Family & Relationships - 19 December 2006

My boyfriend of 4 months said that he refuses to celebrate pegan holidays so he's not spending all his money on people (including me) on christmas gifts and then he'll have to go into the new years broke!

Then he went on to say that he will not be celebrating Valentines day either, just to give me a heads up so I'm not dissapointed when Febuary rolls around.

I was very angry and i want to talk to him about it but I don't even know what to say to him!!!!

2006-12-19 06:11:49 · 22 answers · asked by jasmin f 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 06:11:01 · 18 answers · asked by drdadrdadr 1 in Family

Part one:
If you could go back in time, hypotheticly, and change just one thing about the way your parrents raised you, what would it be?

Part two:
Why?

2006-12-19 06:10:40 · 14 answers · asked by Mr. KnowItAll 7 in Family

2006-12-19 06:10:31 · 8 answers · asked by joi r 1 in Singles & Dating

When girls tell me I have such an awesome @ss, I always take it as a compliment...but if I see a girl and tell her she has a sweet @ss, i find myself in sensitivity training again and again. Is this another double standard? And its funny b/c women supposidly love compliments, yet sensitivity training class is full of us guys who complement women...weird huh??

2006-12-19 06:10:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend was going out with this guy for 3 years, they were ready to get married ,when by word of a friend who saw this, that her love is seen another man! She had him folowed and found him with a man dressed like a woman , she confronted him and it was very sad! There is no reason for this , if a man likes his own ,he should not cross over, a woman does not deal with this , is unacceptable and very damaging. What says you?

2006-12-19 06:10:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What's up with my live in boyfriend of 6 months still checking out other girls when he's out alone or with me? We're in our thirties and he says that it's just because he's a man and not dead, but I know I'm not as pretty as the girls he's checking out - although I'm a very attractive woman. He's still adding girls to his myspace page too... but he never hooks up with them. He also thinks it's ok to flirt with someone or lead them to believe he's available if he thinks they can help him get a job. Should I be worried?

2006-12-19 06:10:11 · 22 answers · asked by kat 1 in Singles & Dating

And please don’t tell me you will just know give me details. Because I have had enough of being single. And it hurts every time when I think I have found the one but she does not feel the same way about me. Or the other way around where she feels something for me but I don’t feel nothing for her. Every time that happens it breaks my heart to know that I came that close to love but didn’t happen. I mean why is it taking me longer to find someone where we both feel the same for each other? And also how come younger people than me find love just like that when it should have been my turn. It just makes me angry that everyone is happy with someone and I am left on my own.

2006-12-19 06:09:41 · 26 answers · asked by Hades 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend won't stop calling me and i'm afraid to breakup w/ him bcause I know he will hurt my brother at daycare. I don't want to put him in danger. What should I do? Hury please

2006-12-19 06:09:37 · 8 answers · asked by ☼sunshine☼ 2 in Singles & Dating

I’m not seeing one group of relatives for Christmas until Dec. 26th and really don’t want to spend money on gifts. I’m thinking since I have to throw the live tree out after Christmas anyway it will make a nice gift for them. They also live more of a country/wooded area so they can just toss in the woods once it completely dies. Plus, they normally don’t take their own tree down until after New Years so they will have TWO (2) Christmas trees on display for at least a week. Not too many folks can say they have two trees. My question(s), is this a proper gift and should I leave the tinsel on it for them?

2006-12-19 06:08:53 · 13 answers · asked by Wake up with the KING 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what happen if u r flirting with a guy and his bff, but the guys bffs just for fun while the guy is actually ure secret crush, and u tell him that u were talking with his bff, and he says, "i dont mind ure talking with him, but if he tries something ill straghten him out. ", does than mean that he has feelings for me beyond friendship???

2006-12-19 06:08:45 · 12 answers · asked by brit_avyltth 3 in Singles & Dating

I was intrigued by an earlier post about the number of female respondents saying they prefer a strong man who is physically built and confident because:
1.) Muscles on men are sexy
2.) They prefer a man who can protect a woman

I want to focus on the physical aspect of strong men. They are well defined and buff. I'm wondering what kind of physically built men appeals to most women? Lean like swimmers and soccer players? Muscle lean and a little buff like the men on Men's Fitness? Or buff and a little chubby like football players and wrestlers?

Well?

2006-12-19 06:08:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what about making a brand thats called kang swang dangalang

2006-12-19 06:08:30 · 9 answers · asked by jade c 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 06:08:00 · 4 answers · asked by Buddie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 06:07:59 · 15 answers · asked by Julieanne N 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been off and on wuth guys and dont kno how 2 deside whitch one is right what would u say to help me

2006-12-19 06:07:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 06:05:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

to turn your boyfriend on???

2006-12-19 06:05:35 · 26 answers · asked by Just Me... 2 in Singles & Dating

My BF and I never have anything to talk about on the phone anymore. Any suggestions for convo topics?

2006-12-19 06:05:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im not trying to diss these people but girls will not give them the time of day they get rejected alot whats up with that ?

2006-12-19 06:05:16 · 4 answers · asked by jade c 1 in Singles & Dating

I have had an affair with an old flame for almost a year. His wife has been pregnant during most of the affair. He has gone back and forth saying he wants to stop the affair and just wants to be friends and then changes and says he wants to continue the affiar. Although we talk and email almost daily, he refuses to see me or meet me for fear, I suppose, of becoming intimate and then feeling guilty about it later. We are very good friends and I would not want to lose his friendship, however, I would very much like to continue to see him regularly but how do I get him to see me?The baby, a boy after 2 girls, was born yesterday. He is to email me and let me know how the baby is but hasn't done so yet. I know I am not in love with him but I do have a lot of affection and love for him. What should I do now? Leave him alone? Move on? make the effort to stay friends? I am also married with kids. What do you think will happen now?

2006-12-19 06:04:59 · 19 answers · asked by R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-19 06:04:53 · 18 answers · asked by Kookie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-19 06:04:41 · 2 answers · asked by Kay S 1 in Family

2006-12-19 06:04:36 · 17 answers · asked by Ayman R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-19 06:04:31 · 5 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this one girls that lkes me and she gave me her number but i cant call her back. Im a shy person and ever time i hear her voice i freeze up wheat should i do?

2006-12-19 06:04:27 · 29 answers · asked by poultryman 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 18 years old and have had many boyfriends i ahve even had some girlfriends. i ahve gotten into a lot of trouble and i did drugs and a lot of other things i shouldnt have. i want to forget about my horrible past. i have a boyfriend and i really love him a lot but i havent told him about my past i told him that he was my first when we had sex when i really lost my virginity at 15. i am just so worried that he will leave me if he knows. i mean i am not cheating on him i love him i just have a secret. i am not sure what to do i dont want to lose him.

2006-12-19 06:04:24 · 17 answers · asked by ashley h 1 in Singles & Dating

Here's the deal. I'm good friends with a guy who's one year younger than me (however, ebcause of when our birthdays are, he's two grades behind me). Because of this, I know I can't date him, it'd just be considered creepy to everyone else. However, I've always been one to tell guys that I like them, It feels good to get it off my chest. However in this case, I know nothing can come of it. Should I still tell him?

2006-12-19 06:03:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend of 6 years has decided that she dosent know if im the one. we are highschool sweethearts and have had a distance relationship for 3 years while in college, but have had a wonderful life togeather. however we have had the occational fights like most people, but have been togeather for so long. im 22 and she is 21 and finishing college next year. i wanted to get engaged for a year so we both would know for sure, but we have hit this road block now. she hasent seen much of her friends, like going out to parties because she has been with her parents on the weekends or with me. so i think that might be it who knows.she said she dosent want to have any regrets and she also dosent want to hurt me. we havent talked in about a week because we are on a break, but she said she just needs time to figure out things. well i need some help and some answers please.

2006-12-19 06:02:33 · 17 answers · asked by chewy2420 1 in Singles & Dating

With me i just had a baby 2 months ago and am ready for action again!!!But my bf feels funny about it because last time we had sex i started having contractions?It was not done on purpose baby came a month early.Aparently even though he passed out and did not see the birth of his son he feels funny about having sex?We are engaged how can i help him get over this?!My sex drive is back! and i lost almost all the baby fat and have no stretch marks!

2006-12-19 06:02:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce