Girls go through stages in relationships with their boyfriends, and at one point they might feel insecure and like the guy is going to cheat on them or dump them? My girlfriend is acting weird around me for the past 1 1/2 weeks, and her close friend said girls go through stages, and I was just wondering what do you think about this?
2006-12-19 07:08:16 · 22 answers · asked by thinkGREEN 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
her ex cheated on her, and it's almost been 2 months for us
2006-12-19 07:17:25 · update #1
Well, women may feel more emotions and think more about relationships than men. Maybe its something else that is bothering her? Or she could be thinking about what is going on between you two. If something happened recently between, you might want to ask her about it. If it doesn't feel like anything big, then I would just let it pass.
2006-12-19 07:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by R_H_P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, girls do see relationships in more complicated way, and it can be called going through the stages. Stage changing is also a stressful period of time for her, so be sure to give her enough attention!
2006-12-19 15:20:52 · answer #2 · answered by Catherine R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like, yeah sure BOB! I don't recall going threw any stages at all and the insecurity kind comes from a recent happening. So if you were never unfaithful, she has no reason. Now maybe she is the one with the problem and she's trying to flip the script on you.
2006-12-19 15:14:04 · answer #3 · answered by cOMpLiCaTeD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's basically the next stage in the relationship. Girls freak out about this a lot of the time, it's like they're scared and wondering if it's worth it.
I know my ex was like that, she'd always be getting freaked out near milestones in our relationship because she wasn't sure if she wanted to be with me and evolve our relationship.
All you can really do is comfort her and assure her
2006-12-19 15:11:44 · answer #4 · answered by Kurt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is sooo true. In my relationship, I'm pretty content, but occasionally, we girls really need some reassurance! Make your girl feel secure by doing affectionate little things, like leaving her little notes that say I love you, randomly hug her, give her flowers, etc. She'll really appreciate the thought that goes into such things.
2006-12-19 15:14:59 · answer #5 · answered by Ash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always change in a relationship. The best thing is to talk to your girlfriend and find out why she is acting the way she is. Communication is the key. Just talk to her!
2006-12-19 15:14:20 · answer #6 · answered by MusicWoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very true! But this is your opportunity to show her how much you care. This usually happens to me when I haven't been getting the attention that I am used to getting, so perhaps you should be little more attentive now.
2006-12-19 15:12:19 · answer #7 · answered by sassy2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its normal for anyone that has feelings that are growing to get a little freaked out. Once you have feelings for someone they can hurt you and you start to wonder or worry about it.
2006-12-19 15:12:04 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WE GO THROUGH MANY STAGES, VERY TRUE. HOWEVER TRY TALKING TO HER AND NOT HER GIRL-FRIENDS, TO GET A CLEARER PICTURE.BE CARING AND SHOW HER HOW MUCH YOU WANT HER, AND OFFER ANY SUPPORT SHE MAY NEED.
IT COULD BE PMS, OFFER HER A MIDOL! LOL.
2006-12-19 15:20:22 · answer #9 · answered by ball_courtney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either she's feeling insecure or she's cheating and she's nervous around you.
2006-12-19 15:16:54 · answer #10 · answered by MiMi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋