What should i do?

Question

me and my friends go clubbing all the time and hook up with guys almost every night. i have a bf, but he's never around...i am with him because he had a good job and he's good in bed. i am blonde, 5'6" and a DD. the guys are always hitting on me and i cant help but flirt back. what should i do?

Answer 1

Really, you are probably not as hot as you think. Guys hook up with you becasue you're easy.

Answer 2

I've always been taught to treat others how I expect to be treated. How would you feel if you found out it was the other way around and your boyfriend was out flirting? If he's never around, perhaps he already has a girl on the side. If you're with him just for the reasons you stated, then let him go. It's not fair to him. You obviously still have some flirting and fooling around left to do, so go do it and don't hurt someone in the process. I truly believe that what goes around, comes around. If you keep this up, you will find yourself in love one day and the guy of your dreams will be the one doing the flirting. Why do people ask such questions anyway? You know it's wrong. You have two choices. Stop being such a flirt and commit yourself, or let your boyfriend go. There's nothing more to it than that.

Answer 3

Interesting.... but not a very healthy trend. If your boy friend has to maintain the good job, he has to work hard and so he is not around. It does not mean that you should go around and do whatever you please. I guess, there should be an element of dedication in any relationship. So just because guys are hitting on you, it is not mandatory to flirt back...try to control your actions. Call me old school but decent girls are more appealing to good men.

Answer 4

u need some sef control, ppl will always be hitting on ppl but u gotta say no
like i'm trying to quit smoking and ppl smoke around me so i need heaps of self control, u know?

if u can't be committed or "trapped" then tell him about what ur doing and he might be okay with it if he can do the same, and maybe u can be happy and have the best of both worlds. just make sure u don't hurt ne1, tell all parties that r involved what the deal is and if their not okay with it then there's always someone else who will be

Answer 5

if you enjoy what you are doing, i would break up with your boyfrend, because it would hurt really bad to know that my boyfried/girlfriend was doing things with other men. If you love or like your boyfirend, stay with him and not the others. If you feel the reason is you hook up so much because he nelgects you or is not around, try talking to him about it. tell him how you feel and do more things toghether, this way you can see if it is worth it. good luck.

Answer 6

So, you use people and you are a tramp. What should you do? At least break up with your poor boyfriend so he can find a good woman. He deserves better than someone who is so weak and shallow she will hook up with any male that gives her a sniff.

Answer 7

chic flirting does not hurt... You should know the type of relationship that you are in and the kind of bf that you have and try to cherish that after all good men are so hard to find.

Answer 8

what you just said is you don't reslly love him he's just good in bed and he makes money that means i don't care if not move on find some body else and let him find some one he'll enjoy being with that will give him what you don't hacve to give.some times the answer is right in front of you you said it i didn't.find out what you want to do.for real some day one of youwill be hurt fromplaying that game.you don't want that.

Answer 9

Where is the question? You are a flirtaholic and obviously enjoy the attention, beware the onset of age as it will rob you of those looks you are so fond of and then what will you do?

As for the mean time, party on!

Answer 10

be loyal to ur man, dont just like him for those reasons either, u need to stop clubbin so much and spend time with the man u have or spend time finding another man and falling in love!