2006-12-19 06:48:40 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry- this is a long story, so I'll have to give you a summary of the whole story... About two and a half years ago, I was at my summer camp and I met this guy in a great way- a flirty game of showing-off soccer(my fav. game.) We sat by the beachside until it was really dark and after ten'o'clock. We talked and kept in touch for awhile, and then I heard no word from him for a few months. Come that October of the same year I then got a call, I wasn't sure whether to be mad or not but I gave him a chance. We talked for many hours each night of two weeks. Two weeks later we dated, it lasted almost four months. He had been my best friend first, and that is what he decided to go back to- it hurt worse because he was my frist boyfriend and I really felt like he was a soulmate I would always love. After two weeks as friends, he told me about this new girl and what was unsaid was he left me for her- a girl younger than me, had a long crush on him, and one who was really jelous of our relationship. I did not hear from him for over a year and a half a year because I was so upset with how he had hurt me and did not want to get hurt again, so I refused to call him, and after dating another guy I gave up and had the sudden urge to call him up. It was like old times and we both got reinterested in each other, he was sorry for breaking up with me before and we wanted each other back in our lives. We reestablished our best friends status over the following week- then this other guy got involved. He showed he liked me, I was hesitant but the 1st gave his approval and said he would always be in my life; in one way or another. I ended up dating the other guy over my first boyfriend, meanwhile he had gotten a new girlfriend at school in NY while I stayed home with my new boyfriend. I saw that guy for over four months as well, and then he decided to leave me for drinking, partying, my future opinion of wanting to get married someday, and a secret hate of my not giving in to sex with him- as I did not for any of the guys I dated because of my beliefs, which he did not respect. So, in the end I ended single and lost my first boyfriend twice, he's still a best friend- we hang out now and then, discuss life and his girlfriend now and then, but it hurts when I think about how I gave him up for the other guy when I knew he was my soulmate- and now I'll never know....
2006-12-19 07:19:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was when my soul-mate moved to Florida.I have been in love with him since I was 15. It was love at first sight. We had become friends and then lovers and still managed to stay friends through out our different involvements with other people.He had moved to Florida and came back for a couple of weeks to get out of some bad stuff he was going through at the time, I was with him for maybe a week of that time and try as I might I could not get him to stay. I talked to him on the phone for months after he left, said we loved each other, but Florida was not the place for me. Lived there once before, didn't like it. I will always regret not getting him to stay or being able to change my mind. My heart still breaks when I think about him or talk to mutual friends and his name comes up. We both have families and different lives but I sometimes wonder what if.I know that we will never be together, His life is in Florida and mine is not.I love my husband ,my kids and my life and this is where I belong now. My mind has gotten over it , but a heart never forgets a love like that.
2006-12-19 07:16:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer not to look into the past because my life right now is great. I am happily married to a wonderful man who is the most caring, loving, positive, responsible individual i have ever known...because i am so happy now, the past wouldn't matter anymore. I only think of past heart breaks as life's learning experiences that help us grow & mature into the person that we are today. Do not dwell on the past, instead focus on the present & whats in store for the future =)
2006-12-19 06:59:44 · answer #3 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hazel Eyes : according what happends in real life there's
a few things to remember Divorces is high about 100% because
alot of married couples couldnt work out thier differeances between themselfs. But I never gotten married at all see been
single for 29 yrs !
Good Luck & God Bless you
2006-12-19 07:04:44 · answer #4 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my first love did not return what I professed.
It really was for the best - she didn't love me. We were good friends and I fell in love with her. I told her and she didn't have much to say back.
I met my now wife a year later. I have remained distant friends with the other girl (just casual "hi!" stuff) and she even came to our wedding. I am LONG over this and everyone knows it, but at the time it was horrendous.
2006-12-19 06:53:34 · answer #5 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being cheated on by my husband. Having an emotional and physical affair with a 19 year old girl 2 years ago.
2006-12-19 06:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My biggest hearbreak was that my husband cheated on me while we were married; we were separated for 17 years, made contact with one another, started seeing each other again, I realize he hasn't changed and now I am trying to end it because someone decent has come along and wants a relationship with me. It is hard to end it with my ex-husband. Advice?
2006-12-19 06:53:33 · answer #7 · answered by Janice Merle L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my 34 year old husband spent the night & many days with a young girl in Ft.Stewart before going to Iraq & I found out. It rocked our whole family & I felt as if I couldn't go on another day with all that pain I seen in my kids face cause unfortunately they heard me cuss him out & wish the worst for him. When I heard my 11 year old say I hope you get killed tore me apart.
2006-12-19 06:55:30 · answer #8 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a very dear friend die in an auto accident.
He was a member of the same dart league as I. He was married, I was engaged. We always just joked around as firends of course. But the night he died, me and my fiance were leaving the bar, and I heard him call my name, and when I turned, He said, "I love YOU"............I'll never forget the shine in his eyes! It was like he knew he'd never see me again, and he was letting me know our friendship was as good to him as it was to me.
I MISS HIM ALOT!!
My other one is visiting my fathers home for first time in many , many years. It was my son's who brought it to my attention..........they said, Mom, did you notice all the family photos they have hanging all over the house, and NOT ONE is of you?
Yes, I did notice, I cry every time I think about it.
2006-12-19 07:03:47 · answer #9 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents didn't hang my college graduation picture on the wall and I am the only and first person to graduate from college in my immediate family and the youngest of three. I couldn't understand
2006-12-19 07:01:35 · answer #10 · answered by Jan l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋