How do you know if the guy you have been crushing on likes you back? And how do you ask him out if he does like you, or should you wait and see if he asks you out?
2006-12-20 08:08:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my experience, it's better to take a chance than to wonder later. No need to be aggressive...but certainly you can afford to be assertive. Do not worry if his feelings are reciprocal...take a chance! And remember, if he does not have the same admiration for you as you do for him...it does not mean there is anything wrong with you. It means he is not the one. Good Luck!
2006-12-20 08:15:22 · answer #1 · answered by sammiejane67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as a guy, if there is a lady(girl if you prefer) I like, then I'm going to just going to start up a nice conversation. If she's already committed to another person, or just not interested, I thank her for the conversation and her time and move on. One way to find out if someone is interested in you and you are nervous about asking them directly, ask a friend who knows someone who could ask that person about you. If they do, get up and say hi. If they're not interested or whatnot, I'm sorry. Just breath.
2006-12-20 16:14:54 · answer #2 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Body language. If he sits with a body part facing u or if u ever catch him looking ur way 4 a sort of long pause. If he smiles at u or finds sumway 2 start a conversation with u or if he pokes u or ne contact of touching is a definent sign of flirting. So, if he does ne of these ask him out like, i think ur really cute n want 2 get 2 kno u more..u wanna hang out sumtime. Good Luck!
2006-12-20 16:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wait until he asks you out, you'll at least know that he does like you. After that, you'll need to get to know each other to determine if you're a good match. Usually a guy will give some indication that he's interested, he'll keep eye contact (or wink at you if you're lucky), he'll say something catchy, something.... So try to get a feel as to how he's viewing the situation. Good Luck
2006-12-20 16:12:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we act stupider than normal and are always trying to touch you. then we call when we have nothing to say. some times we walk into walls when you walk by, and we use big words that we have no idea the meaning of. we might try to beat up the puniest guy around just to show we're tough, and although we may only shower when we can smell ourselves we will use hygene products like hair gel when we know we might see you.... so if the guy your thinking about is smart, respects your space, calls only when he has something to say, is articulate, clean and groomed and sensitive enough not to start fights....... he's gay..... and will make a great friend for a faghag!
2006-12-20 16:19:34 · answer #5 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats easy if the guy likes you hes always around. He talks to you and smiles and will blush at times. Don't ask him out throw out hints about a new movie you like to go see or you have nothing going on friday night and don't want to be bored. etc. stuff like that if hes interested he will pick up on the hints.
2006-12-20 16:13:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anne E. W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If doesnt really talk to you or is quiet around you that may be one sign. If he sits slanted towards you or if he stands close to you while talking. Though it may be embarrassing, ASK him out. youll never really know unless you ASK, or play that whole, friend ask him if he likes you thing. Hell think more of you if you do it yourself. It is so hard to do! but try
2006-12-20 16:13:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can tell sometimes by the way he treats you, if he makes u feel like the only person in a room then there is definetly something there, but I would just hang out and see what happens, you cant make something happen, it will happen when the time is right
2006-12-20 16:11:22 · answer #8 · answered by XcindyX78 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him one on one and see his reactions towards certain things. See if he flirts back with you and see what happens. Tell him how you feel and see what he feels.
2006-12-20 16:13:57 · answer #9 · answered by nht_5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys are complete dumb heads if you like him dont wait for him to ask you out. all my friends and i had to ask out the boy believe me if you waited it woul be forever. ask a friend to ask him out for you its and easy way without being akward.
2006-12-20 16:13:39 · answer #10 · answered by DUDE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋