Someone called him and said i cheated and was all over everyone but its untrue. what can i do? i love him.?

Question

i was riding with a friend that had to pick another friend up from a get together. there was this guy there who apparently was all over everyone & said that his goal of the nite was to get so wasted that he would use all of the 4 condems he brought with him. everyone was talking about how annoying, about himself and rude he was. one of the guys at the gathering asked if we could give him a ride home so my friend said yes. when we got to his house my friend had an issue to deal with and asked if he could have some time alone in the car with his friend so he could deal with the emergency and if i could wait on him at this guys house if he didnt mind, so i did. well during all of this i realized i had lost my phone somewhere. i asked the guy if i could use his phone and he sad yes. i called my bf and and we ended up having an argument and awakened people in the house. he kicked me out, redialed my bf and said i was cheating wit him & was all over people at the get together and its not tru

Answer 1

i would tell my bf why would i call u from a guy house im cheating on u with if i was cheating and then i will have someone from the party tell your bf how he was acting to back up your story and the friend u rode with

Answer 2

first off i would like to say that in your innocent intentions to give one of your other friends some privacy u really kind of quickly jumped the gun to do that and only compromised ur own relationship. now i can understand that ,if he wanted some alone time with his friend in the car to resolve an issue, but that issue could have clearly waited until they have dropped that other guy, and you off at both of your locations and contenued their conversations from the time they pulled from the curb from dropping u off,
now if u say that u did not do anything and he did not believe u, that is his problem,( but im a woman who is on my mans page responding to u,) but if this was him at another chicks house calling me and he suddenly forgot his cell phone somewhere, total irresponsible, and then to call me from some chicks number, he should have asked to be dropped off first and let them handle their business elsewhere.
if the guy was intoxicated and looking for sex, and u knew this why go into the mans house even for a brief moment anyways, honestly ur man dosent have the right to accuse u, but even so i would not have amitted to anything that had not accually taken place, because now if it isn't tru, ur credibility will always be questioned from here on out.
i would have told them to take me home first then handle their stuff later or go to the store, or pull over and let them step a few feet from the car to handle what ever thay had to do, or go to one of their houses and take it from there, these are not ur friends cause they put u in a compromising situation and now it's u and ur man that has to suffer because of it.
just sit down and reasonably explain this to ur man. u mad a mistake and u did not think that i would cause such a problem between u two. and if u wanted to go into that dudes house on purpose then u have to take what comes next and hanldle it. good luck..... and next time think before u make any decisions involving other men because what if the shoe was on the other foot, honestly how would u take it? best of luck with that.

Answer 3

If your boyfriend loves you he will trust your somewhat wierd and unfortunate situation. If not, maybe it's not worth saving. Oh- and the other guy deserves to be slapped!

Answer 4

too much drama, I would get over it and learn a lesson...and see if the guy still has any condems left

Answer 5

if you really loved him you would not have allowed yourself to be caught in an inappropriate situation