intend wht he has to assert by employing finding at yur eyes or something... im optimistic yu hav no longer something to rigidity approximately...jus plan an afternoon for yu 2 to fulfill...each and every thing would be advantageous! good success!
2016-10-06 01:32:10 · answer #9 · answered by vishvanath 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok maybe make him fall in lovve w/ u by like dressing hotter acting like you really like him if you dont or u can just dump him flat and if you have any other questions just email me stupidsmarts06@yahoo.com
I'll be happy to answer your questions
2006-12-26 13:37:11 · answer #10 · answered by josh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋