Well,I am married for last 2 years but me and my husband don't have feelings for each other that is just care, should take care of each other.No love and the way they say that you feel marriage.Marriage changes your life.What to do?How to make things happen.How to feel things.I really appreciate of everything he do for me.Help me out here to feel the guy as a husband.I don't have this feeling.
2006-12-19 07:09:33 · 8 answers · asked by Lonely_girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Did you like some other guy or was this an arranged marriage?Marriage is like candy jar you both have to put in more than you take out!!Caring is sign of Love,his doing things for you is a sign of Love..maybe you have some mental block to accept him as your husband!!Maybe your prejudiced..relax give him a break give him a chance loosen up yourself a bit..Build the magic and ensure it last a lifetime and hopefully it should work.Cheers&Luck
2006-12-19 09:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See what activities he is interested in. Eg: Sport, reading, workout, movie whatever gets the most attention from him. See if you can show the same interest in the subject that he likes. Sometimes a simple game of cards can evoke common interest. Most important thing is what do you want out of it? It is tough to force interest on a person. There are lot of factors that go in a succesful marriage. Try to ignite the spark. Its never too late. Keep trying and good luck.
2006-12-19 18:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by George L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know that developed love is even stronger and lasts longer than love marriages that turned sour? If your husband is a good husband, does his duties and obligations, you will eventually come to love him. But even if you started as a love marriage if eventually the other does not make an effort to be a good husband, then eventually the love will fade. Love should also be nurtured like a plant,, watered and exposed to sunshine to be able to grow and survive.
2006-12-20 00:31:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a piece of paper and start writing 10 things that you like of him and you do not like of him. Work on things you do not like .. start liking them appreciating them and work more on things that you like. He Will love you more then ever he did. Man likes his wife to appreciate even if he does a mistake. Do not build a grudge against him on any front he is human and so you are. Women are always Strong binder of the relationship. Melt down the wall of separation between you and your husband. Hope you have a happy sexual life.Sex is a good bond to overcome deficiencies in other areas.
2006-12-20 09:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, such feelings can't be generated from outside. Resolve to love him for everything he does for you and see him reciprocate.
2006-12-20 13:10:03 · answer #5 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey...
i think ur's is arranged marriage. did u like anyone in college ? be practical with life yaar. did u hav children? try for children. u will start living..for ur child...it teaches u living together...beleave me..
2006-12-19 23:34:42 · answer #6 · answered by SureshkumarYVS from hyderabad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r totally resposible for that situation from one angle...because mostly woman have all the power to maintain home atmosphere....by born
2006-12-20 01:35:16 · answer #7 · answered by shuvadip d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gine happy smile to his hus and give enjoy for him . all problems will solved
2006-12-19 20:53:44 · answer #8 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋