my friend is going out with this boy & today i was stupid & told her i liked this boy & she said if she finds out i was messin with him, she's gonna hurt me.... but i don't think she'll hurt me.. but i don't like gettin yelled at or being center of attention so then she said if her and her boyfriend breaks up, shes gonna go out with the boy i like!! i want to go out with him & do wat i want but i don't want her to be mad...... what do i do????
2006-12-19 06:55:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LET HER BE MAD
2006-12-19 07:00:14 · answer #1 · answered by Kwadwo B 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obviously your friend isnt being a TRUE FRIEND...She is threatining to backstab and hurt you (trust me)...Honestly you shouldnt hang out with her much if she's going to to that...BUT go for the guy you like...She cant do ANYTHING to hurt you and if she does tell your mom or something and get that little witch in trouble...GO FOR THE GUY-It's ok sometimes be the center of attention, and if she yell as you bite back!(not litereally "bite")
GOOD LUCK !
2006-12-19 15:02:02 · answer #2 · answered by *Breath* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in her shoes and ask your self would I get mad if my friend likes my bf and wants to go out? SHould I get mad about it. Of course. wait till she isn't going with him then it's a free for all. But not while he's your friend's bf. ANd telling her makes it worse. SO I guess if they break up and if you going with someone she already said she would go out with him just out of spite. You need to forget him and find a nice guy because you deserve it and let the guy's with gf's alone.
2006-12-19 15:03:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your shoes I would seriously be questioning what I am getting out of the relationship with this friend.
She's got a boyfriend, but she's going to go out with another boy that she knows you like and she yelled at you about it?
Her integrity, consideration and judgement are all questionable here.
2006-12-19 14:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honestly i think your friend is not your friend. friends don't treat friends that way. there is a code among girlfriend. no dating exs and no dating boys you like. you should be able to date who you want as long as you don't cross those lines. if you felt stupid telling her then she isn't being a good friend
2006-12-19 15:03:02 · answer #5 · answered by smileygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your suppose to be her friend leave him alone it will pass. i would never mress with anyone that was seeing my friends or my brothers not if i wanted to keep them in my life. so i would call that down right nasty. but you have to do what you think if anyone told you not to that would only make you want to do it more. so go find out where your values are in your friends or yourself.
2006-12-19 15:06:44 · answer #6 · answered by Willie F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's taken leave him and your friend alone. it's not worth the fight. find someone else to like or wait till they break up because of something else.
2006-12-19 14:59:00 · answer #7 · answered by bluestar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get the 4 of you together
see who likes who
make the appropriate changes
2006-12-19 15:02:44 · answer #8 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to go out with him then. Relationships come and go but true friendship (if that's what you have) is valuable and should be nurtured and respected.
2006-12-19 15:01:24 · answer #9 · answered by D baby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt sound like she is a good friend....maybe you should re think this friendship. you are entitiled to say and speak your mind without being intimitated.
2006-12-19 15:09:15 · answer #10 · answered by DISSAPOINTED WENDY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need a real man,come to daddy
2006-12-19 15:02:58 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋