Family & Relationships - 20 December 2006

2006-12-20 08:17:37 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am one of those overly nice people. Even when I have a justified reason to be mad about something I supress it because I don't want to be mean. But I have reached my limit. I am the only person in my household who works for a living, while my husband is the caregiver of the family and my brother is temperorarily staying with us and job hunting. My gripe is if I am earning the bacon so to speak then why is so unreasonable that they keep up the house. I come home to a dirty house every day and it is infuriating. I have nagged and nagged and finally said to hell with it and did it myself and then it isn't maintained so a week later it is a wreck again. How can I get it through my guys heads that they have to do this, especially since we have a little boy. I don't know how to make them do it and I am getting to the point that I am just going to blow up at them.

2006-12-20 08:17:14 · 14 answers · asked by pinkyduh1377 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-20 08:17:11 · 18 answers · asked by rasckal 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 08:16:55 · 16 answers · asked by delicious 2 in Singles & Dating

The guy I've been dating for two months recently said "I love you" for the first time while we were having sex. I didn't say anything back and we didn't talk about it. Does this count? I know a lot of people say guys will say anything in the heat of the moment, but I've been with a lot of guys who never said this during sex. The ones that did I ended up having a long r/ship with. So advice from guys please, do you think he meant it or was it just the sex talking? Thanks!!!

2006-12-20 08:16:07 · 9 answers · asked by Sweetgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

Is this wrong??
Something happened and I would like to know if I was wrong.

(see add'l details)

2006-12-20 08:15:58 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please, I need to know if the guy i like likes me.
-He always makes me laugh.
-He is always trying to hold my hand.
-He is a very sweet person to me.
-He is putting too much cologne on.
-He always laughs at my jokes.
-He is always continually smiling.

2006-12-20 08:15:57 · 14 answers · asked by girlygirl 3 in Friends

2006-12-20 08:15:56 · 33 answers · asked by XxNeaNeaxX 2 in Weddings

Ok, I have decided since the only girls i can get in high school are going to be ugly and fat. Btw, I'm not really ugly in the face. I'm just not muscley like the women want me to be. Anyways, due to the fact that those are the only type of girls i can get I have decided that I should go after girls who are muscley. It's better than getting fat girls and you can actually appreciate something in their body, but I have 2 problems. 1) I don't know if i can actually find these type of girls at my age (18) and 2) I am afraid it might make me turn gay. Please help solve problems 1 and 2. And also, what do you think?

2006-12-20 08:15:24 · 12 answers · asked by dude wheres my car 1 in Singles & Dating

I plan to buy her other stuff, but I'm just wondering generally as another gift if it would be OK to get some gift vouchers to spend in her favourite clothes shop. I know vouchers don't say "I love you" like other stuff, but I am gonna get other stuff too. What do you think? It shows that I know her favourite shop, right?

Honest opinions from girls please! And guys too, I guess! I plan to buy her other stuff too, but, you know - it's really hard to buy for girls.

2006-12-20 08:15:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am going crazy trying to find a dj who isn't a schmuck for my wedding. They all seem to be either really old schmucky guys who are going to play tastless music the entire time, or game show hosts. It will be in New Jersey. Someone please help!!!!!!!!

2006-12-20 08:15:03 · 4 answers · asked by *NuBCaKe* 4 in Weddings

My best friend, Jordan, was just dumped by his girlfriend, Meredith(my friend). They've been together for 9 months until today. I don't know how I can cheer him up, or help him out. I was dumped a couple weeks ago too, and I felt terrible, until I accepted that he won't come back, but Jordan won't listen. Please give me some advice??

2006-12-20 08:14:47 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok me and this boy has been talking since october and when i first met him it was like a week before his birthday and i bought him something and now me and him has already had sex twice and here is it now christmas and he told me that he was not getting me a christmas gift and i can not be becasue he does not have ajob because he does what should I do

2006-12-20 08:14:29 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

cleaning her daughters room when she found a condom

are you sexualy active she asked her

no ma, i just lay there

2006-12-20 08:14:27 · 16 answers · asked by chris w. 7 in Family

I'm not against friendship at all, but my brother brings his friend to our house every day.
At 8 in the morning, when we're all busy getting ready for our day, his friend, (who we'll call Bob) knocks on the door. We tell him to go. An hour later, Bob comes back again. Mom tells my brother, (who we'll call Charley) to play with Bob outside. I get out of the bathroom, and Charley wants to know if Bob can come in. I say no, because mom isn't ready. But Charley says, "Mom is in the bathroom, so she can't see Bob." Then he let's his friend in the house anyway. And yesterday, he told Bob, "You can come to our house anytime, anyday." Because of this promise that my brother made, I was late to my bowling club meeting. As I said, I'm not against friendship, but I don't know how to let my brother know that he isn't the only person in the house, and we don't want all his friends coming over at all hours of the day. How can I tell Charley in a nice way that we don't want his friends over 24/7?

2006-12-20 08:14:25 · 3 answers · asked by smart guy 4 in Friends

He just doesn't have the right time for me lately and I want to end it but I don't know what to say to him...
Its ONLINE and thats the tricky part cos we cant see each other often and he didnt message me in 3 weeks and I did once but he had to go soon and I know he's busy but I can't take it I need someone who has the time for me

so to cut things short, what can I sat to him without saying its over directly!

2006-12-20 08:14:19 · 1 answers · asked by ██████████ 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 08:13:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

take into account tha he used to sing me "u are my sunshine" and didnt know my name for about 3 months of our relationship:P and we act like an old married couple, we both have our ways set dont change much

2006-12-20 08:12:48 · 5 answers · asked by oldermenrockmyworld 2 in Weddings

2006-12-20 08:12:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

No offense to teens or kids, but I just picked the 18 and up number, so we know you haven't only been around for like, 12 years, and haven't really experienced life. Please specify how old you are NOW when answering the ?? and why that particular age was your fave/least fave.

Mine has been this year, 25. This is the first year where my pay has increased significantly and I have been SOMEWHAT financially stable, this year I've had the best, most loyal and true friends ever, and I have my own place and a job I love. I've never been so happy! I'm hoping it'll just get better.

My least favorite age was basically 15-22. In the earlier years, I was a teenager, and maybe it was fun for some of you, it sucked for me. I was shy and sad, both at home and school. In the later years 22ish, I was just out of college and BROKE-BROKETY-BROKE! Yes, it may seem like I am money-hungry, but I'm truly not. But being broke does make you miserable, and it is nice to finally not be that way.

2006-12-20 08:10:39 · 9 answers · asked by lapoetsmoderator 1 in Friends

Like, 10-15 min go by with no questions? I posted my last one because I was getting irritated with the lack of questions.
Same with this one.

2006-12-20 08:10:23 · 7 answers · asked by fucose_man 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I went hiking with a group of friends. 3 guys (including me) and 5 girls. We came across a natural hot spring and decided since it was nice out we stripped off our clothes and jumped in. Once my clothes came off I got an uncontrolable full erection that stuck straight out and wouldnt go away. It was not a problem so much while underwater but we had no towels and had to sun ourselves to dry. That whole time out of the water standing around drying in the small clearing within inches of these 5 girls (3 of which i didnt know well) it just stood straight out.

Ladies if you were one of the females in our group skinny dipping how would you react to that situation?

2006-12-20 08:09:53 · 28 answers · asked by orangecross666 1 in Friends

every year. My mom n dad got divorised when i was 8. Ever since my mom hates my dad n his side of the family. He lost shared custudity of us a few years ago n his health is really bad. Hes only 40 n is already on an oxygen machine at night. Neway, my mom wont take me 2 c my dads side of the family, aunt, grandmom, cusins, n all, n she wont let them *** over our house 2 exchange gifts n c each other. So, my grandmom n aunt is supposedy cuming 2 my house neway w/out talking 2 my mom first n r going 2 call me or my sis 2 c if were home n *** over. If they call me im going 2 get yelled out 4 not saying nething n my mom is going 2 get all mad n upset. N if they call my sis n then show up, i have no idea wut is going 2 happen. Please let my kno wut u wud do n this situation. I really apretiate it. Thx.

2006-12-20 08:09:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-20 08:09:01 · 7 answers · asked by Nicole 2 in Friends

How do you know if the guy you have been crushing on likes you back? And how do you ask him out if he does like you, or should you wait and see if he asks you out?

2006-12-20 08:08:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My next door nieghboor has been my friends for as long as i can remember, but lately she has been turning 'bad.' Now she lies all the time and she is a idiot. My parents are afraid i might start acting bad like her if i hang out with her. But still, our friendship has been going on for as long as i can remember. Should I keep our freindship?

2006-12-20 08:08:38 · 15 answers · asked by tz 4 in Friends

I am currently "seeing" someone I met online. Previously, we met in a public place to just talk (which we did for hours). Since then we talk daily by phone, or through IM's. "D", invited me to his home just to hang out and I plan on going friday evening. I want to tell someone I am going, but have not told my trusted friends or family the details of how I met him just out of embarrassement of how I met him. I felt safe around him and am not scared to meet him, but I have been told by my friends b/c they think I trust men too much anyway ! (My grandmother always had a saying that as a woman you shouldn't be alone with a man unless your ready to have sex with him) so I do not worry about being raped either. Should I just go and have a great time without worry. I have done a background check on him and he turns up clean. We seem to have alot in common and I like him, do I need precaution now and if so what ?

2006-12-20 08:08:29 · 12 answers · asked by nene 3 in Singles & Dating

would do u like to do with ur friends at a sleepover so that u don't get bord and end up mad at each other. i want to have a really great sleep over! but we never know what to do so i would like it if u gave me some good ideas of fun things to do (were only 13)

2006-12-20 08:07:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my girlfriend and i have been dating for a month and a half or so and the other day she asked me to tie her up and whip her/ use her torture her and all that junk. i didnt know how to respond, ive never done anything kinkier than a blindfold and handcuffs. i kind of said i dont know so then she asked if i would prefer she did the stuff to me. what am i supposed to do? i dont really feel that comfortable with doing that stuff to her, i have never hit a woman before and dont wanna break my record, what do i do? what do i tell her?

2006-12-20 08:07:45 · 23 answers · asked by slightly confused 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay so me and my b/f have been together for 8 months now and i love him so much. But he hates dogs and i love my puppy and i dont wanna ignore it to make him happy. He gets mad when the dog is on the couch with me or sleeps in the bed. Well i have had the dog way before him and the dog is used to that and attached to me. So what should i do. He said that he can't live with me if i take the dog. But i don't wanna give up my dog and my b/f is stubborn when it comes to this. I don't wanna have a bad relationship or ruin our relationship ova this but i also dont wanna disown my pup either. It is attached to me and i love it like a child. What do i do?

2006-12-20 08:07:12 · 11 answers · asked by khester05 2 in Other - Family & Relationships