I hate the city i live in but i can't afford to move. my fiance is going to kuwait so i'll be alone for like 2 years. life sucks a lot right now. i'mtrying to be strong for him, cuz he's worried about me too. anysuggestions on how to make life suck less?
2006-12-19 06:16:15 · 11 answers · asked by Starry Eyes 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get a pet (if you can have one where you live), if you have children spend time with them, spend time with friends, take up a hobby, take up a self defense class to let some stress out, volunteer at a local community center or church and most importantly DON'T CHEAT ON YOUR MAN.
The bank of fidelity and trust is a tough lender, if you make a deposit somewhere else your account will be closed forever.
2006-12-19 06:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a job, or go to school.
you have to keep moving forward even when he's not around. if he comes back and sees that you made a mess of yourself while he was gone, in the worst case he might have second thoughts about the engagement.
do you have kids?
2006-12-19 06:18:28 · answer #2 · answered by John C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out of your way to help people in small ways, even someone to talk to. no family? no education you everdesired and could be working towards? hmm. learn to hike, it's cheap and all you need is water, and the outside world. besides it's healthy.
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ps Good luck
2006-12-19 06:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by MAX POWER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I REALLY THINK THAT YOU SHOULD LEARN TO APPRECIATE THE LITTLE THINGS. I HAVE NEVER HAD MUCH BUT IT IS THE LITTLE THINGS THAT YOU DO HAVE THAT COUNT. EVEN IF HE IS GOING AWAY YOU STILL HAVE HIM, BE THANKFUL FOR THAT. BE THANKFUL FOR THE LIFE THAT YOU WILL LIVE TOGETHER ONCE HE HAS FINISHED HIS TOUR. I ALWAYS TELL MY FIANCE THAT AS LONG AS WE HAVE EACHOTHER WE HAVE ALL THAT WE WILL EVER NEED, EVERYTHING ELSE COMES LATER
2006-12-19 06:34:03 · answer #4 · answered by Pandora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree go to school and learn more as you can see your fiance is in a good way, what about you?What are you doing to be successful?Get up and go be a better person and stop whining about what you don't have~
2006-12-19 06:24:22 · answer #5 · answered by YO~NO~FUI E 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't need money to have fun. If you feel like something is missing then you need to find what it is. Some people find that volunteering is very fulfilling- it will let you see that you don't have it as bad as you think.
2006-12-19 06:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get involved in community groups and projects to keep your mind off of it and make it interests that HE can be excited about when he is home as well
2006-12-19 06:23:44 · answer #7 · answered by billnrhonda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. That's is sucky, and the only advice I have is to keep close friends close by.
2006-12-19 06:17:59 · answer #8 · answered by jrhod263 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a support group made up of military wives.
2006-12-19 06:18:27 · answer #9 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just live day by day. and be happy. life is not easy, and life is what you make out of it. good luck.
2006-12-19 06:19:07 · answer #10 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋