Well where can I start I was with my ex boyfriend for almost two years. We broke up and he went overseas due him being in the military and I live here in the states. We have remained friends best friends since our break up witch was over a year ago. But thru out that year of us talking..We have still been sexual with each other..tell each other we love one another talked about our future togehter our kids..he supports me with everything that I do.we talk on the phone every single day... only thing is I asked him if we were getting back together he says he dont wanna talk about it until he see's me face to face..then the other day we were on the phone he thought i had fallen asleep on him, and he said to me baby i love you so much im going to marry you I promise. but im still confused because we are not offically boyfriend and girlfriend right now and he said he does not want to talk about it right now..can any one help me do you think he is playing games with me?
2006-12-19 06:13:00 · 7 answers · asked by Life It Is What It Is 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cut the sex out until he sorts his feelings out for you. The relationship seems to be about sex and the games to keep it coming.
2006-12-19 06:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn, people are so cynical around here (hell, I usually am as well but not this time). Having been over seas (not for two years) I think I know where he's coming from. Doesn't sound to me like he's playing games at all. Sounds like he doesn't want to minimize the value of his feelings by saying certain things over the phone, but he's rather wait and tell you face to face.
2006-12-19 06:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by boredperv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a good possibility that he's playing games with you. Next time you see him, don't have sex at all....and see where it leads from that. That way you'll find out if he's interested in you, or just using you. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-19 06:21:42 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I am not a guy......But dump him...he is using all this talk about marriage and kids, blah, blah, blah...to get you into bed...If he was really that into you, he would not be putting off talking to you about this....
It does not take a guy to asnwer this one...
2006-12-19 06:22:07 · answer #4 · answered by Mechelle C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure he wasn't talking to his overseas gf and knew you were asleep?
2006-12-19 06:17:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blah, blah, blah .... who has time to read your novel?
2006-12-19 06:16:19 · answer #6 · answered by blueyedimpledguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk
2006-12-19 06:17:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋