This question is only for white females under the age of 35. Just curious to hear your point of view. There could be various reasons why you wouldn't date a black guy such as peer pressure or fear of what your parents might think. But that doesn't mean you don't find black men attractive.
2006-12-19 06:52:45 · 20 answers · asked by Sid 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont know every white girl in the world so it is hard to answer about ALL white women. I would say that being attracted to black men is not different than some women being attracted to short men or bald men. It is just something that is based on personal preferences of the person. Now they may not date black men pending on what their families beliefs are but that does not stop them from being attracted to them.
2006-12-19 06:59:28 · answer #1 · answered by mpatterson0828 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This comes from talking to many many black guys on this subject. I'm white fyi. They have told me that the reason they go out with white girls is 1, there dumb, 2 they put up with there cheating ways....why? Refer to #1. 3 black girls are really dominate and dont take no shyt most of the time. They are not afraid to pick up something and smash there guy in the head with it, therefore, black guys are scared of them to a point. They want someone they can control more and do what they're told. All you white girls just keep going out with all of them and see what happens. Mind you not all are like this but most black guys are. Again, this comes straight form a bunch of black guys that i have had conversations with about this subject. SO, all in all, why can't people stick to there own and not mix things up. It's screwing up the genome. Sorry, i know this isnt the answer you are looking for but i hate this subject when most of the girls are indeed, DUMB when it comes to this. If you do not believe me, go find out for yourself !!! I have never known ANY black man to be faithful to his woman. NONE !!!
2006-12-19 10:04:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People in general are attracted to other races for whatever reason. Societal pressures will make some reluctant to pursue a relationship. The mores in the US still consider Black / White dating and marriage a no-no.
People should do what they want. Just be mindful there are plenty of Kooks out there.
2006-12-19 06:57:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
PEOPLE are attracted to PEOPLE, not to races. If the sole reason you're dating someone is the color of their skin or some expectation about racial characteristics, then that is a very shallow and hollow relationship.
Puh-lease, what is this, the 60s? The deep South? Is there honestly any adult woman that would not date someone they sincerely care about, just because of what others might say? Weak.
As a young white woman, I will date whomever I find attractive (both personality-wise and physically). I have dated men from a range of races, and will continue to do so.
2006-12-19 07:00:27 · answer #4 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
A lot are, just like a lot of black guys are interested in black girls. The people who aren't are just racist t***s. If you are attracted to this guy, get talking to him. If he says that you are disgusting because you are black (you're not) then he's not worth it. Move on if that is the case. The world doesn't work in the way that whites go with whites and blacks go with blacks. It's who you fall in love with. Black, white, it doesn't matter. What matters is what you are good inside. The answer to your question is that probably white guys ARE attracted to you but you need to get talking to the person you like. Hope it helps Nina :) xxx
2016-03-13 08:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the fact that black and white people act and grow up so much differently makes it very hard for them to get along in a dating relationship. You find those that do have success is because one acts more black or one acts more white. While there are always exceptions, you can't include them because they are not part of the majority.
2006-12-19 06:59:02 · answer #6 · answered by Jonny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not attracted to Black men. If I was, I would not care what society says. But I live in Utah, which is actually extremely tolerant toward all races. If I lived in the South where racism is serious business, I may think twice.
2006-12-19 06:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by Local Celebrity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes at 1st I was like that cause I was raised to be racist & my parents were so disappointed in me cause I chose not to listen to that mess. It was hard on me in school. Had 3 friends & that was cause they were outcast like me. I seen that black girls hated me & white people all together thought I was nasty.It was a hard road to travel but it was my choice. Believe it or not I married an Islander & it is way worse with racism from his family than any black guy I ever dated.I think color shouldn't matter at all but in soceity it does in some places. I live in the deep South.
2006-12-19 07:31:42 · answer #8 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would there be peer pressure from dating black guys?
I have been in an interracial relationship for 6 years with a black man and I've never received a problem from anyone. In fact, I see it everywhere. I am guessing you live in the united states because here in Toronto, Canada we don't have any problems with that sort of thing.
2006-12-19 06:57:58 · answer #9 · answered by j_goodwin27 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hi, i am 22 and am from a place in the uk where there are not many black people. I went to uni in london and am now going out with a black guy. I know lots of girls that like the looks of black men but it is hard to find them in outer city areas for some reason and many of the black men(and the white men) in london are not what i would call suitable bachelors, hehe xxxx
2006-12-19 06:56:32 · answer #10 · answered by shai 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋