Thank you all for your responses, even the ones that called me self - centered and selfish! For the persons wanting more background information about my situation to make a better response here it is... I'm in my early 20's and my Army guy in his 30's. I've also been in the military but, not in the same capacity as him. I'm working on my degree and will return to the military after graduation. About a month after dating nearly three years ago, my Army guy was deployed to Middle East, and I waited 15 months for him to return. Whenever he called during that period, I was there to support, listen, and send him materials that he need. He returned 18 months ago for two months, and then left for training. Shortly after, he was deployed again. In the past my sweetheart indicated marriage but, I need more time. The odd part is before three weeks ago, I didn't hear from him for eight months despite my e-mails. He family told me he was fine, but it didn't make sense. I thought it best to end it
2006-12-26 13:25:53 · 2 answers · asked by Happy Bee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Under those circumstances you are justified to end the relationship. Good Luck.
2006-12-26 13:29:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are doing the right thing because your feelings seem to be cooling off toward your guy. Talk this over with him. He just might be feeling the same way. Good luck.
2006-12-26 21:32:46 · answer #2 · answered by worldwise1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋