My wife is spontaneous. She will try almost anything once. She has gotten interested into scat as of late. She wants to take a dump on my face. Of course, I sanely refused the offer. Now she is telling me that I'm selfish and I don't really care for her happiness. She has been whiny and its stressing me out. We have two kids. I don't wanna leave her for their sakes. What should I tell the kids if I leave my wife. Im so stressed out, right now. I fear I may lose my whole family. I don't know what I am going to do without my family. Maybe I should give in to her wishes and humiliate myself. I love my family way too much to lose them. What should I do?
2006-12-19 06:49:36 · 51 answers · asked by icyhott4urmind 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
OMG - Are you for real?
"dump" her! lol - I crack me up!!!
2006-12-19 06:52:24 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
All that just because you won't let her **** on your face I'm sorry but that is sick who in there right mind would find that attractive or even let that turn them on. In all seriousness there are worst things you guys could be mad at each other about but that is one of the most worst things i ever heard of to leave your wife. All do respect ,but there has to be other things wrong besides that. If she thinks she has to take a **** on your face to be happy she's not human. Find out other things she wants there still has to be something there. Just the two of you should go out somewhere and talk seriously about your relationship. Something is making you stay besides your kids. If that is the only reason you are staying with her. You might as well separate because no one should have there kids live in an unhappy home because it affects them believe me I know and heard. It's gonna be ruff but you'll get through it.
2006-12-19 07:02:09 · answer #2 · answered by trish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She won't be happy to just do it once. Her request is unreasonable and she would be pissed and call you every name in the book if you called her selfish because she wouldn't do something that made her uncomfortable and humiliated.
You are in a tight spot, but the problem is that if you do this for her, she will want you to do it over again, or even something more humiliating. She is the one being selfish here.
Mayeb you need to think of something for her to do in return that will be equally as humiliating for her, then tell her you will allow her to take a dump on your face if she will do something for you. Turn the tables and see how she responds. This could either open her eyes to how unreasonable she is being, or blow up in your face. Either way it will help you figure out what you will ultimately have to do.
2006-12-19 06:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by PDH 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is not something you want to do (and why would you?), tell your wife you're not going to do it, and don't. If she pouts and whines, that's her problem. Your wife sounds like a spoiled brat. Her selfishness is beyond belief. No doubt she's been stressing you out for a long time.
Don't allow yourself to be degraded, and don't let fear push you into making unfair compromises. If you have to leave this lady, talk to an attorney about gaining custody of the kids. It might not be wise to leave them with this terrible person, anyway.
2006-12-19 07:15:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her to grow the hell up. If you not feeling that then don't do it. The truth is that she is the one being selfish in not realizing that this does not interest you. She needs to understand that we don't always get our way and to take others feelings into account. I seriously hope that you don't give in because it will do more harm to your marriage than good. As for the family, hold your ground and let her know you are not having it. Hopefully, she will just leave it alone but if she has done this before and you have given in to her you gonna have to say no more than usual because she is so use to you giving in to her whims. So stay the course and don't give in. If that fails I see counseling in your futures.
2006-12-19 07:06:45 · answer #5 · answered by Wordsmith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first of all how would she feel if you wanted to **** on her face???? Also no man dont do it thats just foul. Your wife sounds like she has some issues dude. Maybe you can have her committed or get ol girl some meds. I mean you have to ask your self how much do you love her and if shes worth working this out for. If she isnt, (i wouldnt be suprised), then tell the kids sometimes mommies and daddies fall out of love etc etc
2006-12-19 11:05:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her to let you dump on her face first and then you will do it next...see what she says. Your wife is rude and has not respect for you. What the hell is she thinking? Have a serious talk with her for the sake of the kids. If she doesn't change then I would suggest for you to leave her. Lets see if she finds a man that would let her dump on his face...yeah right.
2006-12-19 06:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by ♪♫♫♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should not make you do something that you don't want to do and vice versa. I don't think it's that big of a deal to divorce over. I think you two need to see a marriage counselor. That is gross, but there are people out there that like that kind of stuff. Some people like to be punched or choked during. Anyway, I think these people need serious help. So before you start signing papers, try to reason with her and see someone. Good luck.
2006-12-19 07:00:49 · answer #8 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I'm usually all about people indulging their partners fantasies, scat is one of the few that I don't think one person can reasonably demand of another. Scat, swinging, golden showers, public sex, those are not fair to demand of another person.
My suggestion would be to be straight up with her and say that this is not something you're comfortable with and you won't do it. From there, the ball is in her court. If she can't understand your lack of comfort, then the problem is hers, not yours.
2006-12-19 06:55:19 · answer #9 · answered by mojo4395 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, never really heard of anything like that----and I dont know how people would want to try that?? Sounds like your wife is on the freaky side....
I would suggest other ways to spice up the sex life...ask her what else would be fun for her...b/c you should compromise...as well as SHE SHOULD. If you dont want her taking a **** on your face(which is really gross, so i dont blame you) just say no. She can nag nag nag all she wants...but the answer is still no.
YOu should at aleast offer another answer, with that way...at least you tried....
2006-12-19 06:54:53 · answer #10 · answered by LadyAlysse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I'm not into the scat thing, I am into many other fetishes. If I were in this postion, I would have to let her do it. Think of something you really wanted to do. What if she flipped on you. Also if you do go through with this, anything that was off limits with her... Is ON now.
Good luck to you, whatever your final decision is-
2006-12-19 06:53:52 · answer #11 · answered by Floss 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋