Reason 1 - She said she didn't feel a spark on the first kiss.
Reason 2 - She said she couldn't see me doing "things" with other girls. I'm not gay and I'm far from acting like it.
She did this a week ago and she tells me that she made a huge mistake and that she can't let me go because she doesn't know what would happen if she lost me. I still like her but these reasons just blow my mind. She wants to hang out Sunday to talk about all of this because she really really wants to get back with me.
Should I get back together with her?
2006-12-26 13:23:57 · 17 answers · asked by holybass08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she broke up with you for such petty reasons the first time around, what makes you think that she'll be genuine?
Most people don't change and if they do, it takes way more than a week.
2006-12-26 13:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get back together with her.
She may be too immature for a relationship. By her saying that she didn't feel a spark make it sound like she is really over romanticizing things and she will keep on being disappointed.
Also, through reason #2, she sounds too focused on what others think and what others would do if they were her. It's like she is more concerned if all the other girls would want to go out with you, not if SHE wants to be with you.
She really just sounds too unsure of herself or too young to have a boyfriend. Find someone that can handle things a little better and that won't go topsy turvy on you.
2006-12-26 13:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by Contessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reasons you can just accept since thats what she said but you should hang out with her sunday and see whats up, in other words listen to what she has to say. Then ask her what about the fact that she didn't feel a spark on your guys' first kiss? See what she has to say and if you feel like she's going to tell you the same things again say good bye to her!!! All in all the decision is yours but think about this if she did it once, what's going to stop her from doing it again?
2006-12-26 13:31:32 · answer #3 · answered by cute_chica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reason 2 - She reported she could no longer see me doing "issues" with different women. i'm no longer gay and that i'm some distance from appearing like it. Does this mean she could choose for to or is she bisexual,You dont experience the spark of the 1st kiss after being collectively for a whilst thats why its upto the two one in each and every of you to place some spark into the courting each and every so usually sounds like there is greater to this then she is letting directly to you
2016-10-06 01:32:04 · answer #4 · answered by vishvanath 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could easily ber setting yours;lef up again for rejection.
I'd teel her you'd see her around. After all, if she doesn't feel a spark, and that is oim[poprtantant enough for her to sump you once, what makes you think someone who does give her that spark wouldn't lure her away again?
I'd be friends, and then see what happens over many nonths. trust has to be earned. I'd go ouit with others, showever, becuase she doesn't love you or herslef.
2006-12-26 13:28:10 · answer #5 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. Sounds like she's trying to control you. If she was so quick to dump you in the first place, then I say give it some time. If you say no for now, and then later she's still interested, maybe try going out again.
2006-12-26 13:26:50 · answer #6 · answered by kikisdragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a chance but if you see signs of emotional problems run like heck! Don't get messed up with a crazy person, you will regret it
2006-12-26 13:28:21 · answer #7 · answered by Scooter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, do not get back together with her beacuse she is using you and all she wants is to make you fell bad. All that she is doing is playing mind games.
2006-12-26 13:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably just wants what she doesn't have. Don't get back together with her, she's being silly. Find someone who will really appreciate you and not play yo yo games.
2006-12-26 13:28:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's a little scared to me, if you really like her you could at least listen, but BEWARE.
2006-12-26 13:25:58 · answer #10 · answered by Elizabeth L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋