I don't know what to do... I had an affair with my best friends husband about 1 1/2 years ago and I just can't get over it. I can't stop thinking about him. It isn't so much that I want to be with him... but I just think about him all the time. I want to talk to him. See the thing is me and him were really good friends too. What do I do? I can't talk to him so how do I get over this or forget?
2006-12-19 06:59:53 · 10 answers · asked by what that head say 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're saying you have no control over what thoughts come into your own mind? You're saying you can't stop what you think? Then you need some psychotherapy. Otherwise, you get busy doing other things (not married men) and try not to let the shame of what you did make you too depressed.
2006-12-19 07:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best friends husband. WOW! That's not going to be good, well, unless they are swingers. Are you married? Maybe you could offer your husband to her for a night of passion and see how that works out. Then, you'll need, of course, to get your husband to agree. That's about the only way I think you can get what you want and still save a friendship, however, you might consider finding another best friend.
Good luck with that. Sounds like a call to Jerry Springer is around the corner.
2006-12-19 07:04:35 · answer #2 · answered by 35 goodlookinmalefrombalt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
I know its not easy, especially when no one has sparked you like he did. I don't know if your in a relationship or not? although regardless what happened, it was perfect. There is no right or wrong and it simply happened. I know that soon an amazing new chapter in your life will unfold and that relationship is just a small taste of amazing things to come. It has made you hungry for love. It has opened you to new things, only if you let it. Once you can own your experiences and not let them own you, there will be amazing change in your life and all the nice times that you so deserve will come flowing smoothly and easy and without any limitations. So just breath and smile and look out because it will take you kicking and screaming, just when you least expect it.
Take good care.
Antonio D.
2006-12-19 07:22:04 · answer #3 · answered by Bacistocaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cheated your husband. if there's a time to forget, pls forget everything and don't cheat your husband. i think it is only your immoitonal feeling that you didn't noticed from your husband. try talking to your husband and tell him what you want from him to make you comportable.
2006-12-19 07:07:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT's always going to get hard over it...But things happen sometimes...just try to keep it cool and pretend liek it never happened...
2006-12-19 07:04:31 · answer #5 · answered by *Breath* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never forget what you did and I hope you never get over it
2006-12-19 07:02:25 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start you car in your garage and sit in it and ponder the question a little more.
2006-12-19 07:07:47 · answer #7 · answered by buckeyes1125 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope u never forget and it haunts u forever that was a f***ed up thing to do
2006-12-19 07:03:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no clue
maybe its cuz you like thinking of him.
2006-12-19 07:04:06 · answer #9 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ALONE CAN GET OVER THIS .
2006-12-19 07:04:59 · answer #10 · answered by Kwadwo B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋