Family & Relationships - 19 December 2006

me and my friends go clubbing all the time and hook up with guys almost every night. i have a bf, but he's never around...i am with him because he had a good job and he's good in bed. i am blonde, 5'6" and a DD. the guys are always hitting on me and i cant help but flirt back. what should i do?

2006-12-19 07:13:24 · 19 answers · asked by Veronica M 1 in Singles & Dating

dis boy i like (he noes), sed he fancied me a bit on msn and hes always on and off liking me like if we talk loads on day hes all nice to me on msn if we dnt talk he just dont talk that much. i dont understand , cuz he messes around n flirts wiff 3 otha gyalz in ma group and he near enough blanks me at skool if i dint talk to him. i call for him in the holz we get on loads ive been town wiff him and his best mate b4 why dnt he mess around and flirt wiff meh =[

2006-12-19 07:13:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Men, I need your opinion please?
Would you like a present like that from your gf for christmas?

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if yes then which one?

2006-12-19 07:12:55 · 6 answers · asked by maya 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 07:12:53 · 22 answers · asked by trish 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Can you tolerate living with your in-laws? Do you or would you ever live with your in-laws?

2006-12-19 07:12:41 · 2 answers · asked by ~*meli$sa*~ 4 in Family

Any takers? Hey, at least I don't have a unibrow! Quack, quack!

2006-12-19 07:12:31 · 6 answers · asked by Bathtub Admiral 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 07:12:22 · 9 answers · asked by dj 4 in Singles & Dating

This is a funny but serious question. So I'm at the club and I'm dancing with a chick, she wanted to dance song after song after song. I was a little tired of dancing and hey there were other women in the club I wanted to talk to also. After being stuck with her for 3 songs straight I just walked away... I know it was rude, but how do you stop dancing with a girl that just wants to keep going and going without being rude?

2006-12-19 07:11:26 · 9 answers · asked by Mic B 2 in Singles & Dating

I went out with this girl b4, and its been about a year and her freind just asked me if i like her again? i didnt really answer but i dont know if i could trust her freind either. Should i just wait and see if this girl talks to me or asks me out because she has my number and she called me b4 and asked if i wanted to go out with her.

or should i go striaght up and ask her y her freind was asking me all this?

any help would be greatly appreciated!
Thxs!

2006-12-19 07:11:17 · 14 answers · asked by Paul 2 in Singles & Dating

My FWB (friends with benefits) relationship ended a couple of weeks ago. At the beginning, I made it clear what I wanted. He agreed and things were going fine until HE decided to end the sexual premise of our relationship. My response was "No sex, no friendship" and I split. He knew the rules. However, despite my expressed desire to end ALL communication, he continued to try to reach out to me. It got to the point where I had to go to campus police to file a harassment complaint against him because he just wouldn't leave me alone.

I have a couple of questions:
(1) Why would he try to contact me several times after I explicity told him it was over?
(2) I have been agonizing over this complaint since I filed it nearly a month ago. Why do I feel so bad (guilty) for filing this complaint? (I recently found out that this complaint becomes a permanent part of his school record.)

2006-12-19 07:11:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 07:10:42 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well,I am married for last 2 years but me and my husband don't have feelings for each other that is just care, should take care of each other.No love and the way they say that you feel marriage.Marriage changes your life.What to do?How to make things happen.How to feel things.I really appreciate of everything he do for me.Help me out here to feel the guy as a husband.I don't have this feeling.

2006-12-19 07:09:33 · 8 answers · asked by Lonely_girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Girls go through stages in relationships with their boyfriends, and at one point they might feel insecure and like the guy is going to cheat on them or dump them? My girlfriend is acting weird around me for the past 1 1/2 weeks, and her close friend said girls go through stages, and I was just wondering what do you think about this?

2006-12-19 07:08:16 · 22 answers · asked by thinkGREEN 3 in Singles & Dating

I fancy a male friend that I go to college with and I want to tell him that I fancy him. What would you say is the best way to tell him?

I have his email and home phone number.

2006-12-19 07:08:01 · 7 answers · asked by Spikey_Jay 2 in Singles & Dating

Would you like a present like that from your gf for christmas?

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if yes then which one?

2006-12-19 07:07:42 · 5 answers · asked by maya 4 in Singles & Dating

When you flirt with a girl you have feelings for, how does it differ in your behaviour to the girl you are just attracted to?

Also, are there some girls you feel comfortable to openly flirt with and those you are too attracted to to flirt normally with?

2006-12-19 07:07:32 · 14 answers · asked by stargazer 2 in Singles & Dating

Ive asked this question before and only got one response because yahoo messed up and didnt post it properly until several hours later. I am a stay at home mom. My hubby doesnt seem to realize what kind of a toll this takes on a woman with 2 kids under the age of 2. I love my kids dearly but why cant I get him to realize that I need some me time? Im lucky if I get them both down for a nap at the same time and then I can, but when hes home, why can't he be nice enough to get away from the tv a bit and take care of them so I can take a break? He made a comment to me when I was on the computer (I was studying by the way) when I asked his opinion on something. He said "I dont care about the stupid computer, I would rather pay attention to my son." Implying that is what I should have been doing instead. Im with them all day long. They are 20 mo and 5 mo old. I dont even get to take regular showers everyday. Why does he have to say things like that? Is he jealous? He has no reason to be...

2006-12-19 07:07:29 · 34 answers · asked by Koozie 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-19 07:07:00 · 17 answers · asked by PriNceSs_KeL 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey all

I have a problem and i hope all of u here would help me. Basically this girl i like, is pretty difficult to understand her. Well she did give me something on valentines. But since she is going to another skool next year, i wont be able to see her that often. Im kinda worried bout that. Besides, we both usually go out together alone(im not sure if i can consider it a date...i really dont know. Once she even invited me to her room. But the problem im having now is i dont know if i have a place in her heart. This is due to her actions for the past few weeks. I havent contacted her or even seen her onlline for 2 weeks now. And i dont wnat to be the first to contact her. Cause to me, if she does care bout me, wont see contact me? On the other hand, she might be thinking the same thing bout me. Im pretty confused. And few months back, this thing happeend and i was planning to give up on her. But she contacted me in early hours of the morning, say 4 AM.

But before all of the above happened, I confessed to her teling i liked her. She said she liked me but not at that particular time. Since that time, we have been really close frens and somehow i can feel that she likes me. Sometimes its just the way she talks to me, and she even said she missed me ( after i confessed). I really dont know what is going on. PLs help, i really dont like what i am now ( thinking bout it the whole time)

Ps:- My birthday is coming, shud i not contact her and see if she remembers my b'day?or shud i contact? pls help

2006-12-19 07:06:20 · 9 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you fall a sleep when you get one??

2006-12-19 07:05:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Wife was pursued by a surgeon at the local hospital in Lake Havasu for 9 months. He is married, with 2 kids. We have been married for 20 years. and have 3 kids. He would call her , come see her every day at work till they got emotionaly involved with some minor physical activities. I sensed somthing was wrong. Wife told me about it claiming, "just friends, somone to talk to". I finally got in his face a bit in the hospital lobby when I found them sitting nice and cozy, while she thought I was out of town. Anyways , things have more or less stopped between them, (so she says), but I have lost all trust, and I cant stand the fact that they still see each other every day, and talk. My wife has apoligized and says she is ashamed, but she is not willing to find another job to alleviate my issues. What should I do? I dont think I will ever get comfotrtable with her working with him. She is the case manger for the surgery floor and he is a surgeon.

2006-12-19 07:04:54 · 31 answers · asked by DJK 1 in Marriage & Divorce

As part of my sister's Christmas gift I wanted to get her and her boyfriend a gift certificate to a movie theater, the problem is we live kinda far away from each other and none of the chains where she live have a location here and vise versa and it's to late to order one online, I don't really want to get a visa gift card does anyone else have any other ideas? Feel free to respond if you have a different gift idea all together, I'd really appreciate it.

2006-12-19 07:04:31 · 6 answers · asked by chrisdcrazy 2 in Family

And how long will it take

2006-12-19 07:04:10 · 11 answers · asked by flyd.rpap1 1 in Singles & Dating

She is not being fair and is picking on me and she thinks i'm stupid. I saw it because when she said stupid she looked right at me. Also, a former friend of mine is bugging me and won't leave me alone and is making me feel bad. I didn't do anything to him and he always puts people down. I try to ignore him but with him and my teacher, i'm going nuts. I think i'll yell at the teacher and i already told my former friend to shut up. What should I do? I think i'll break down if i continue. I don't know what to do. Help Me!!!

2006-12-19 07:04:08 · 10 answers · asked by buenosaires101 3 in Friends

2006-12-19 07:04:02 · 24 answers · asked by Remzy 4 in Singles & Dating

i am not of legal status here in the u.s came here 10 yrs ago at 15 those(brothers )who were supposed to take care of my status never did i came on a visitor visa and overstayed...all i want to do is go to school and make something of myself..i would have never ever considered a marriage of convenience but am desperate right now...if anyone can help me with advice or anything i would greatly appreciate it,i like america but for 10yrs now i havent had a chance to truly enjoy it i just want a fair chance at life ,i'll gladly go back home(west africa)after i finish school.am tired of low paying jobs...i graduated high school with high honors and 2 full scholarships that i never could take advantage of one of them was for the whole state of nj(signed by governor chritie whitman)...i just want a chance education...thats all i want
please anyone out there can help or offer advice,i would appreciate it
happy holidays to all

2006-12-19 07:03:56 · 4 answers · asked by combatmedic2010 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have very strong feelings for this one girl, stronger than I've ever felt for any girl before. But for some nobody else likes her for some reason. Everyone says shes ugly and that shes a hore and I'am wasting my time with her. But we have had alot of great times together. I want to take it to the next level, and I dont mean through sex. What should I do? Im 15 and would like advise from people 16 and under, please. Thanks.

2006-12-19 07:02:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I separated 17 years ago because, among other things, he cheated. We have made contact each other again, discovered we have feelings for each other, but I don't trust him. In the meantime, I have found someone who is honest, loving, and a good man, but all I can think of is my husband who cheated. What in the world is wrong with me?

2006-12-19 07:01:57 · 18 answers · asked by Janice Merle L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so like this guy wants to do all this stuff with me and he hugs me a lot but he never says that he likes me. so i dont know if he like me or if he just like to touch??? any suggestionnnsss??

2006-12-19 07:01:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can i be more friendly and open with people. I am affriad because i am one of thoose people who are honest and say what i feel and sometimes it is innaporpriate, i tried to think what i was going to say, before i said it, but that doesn't help..and sugesstions? thank you.

2006-12-19 07:01:20 · 7 answers · asked by green and blue knight 3 in Friends