Family & Relationships - 19 December 2006

it is easy to say ' i love you' but can anybody define the word love what does it mean?

2006-12-19 06:24:25 · 24 answers · asked by smelly 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok I was wondering how you all felt about ..being in love..your soulmate..and when its time to give up on a relationship..How long would you wait for the man or woman you loved..be it though they were sorting out there feelings..or you were in a long distance relationship. How long would you be in a relationship before you took it to the next step to engagment or marriage...

2006-12-19 06:24:23 · 8 answers · asked by Life It Is What It Is 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My partner has had many oral sex experiences. He has never "finished" from receiving oral sex. During a recent sexual experience with him, I was "down below" and he came a little bit, just a couple drops, but didn't know anything about it. It wasn't until I brought it up a day later that he even knew he did anything. Is this normal? How could he not know, even if it was a teeny bit? I know it could be "pre", but he said since he's never been able to reach that with someone giving oral, that he would likely know if his body was reacting that way. Any opinions?

2006-12-19 06:24:08 · 14 answers · asked by chaotic_mum 4 in Singles & Dating

I have a so called friend, who always seemed "off" for some reason. Lately I have found out from other people that she has really big jealousy problems towards me. I am now engaged and she had said a few things to me about my fiancee, such as "wouldn't it be funny if he left you" and stuff like that, yet she really seems to like him a lot. She will speak so much to him that my fiancee is getting worried.
She is often cruel to me and has asked me to stop speaking to some of our mutual friends, so that she is only friends with them. I have been nice and done stuff for her, but now it is getting out of control. How do I end this relationship as nicely as possible?

2006-12-19 06:23:48 · 3 answers · asked by Lynette 1 in Friends

In addition, what is a good day to call. Three day rule? On a Wed for a Friday night.

2006-12-19 06:22:37 · 13 answers · asked by Keith 4 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee and I just moved to a new area. We don't know anybody and it is about the time in our wedding planning to choose our ring bearer and flower girl. We do have some close friends with kids but they live 3000 miles away and it won't be guarentee that they will come to the wedding. Is there and alternate for a ring bearer and a flower girl?

2006-12-19 06:22:20 · 20 answers · asked by icthus0744 2 in Weddings

I was in a fatal car wreck 5years ago...the boy Michael Paris who died next to me had just switched seats with me minutes before the accident...he saved my life. His mom tried contacting me but at the time i was too much in shock and couldnt handle it I was only 15. I really want to get a hold of her and his dad and let them know he is my angel...I found his dads number but I dont want to call and freik him out...I cant find his moms address or number...How should I go about this?

2006-12-19 06:22:15 · 15 answers · asked by LUCKY TOLLY 3 in Friends

Someone posted on a site that they cheated on their wife. I feel
cheating is the worst thing you could do to someone. I know everyone has their own opinion, but I FEEL that if you cheat on someone, you don't really love that person. I could never knowingly hurt my husband so bad because I love and respect him way to much to cheat on him and hurt him like that. Not only that, cheating is a deception. If you cheat, you deceive your spouse and your kids.

CHEATING IS VERY BAD! I HAVE NO RESPECT WHAT-SO-EVER FOR ANYONE WHO CHEATS ON THEIR SPOUSE!

If you can't even have respect for your own spouse and kids, how can you expect people to have respect for you?

AGAIN, THIS IS JUST THE WAY I FEEL! Does anyone else feel the same way?

2006-12-19 06:21:54 · 27 answers · asked by Billys girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Is this true???I just had a baby 2 months ago and am ready for action again!!!But my bf feels funny about it because last time we had sex i started having contractions?It was not done on purpose baby came a month early.Aparently even though he passed out and did not see the birth of his son he feels funny about having sex?I am ready to jump him my sex drive came back more than before.If so why is it traumatic for men?

2006-12-19 06:21:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

-k- I just answered someone else question regarding unsafe sex and it got me thinking. How often should I get tested for STD's?

Even though I personally insist on practicing safe sex, I still think it's important to get tested. How often do you think I/all of us who are sexually active be tested for STD's? Is once every two months too often or is that pretty conventional?

P.S. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a raving nympho, I only have sex when I'm in a committed relationship, but I still get tested because I can never tell if/when my partner has been with someone else.

2006-12-19 06:20:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been living in Vegas for about 5 months now and find it so hard to find good guys..............any help???

2006-12-19 06:20:04 · 10 answers · asked by courtneyc2002 3 in Singles & Dating

i have a really really bad problem, i know it seems really petty but its really getting me down, i go bright red over anything, and i mean anything, and not just blushing a little bit, really blushing! im a confident girl really, i always have a laugh n stuff but some things make me really go red, even things that arent embarrassing. like the other day i saw one of my old school mates and i went red, or when me and my bf go out for a meal, i go bright red wen i have to say wat i want to eat, its getting worse and worse and worse and it makes me feel **** when it happens, i just feel like buryin my head n cryin cos its so embarrassing and no1 knows why i go so red, but i wish it was just a little bit but i go so so red its a joke. and its really getting me down now....

2006-12-19 06:20:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 almost three months, and I'm wondering if it's too early to tell him I love him, or if I should wait for him to tell me first.

We talk every day on the phone, see each other twice a week, make each other laugh, we even exchanged Hanukkah presents! I also know he's not seeing anybody else (and neither am I), and we've also talked about personal stuff together like family trauma. Plus he has saved every single email from me.

Any thoughts would be appreciated. Thanks!

2006-12-19 06:19:32 · 16 answers · asked by x_filequeen 1 in Singles & Dating

I am talkin about that one cartoon person that looks like me...

2006-12-19 06:18:10 · 5 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Singles & Dating

I am just curious to see if there are any success stories of a man who is mentally, emotionally, or physically abusive changing his ways for good. If you know of anyone....can I hear your story?

2006-12-19 06:17:46 · 12 answers · asked by thisisithuh 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

im 20, n the army, and been deployed for 6 months...and come home next month....should i let my mom know so she can stop worrying, or is surprising her a better idea?

2006-12-19 06:17:07 · 35 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 06:16:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I hate the city i live in but i can't afford to move. my fiance is going to kuwait so i'll be alone for like 2 years. life sucks a lot right now. i'mtrying to be strong for him, cuz he's worried about me too. anysuggestions on how to make life suck less?

2006-12-19 06:16:15 · 11 answers · asked by Starry Eyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I've told a guy I knew for a really short time that I had feelings for him, just like that, straight out. I don't know why, I just knew it when I first saw him that I really like him. He first blushed then he was shocked for good 2 hours and he couldn't believe that i would ever like him. Later he said he had no feelings like that for me. Could it be that he was protecting himself? Because he's kind of nerd like and he said he usually protects himself from having feelings towards really pretty girls. I am pretty, but not empty headed, by the way, people say I am good-hearted girl.

2006-12-19 06:15:46 · 22 answers · asked by stargazer 2 in Singles & Dating

nothing slutty n i dont wear skirts cos its cold lol n i dont wana shiver all night?

2006-12-19 06:14:53 · 40 answers · asked by Melle 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 06:13:59 · 20 answers · asked by lachandra 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents made me REALLY angry right now. They NOW decided that we are going to travel to a ****** country and i'm gonna miss new year's eve and they ruined my holiday plans! After having done plans with my friends for this new year and being really exited, my parents came up with this shitty news. I have a test tomorrow and i can't concentrate because of this problem! It is gonna be my parents' fault if i fail! What should i do?

2006-12-19 06:13:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Please state age, regardless if you answer yes or no

2006-12-19 06:13:46 · 21 answers · asked by Michelino 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok well me and my ex went out for almost a year, and one day she broke up with me, saying she didn't like me, and we should be friends. Well I loved her to death, and it was really hard to take. She went out with about 4 guys, and it seems that she was trying to find what we had, but couldn't all of her dates were jerks. Now I never mistreated her, and did everything I could sto show I loved her. We talk once in a while, and she seems to be really happy when she talks to me. She always refers to things that happened during our relationship as good times. I know alot of girls like me and i wonder why she wouldn't want to date me again, and well the guys she goes out with aren't that great looking/are jerks. So basically, there is a small chance that she still has feelings for me. I'm not sure if I should tell her how I feel, the embarassment factor always gets to me. It's been about 6 months, and It's only gotten worse, I still love her just as much as the day she broke up with me.

2006-12-19 06:13:44 · 6 answers · asked by Brad 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 06:13:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Well where can I start I was with my ex boyfriend for almost two years. We broke up and he went overseas due him being in the military and I live here in the states. We have remained friends best friends since our break up witch was over a year ago. But thru out that year of us talking..We have still been sexual with each other..tell each other we love one another talked about our future togehter our kids..he supports me with everything that I do.we talk on the phone every single day... only thing is I asked him if we were getting back together he says he dont wanna talk about it until he see's me face to face..then the other day we were on the phone he thought i had fallen asleep on him, and he said to me baby i love you so much im going to marry you I promise. but im still confused because we are not offically boyfriend and girlfriend right now and he said he does not want to talk about it right now..can any one help me do you think he is playing games with me?

2006-12-19 06:13:00 · 7 answers · asked by Life It Is What It Is 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 16 and i have no guy friends AT ALL most probably because i don't go to church ( don't ask me to go) and I am studying in an all-girls school. I live alone and I feel like having a boyfriend to care for me. can u please give me as many ideas as possible? I don't want to turn into a lesbian and i don't wanna go for matchmaking stuff ( thanks!) ...and... randomly checking out a stranger is weird & uneasy for anyone isin't it?

2006-12-19 06:12:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay are they trashy or sexy?

2006-12-19 06:12:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 06:12:21 · 13 answers · asked by texas raised 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what should i do

2006-12-19 06:11:51 · 15 answers · asked by theguythatslookslikeamonkey 1 in Singles & Dating