Family & Relationships - 19 December 2006

I don't know what to do... I had an affair with my best friends husband about 1 1/2 years ago and I just can't get over it. I can't stop thinking about him. It isn't so much that I want to be with him... but I just think about him all the time. I want to talk to him. See the thing is me and him were really good friends too. What do I do? I can't talk to him so how do I get over this or forget?

2006-12-19 06:59:53 · 10 answers · asked by what that head say 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and i have a 6 month old and since the baby she has been a healthy 40 ponds heavy than i have ever seen her. The worst part is that she is so determined to get the weight off. I love the extra pounds, and prefer the extra meat on her bones. She was never really super skinny. She always has been around 145-150 at 5' 8". the lowest was 130 and i hated it. now that she is a curvy 185 i never want her 145 again. Should i push for her to keep the weight for me even if she hates it. I don't want to be a jerk, but i like the extra weight and i know that if i lay off and she looses it then i'll hate it. should i let it go and let her loose it so she is happy with herself, or keep after her to keep it on. I think she may think i am only saying i like so she won't stress about loosing it, but i really like it.

2006-12-19 06:59:31 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I let her because it did not bother me. It did when she started, but she does it all the time, so I just got used to her personality. She is getting a little more lazy with the taps lately though. She taps anywhere along my upper leg (inner and outer it seems now). Some taps are like a few inches or less from my thing. I am just wondering if girls normally tap guy friends like this? The closeness and frequency is starting to make me wonder and even get thoughts...

2006-12-19 06:59:11 · 18 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 06:57:47 · 11 answers · asked by TYREECE S 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 06:57:19 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i know my bf dont love me anymore..but i cant stop thinking about him..i love him so much and i miss him all the time..im trying to get over it n move on..theres this friend of mine who really cares abt me he loves me n want me to marry him.having relation with this guy kills me.all i think is of my bf who dont love me anymore.wat should i do..plz help

2006-12-19 06:57:16 · 6 answers · asked by zoya 7 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm basically going to spill all my feelings for this girl, and I need to either A: Win her heart with something amazing to say or B: say something really amazing, but fail with flying colors... as in she doesn't want anything to do with me. Any words of advice?

2006-12-19 06:57:07 · 4 answers · asked by Brad 1 in Singles & Dating

I was dating my fiance before we got engaged.My future mother in law did not know at the time.At one stage he had went onto drugs. Since my future mother in law found out that we were dating when he was on drugs & we were about two months into the relationship she blames me for it.I have sensed that she does not like me at all.This is her only son.another thing is that I am of different religion.My fiance & i have spoken about having kids & how we gonna raise them up with open to both religions but we do not mind each others religion & it has never come between us.

But future mother in law has a major problem & this is all that I am sensing. I have asked my fiance a million times & have arugued once or twice about it & he knows it too. He has also told me he had overheard his mother talking to someone & she then realized he was there so then stopped? We have spoken to her about it she says she loves me as a daughter in law
can i call of wedding? Really tempted because of her

2006-12-19 06:57:02 · 8 answers · asked by MEHNAZ B 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What's that mean? does she like me or does she hate me or what? I've known her for like 5 months now and we get along pretty well. I don't know what's going on. She's awesome, but now, i don't know...

2006-12-19 06:56:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend is going out with this boy & today i was stupid & told her i liked this boy & she said if she finds out i was messin with him, she's gonna hurt me.... but i don't think she'll hurt me.. but i don't like gettin yelled at or being center of attention so then she said if her and her boyfriend breaks up, shes gonna go out with the boy i like!! i want to go out with him & do wat i want but i don't want her to be mad...... what do i do????

2006-12-19 06:55:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this girlfriend who enjoys sneaking into my cellphone at all hours of the night to "find" other numbers or pictures.... Problem is: I have a friend who will take pictures and send them as a text/pic message... after she sneaks into my phone, I am faced with non stop b-ing... HELP!

2006-12-19 06:55:25 · 25 answers · asked by hrfrontman 1 in Singles & Dating

in their birthday suit.

2006-12-19 06:55:13 · 4 answers · asked by Bill F 1 in Singles & Dating

i am recently going out with a guy who i met online frm canada,i am trying to read him,so far his really respectful,he kises my forehead,covers my body when i am wearing something open when some guys pass by,he cares about me.we get along well..i know his much taller then me and plus his not goodlooking at all.but thr is something which makes me love him alot.do u think i should continue loving him

well he likes me wearing sexy outfit but he wont touch me badly except for french kiss and his hands will b on my shoulder or playing with my hair while kissing and at times he doesnt even mind if i wear casual clothes, i found out his hairy lol and that scares me! through he tells me that he will wax for my sake and i should do that for him

2006-12-19 06:54:50 · 3 answers · asked by Yasmin 3 in Singles & Dating

A friend sent this to give me a laugh. True?
"Part of the reason why men don't marry their mistresses, deep down there is a mistrust by the man, and a fear of her power. After all, "This woman, this mistress, is willing to sneak around and see me in secret, even fren' up and talk to mi wife, what a deceitful cunning witch she is, how could I ever trust her?" or "My God, what a sexual being she is, how could I ever trust her, after a while she nuh muss tired of mi and find another man when I can't satisfy her?" "How could she ever trust me, knowing that I spent years sneaking around behind my wife's back, how could I live with that guilt?" What an irony.They are masters, make that mistreses of guilt, deceit and deception. Same knife stick sheep stick goat and all that. That's why they also say that you have wife material and you have mistress material.The reality is if your car gets old and worn out and you rent one in the interim, you don't buy the rental, do you, but opt to buy new.

2006-12-19 06:54:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This question is only for white females under the age of 35. Just curious to hear your point of view. There could be various reasons why you wouldn't date a black guy such as peer pressure or fear of what your parents might think. But that doesn't mean you don't find black men attractive.

2006-12-19 06:52:45 · 20 answers · asked by Sid 2 in Singles & Dating

how do i tell my boyfriend that i'm moving we just started to get serious what do i do

2006-12-19 06:52:35 · 12 answers · asked by ash16 1 in Singles & Dating

His family does not acknowledge gifts (phone, e-mail, written) for formal or casual occasions. Now we've been invited/obligated to my husband's nephew's 2nd wedding next Weds. Dec 27th at 5pm. The nephew lives about 10-12 hours away but is getting married here. (My husband's brother called and told us about it last night.) And we get to bring a covered dish to help at the reception. I met this nephew once briefly and he and my husband aren't particularly close. Are we obligated to go? Do I have to bring food? A gift? This is already getting old - they've don't give my kids presents nor did they give us wedding gifts or a baby gift for our 11 month old son. My husband said he'd never heard of acknowledging gifts with thank you notes. My husband is paid hourly and will miss work if he goes. I don't want to drive 30-45min to this church in the late afternoon with 4 kids under age 10, esp. alone. I have no interest in attending but I think his family already dislikes me. What to do??????

2006-12-19 06:52:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

were????????????/

2006-12-19 06:52:05 · 4 answers · asked by smiley star 1 in Singles & Dating

my favorite boy names are
1. Jayiden 2.Jordon 3.Jason 4.Will My favorite boy name is Jayiden

2006-12-19 06:51:28 · 12 answers · asked by toofacepeople 1 in Singles & Dating

This man I've never met, but he is a friend of a friend and I talk to him on myspace. He's nice and cute and my friend speaks well of him..
He recently told me he was coming to my city in a few weeks.
Well, I told him if he wanted a tour of the city let me know, and I'd hook him up. I trust him since he knows my friend.

Anyway, He wrote back ,
'Right on girl, I might take you up on that tour."

That's all he wrote, nothing else.
He never wrote, I'll let you know when I'll be there or anything.
Just, 'I might take you up on that tour.'

Was he just blowing me off?

I do not wnat to email back and say anything else and look stupid.

2006-12-19 06:51:26 · 8 answers · asked by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I want to send an apology to my friends but I don't know if this is wierd or too formal. What do you think?

Dear Friends,

I'm sending this to all of you, and I know it is a long time coming. I write to apologize for potentially offending you when I deleted my facebook profile a few weeks ago abruptly without notifying any of you. This was inconsiderate on my part and I sincerely apologize for any offense taken and I truly hope that it does not affect any aspect of our friendship. I value each and every one of you and our friendship deeply and did not want to jeapordize that by leaving this unaddressed. I do not intend to put a profile back up, and I know that because of that, I have already and will soon lose contact with many of you. However, despite that, I want you all to know that I enjoyed and continue to enjoy my time with each and every single one of you. Though we may never see or even talk through the internet ever again, I hope you all know that I admire you and value our friendship and wish you all the best in the future. Again I am very sorry. Thank you.

2006-12-19 06:51:08 · 24 answers · asked by leena 4 in Friends

I have an issue with my boyfriend that he gets sex when he wants it, but when I start trying to have sex with him...he changes what we are doing. He will do anything to stop it.This has been a problem since the begining of our relationship,but I dont know how to handle it.I did of course speak to him about how that made me feel.I told him that I thought our relationship should be equal and that I have sexual needs that he is treating like they dont matter.He usually responds to me,"sex isnt the most important thing in our relationship,right?"Then what do i say?When we do have sex, the sex is great!I hate to say it, but every time he has ever tried,I have never been able to say no.I just love him,and long for that connection we do have during sex.I dont want to be one of those sad girls that will just take what she can get when she can get it,but sadly I really have been.I want to feel like a sexy woman that can turn her man on!This has broken my selfesteem a lot! What should I do?

2006-12-19 06:51:04 · 33 answers · asked by LadyAlysse 1 in Singles & Dating

The guy who u've really fell 4 only wants u as something casual????

2006-12-19 06:50:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife is spontaneous. She will try almost anything once. She has gotten interested into scat as of late. She wants to take a dump on my face. Of course, I sanely refused the offer. Now she is telling me that I'm selfish and I don't really care for her happiness. She has been whiny and its stressing me out. We have two kids. I don't wanna leave her for their sakes. What should I tell the kids if I leave my wife. Im so stressed out, right now. I fear I may lose my whole family. I don't know what I am going to do without my family. Maybe I should give in to her wishes and humiliate myself. I love my family way too much to lose them. What should I do?

2006-12-19 06:49:36 · 51 answers · asked by icyhott4urmind 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Just wondering if i am the onle lone parent on here ? I'm 'old' father of 13 year boy...just curious as to whether anymore single parents hovering round the world ;)

2006-12-19 06:49:22 · 21 answers · asked by Wortho 4 in Family

She even wants to have a baby with me. She says am too inteligent that she wants a baby from me who will have the same carater like me that evev if am dead and gone the child can console her and have careing as i do to her . What do you say?

2006-12-19 06:48:44 · 12 answers · asked by PAA OYOYOMI 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 06:48:40 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have realized that my boyfriend and I are going in differant directions in our lifes. I want certain things and he wants other things and we are no longer wanting the same things. Is it terrible to break up with him before christmas? Should I wait?

2006-12-19 06:48:29 · 30 answers · asked by SWEETCAITY 1 in Singles & Dating

do you believe everyone is entitled to a second chance? do you forgive and forget?

2006-12-19 06:47:16 · 17 answers · asked by Fabe 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 06:47:06 · 7 answers · asked by darkbunny15 2 in Singles & Dating