I'm 16 and i have no guy friends AT ALL most probably because i don't go to church ( don't ask me to go) and I am studying in an all-girls school. I live alone and I feel like having a boyfriend to care for me. can u please give me as many ideas as possible? I don't want to turn into a lesbian and i don't wanna go for matchmaking stuff ( thanks!) ...and... randomly checking out a stranger is weird & uneasy for anyone isin't it?
2006-12-19 06:12:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm a Christian. You don't have to go to church to find your answer, but pray for God to help you with your problems. I think you want a man in your life but there is no man around. Things will work out for you, just wait ant see. I want to encourage you to start a private journal and express how you feel on paper. This in turn will help you until you can feel better about yopur situatiion. God loves you and care about how you feel and so do your parents. Try to find the good in your situation and be the best person you can be. Having a little me time is good too(bubble baths, etc.) May God guide your heart in the decisions you make and in life. Take care of yourself and remember you are great and deserve the best life can offer.
2006-12-19 06:19:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, let me state a fact of life to you. We come to this earth ALONE and we leave this earth ALONE. so, quit the fantasy of being amongst cheerleaders all the time. However, human is a social animal and it can't live in a solitary confinement, otherwise you wont' be living in a city. Just respect and help your neighbors, talk to them anything normal and always respect their beliefs without necessarily agreeing with them all. Just be democratic and diplomatic about your life and don't be sad being alone, because everyone else is alone in this world. Those who think they are not, are doing nothing except deceiving themselves as they will find it out in a later stage of their life.
2006-12-23 13:08:25 · answer #2 · answered by Amir 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u can try telling ur parents 2 switch u 2 a mixed skool
or try going to the mall w/ just ur friends or try a close by place where u can meet sum1 if this don't work try getting a bf wen u go to college
2006-12-19 14:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by smoresanimaluvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u have girlfriends? if u do, have them introduce you to them, no matter if u think the guys are cute or not. use it as practice. Once you build up enough confidence, you'll realize you don't need to look for them, they'll come looking for you
2006-12-19 14:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by p00mkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ill be a internet guy freind lol
2006-12-19 14:14:30 · answer #5 · answered by Antonio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋