She is not being fair and is picking on me and she thinks i'm stupid. I saw it because when she said stupid she looked right at me. Also, a former friend of mine is bugging me and won't leave me alone and is making me feel bad. I didn't do anything to him and he always puts people down. I try to ignore him but with him and my teacher, i'm going nuts. I think i'll yell at the teacher and i already told my former friend to shut up. What should I do? I think i'll break down if i continue. I don't know what to do. Help Me!!!
2006-12-19 07:04:08 · 10 answers · asked by buenosaires101 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do not yell at your teacher, because when it comes down to it, it will be her word against yours, and guess who will come out on top?
Document every instance where you feel she is belittling you in any way, and then present it to her. If she refuses to take you seriously, or can not give satisfactory answers, speak to the school administration.
Remember though, that documenting might reveal something that you won't like such as perhaps you acted immaturely right before she told you off. Please look at your own behaviour in conjuncture with hers.
As for your friend, he is a "former" for a reason. Ignore him, avoid him, do not let him see that he is getting a rise out of you because that is exactly what he wants.
2006-12-19 07:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by shaclare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not professional or encouraging for a teacher to call anyone stupid. However, you may have only imagined that she was looking at you. I'd suggest that you don't "snap" but simply go to her after class and tell her that you that you are offended with her choice of words and don't feel that name calling is a good motivator for her students. If you get no results with this then talk to your principal.
Telling your former friend to shut up is equally bad behavior. If you don't like his comments then simply ignore him. The more attention you give to his comments, the more encouragement he will have to make more. He makes these comments because he is getting a reaction out of you. If you can keep quiet long enough he won't have any reason to taunt you again.
2006-12-19 07:09:54 · answer #2 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont want to speak to your parents about this, then write a letter on the computer to our teacher.
Tell the teacher what is bothering you and ask her to respond back in a letter.
If you dont want her to know who wrote it, then dont sign it.
You have a chance to express what is bothering you and this way you dont have to get in trouble by exploding your stored anger.
You may have a great year once you address the issue.
Hope things work out.
2006-12-19 07:11:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling!!! OMG i had this one teacher and i just let him have it..i told him off but in a way without swears...i told him he was skinny like a pencil lol! I think you should come up with snappy remarks without swears at all and just have a comeback to let you teacher know they are messing with the wrong dude! Don't you take it stick up for yourself!!!! Tell em all off!
2006-12-19 07:07:55 · answer #4 · answered by hunnysbeckers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yelling at the teacher won't help. You may need to talk to them or talk to the principal to get this issue resolved. For your friend, getting angry will only egg them on. Just ignore them.
2006-12-19 07:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by Wookie on Water 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quick, go see the school counselor, do it right now and then go home and talk to your parents about it. If you let thinks get to you this much, they will just get worse. After you leave class, go talk to someone, someone at school could help you deal with this teacher.
2006-12-19 07:10:18 · answer #6 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I often use greater suited words, yet then i'm fairly older than you. i like utilising lines that make the numerous individual artwork it out for a minute like, " i could slap you stupid, yet somebody beat me to it" or "i could have a conflict of words with you yet I refuse to try against with an unarmed guy."
2016-10-18 12:09:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont i did that and later i could not enter for more than 2 weeks.
2006-12-19 07:06:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my teacher is buggin me to i ave allready sworn at her she p****s me off so much i hate her n i nearly boxed her today i endeed up walkin out of class
2006-12-19 07:14:03 · answer #9 · answered by lil titch 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ANYTHING THAT YOU DO WILL LOOK WORSE ON YOU. THEY DON'T CARE IF THEY ARE WRONG. THE BETTER YOU CONFRONT THIS SITUATION THE MORE LIKELY THEY WILL LISTEN.
2006-12-19 07:16:10 · answer #10 · answered by CanDPac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋