Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

This guy in school confuses me. He acts all fuzzy when he is around me when he feels like it...he says he loves me but then minutes later he is looking at other girls..Then gets all fuzzy around me. I really do like him but what do i do with some one who plays with my feelings??

2006-12-18 08:30:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i havent made a noise or smell from my bum bit for 2 years now! Brother, mother , llama and my cat and lover shadow have pumping competitions. I wish i could join in, they laugh at me and sing little songs about my lack of pumping! Shadow has even tried putting air up my bum to create air pressure, this didnt work! Brother even tried blowing into my bum, this just tickled me! What can i do to start pumping again? sent

2006-12-18 08:30:24 · 10 answers · asked by fletch 2 in Family

On his side of the family I am considered the "Other Woman" but they don't know that their Mother had an affair 2 years before their Dad did. I know this because I spoke to his Ex-Wife about her little secret because he had told me this himself. It was confirmed but I have been asked to keep this to myself which I am but I feel I'm taking the fall for their marriage in their kids and families eyes and thats just NOT true. They don't know thw whole story but I do. Ever been in my shoes and what happened at your first meeting?

2006-12-18 08:30:24 · 2 answers · asked by CryBaby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so my lady calls me up wanting to go out to dinner. i said ok that's cool even though we are both tired. anyways, 30 mins later i get home getting ready to leave & she calls me saying that her cousin needs a ride home from his friends' house. now why is she calling me telling me this if her intentions wasnt to pick him up afterwards? this has happened before with her calling and saying he needs this or someone needs that, & i am the understanding one telling her to go take care of what she needs. this is the same girl who 3 wks. ago i asked her to marry me, no answer yet. this is the same girl that blamed me for going to florida for a vacation, & that is the reason for her failing her mid-term, and then couldnt pass her final with a strong enough grade to go on. to make matters worse, i am the one staying up til 5am so i can see her for a few hrs when she is done with work once in a while. i am crazy for putting up with this, should i count my losses & move on? why i am treated like

2006-12-18 08:29:46 · 10 answers · asked by brianju 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i call him just to make sure he isnt using the phone but im going out with his cousin so wat do i want

2006-12-18 08:29:18 · 3 answers · asked by ♥Angelita29♥ILY♥ 6 in Singles & Dating

I had a pretty serious conversation with this girl about us, but we were drinking. I was way, way, WAY ahead of her, so I don't remember a lot. I remember the gist of the conversation, but not many of the details. What should I do? I think we may have discussed whether or not I can still call her, email her, etc. or not, but I am not sure. When I woke up the next morning, I wasn't very depressed, in fact I felt pretty good, so I am assuming it went well. Ladies, would you be mad if this happened to you? If a guy asked you what you talked about the night before?

2006-12-18 08:29:01 · 9 answers · asked by 15fsg546rge1rrheljh45hjr90459ty3 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 08:28:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 08:28:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for some reason italian men are always making sexual comments about irish woman or dating an irish chick why is this????

2006-12-18 08:27:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When me and my ex bf broke up, he promised that we'd be together again oneday. Even though he has a gf he still "leads me on" and i feel that theres some kinda of chemistry between us still. So should i wait for him still? or do you think i should just give up?

2006-12-18 08:26:59 · 12 answers · asked by ohhh_retro 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife wants breast implants and I think she would look great with them. My question is how big do you think she should go?? She is about 5'4", 115-120 lbs, dancer legs, six pack abs, and very active. I don't want her to go too big, but I want her to go big enough to wear she want think that she went too small either.

Thanks for the opinions.

2006-12-18 08:26:31 · 13 answers · asked by On Time 3 in Marriage & Divorce

to see if i would get more hits then with my picture (iwas getting non) and it worked but I really can't make any dates because they are expecting to see him . What should i do?

2006-12-18 08:26:21 · 7 answers · asked by crta12000 2 in Friends

I'm 23 years old, relatively successful considering my age, and yet, despite my best attempts, have been unable to convince a woman that I'm worth dating in over two years and was never all that successful in this area before that point. In an attempt to meet someone, I regularly volunteer with various organizations and peruse the local bar/club scene to no avail.

While it usually doesn't bother me, I was born with a condition known as hematoma auris which caused my right ear to form as a solid lump which needed to be amputated in order to allow me to hear, leaving me with a small hole where my ear should be. Prosthetics are available but are very expensive and are not covered by insurance.

I'm beginning to suspect that natural selection may have conditioned women, and possibly people in general, to be repelled by any physical/genetic imperfection. While such a trait would contribute to the genetic strength of the human race, it would also explain why I am perpetually lonely.

2006-12-18 08:26:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they only have 4 mounths of marriage'is there a reason i should be worried? We get along very nice,they are living with me,please tell me it's ok.

2006-12-18 08:26:09 · 13 answers · asked by genie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I can think of only one time in our whole relationship of a year and half that I initiated sex and actually got it.He will always be too tired,or move me off him, or ask me if that's the only thing I can think about.He will actually tell me that I waited too late,like it is my fault.After a while,I just stopped initiating sex and waited for him.That got to me more and more,but I couldnt ever say no to him because I long for that connection with him.I love him. The sex,when we have it,is great.I wonder if I want it too much?Something wrong with me if I want sex everyday?Well anyways,I then talked to him about feeling like he controled when we has sex, and he said that I dont even try anymore.Why would I?I used to climb ontop of him,and he would tell me he wasnt into it.Then there were times he would stop me, and then later that night start it..and of course I felt like he did that just for control!What should I do?I have cried so many times over this,its getting to be too much.

2006-12-18 08:25:51 · 13 answers · asked by LadyAlysse 1 in Singles & Dating

Without a specific time, is that a brush off? Does he mean He will call or I wanted you for a weekend and now I am done?

2006-12-18 08:25:30 · 2 answers · asked by Ruth 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 08:24:42 · 17 answers · asked by furbygusters 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My sis just moved and some of my stuff (one room full) got moved, too. She had insisted that I store my stuff at her place and not a storage unit. Well, now, she wants me to contribute to the move. Total cost was about $400. How much do I give her?

2006-12-18 08:23:47 · 6 answers · asked by frogonalog 2 in Family

Ok, I broke up with my boyfriend of 10 years a month ago. Since then I have been dating a really good guy. Last week I missed the jerk and while I went on business trip I took the jerk with me. Things were great, except he tried to knock me up. I didn't go for it though. Anyway, the last week he stayed at the house and all was cool. Until today. I asked him what he was gonna get for our daughter for xmas. He told me that he didn't have the money and I had it covered. How do I hurt him as bad as he just hurt me?

2006-12-18 08:23:36 · 27 answers · asked by Sunshine 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 08:22:54 · 24 answers · asked by Idonotknow 2 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy a few months ago and we got on great. He took me for a meal and had a few more dates since then.

We have texted each other almost everyday since meeting and I really like and him and I think he really likes me.

I also know that he is shy.

Anyway, he has texted me recently saying that he's trying not to get too involved with me at the moment as he feels he doesn't have time for a relationship. I really do like him and feel that we could be so happy together if he just let his hair down a little bit and took some chances.

Can you advise me what to do as I would really like to make a go of it with this guy.

2006-12-18 08:22:51 · 19 answers · asked by blushing_bird 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 08:22:19 · 7 answers · asked by little ly 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy, he's 25yrs & i'm 27yrs. i was a bit skeptical to go to with him at first (because he's younger). Then i realised that he's mature and something about him is really sexy. When i'm with him i can't help myself to think dirty (sexual) thoughts of him (kind of strange because usually i'm not like that). We went on four dates so far & we never even kiss! Yes he's interested in me. But the thing is, i don't know if i should make the first move.
Is it ok for a girl to make the first move? Without him thinking bad things about me? (Like i'm easy or a whore) you know.

2006-12-18 08:21:30 · 19 answers · asked by Yasmine_flower 2 in Singles & Dating

what hairstyle do you think is prettiest on a girl? like, what looks better- ponytail, down and silky, down and wavy, clipped to the side, etc....name a hairstyle that you've seen on a girl that attracts you.

2006-12-18 08:21:05 · 14 answers · asked by Surfergirl 4 in Singles & Dating

I am 49 married and have had in the back of my mind to have a face lift and lid reduction,I thought in this order teeth whitening,face done.My husband says who am I doing it for?also since Im married am I taking a chance of not being married if something goes wrong?What do you think?

2006-12-18 08:20:22 · 11 answers · asked by jessy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I decided to spend a weekend together. We had a great time until a friend (guy) of mine came to our hotel room with another girl. We had a foursome but when we finished he still tried to touch her and caress her. Late that night we got into a fight and I splapped him really hard. He was shocked since I never touched him like that not even saying bad words to him.The next day he treated me horrible and made my day misserable, however he cried and ask me to forgive him and I did the same thing.
I love him so much but I am confussed if our relanshionship won't be the same. Should I walk out of this relashionship or stay and try to make it work?

2006-12-18 08:19:57 · 23 answers · asked by Kathy B 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't mean to, but sometimes if someone tells me i look pretty, and i tell my boyfriend someone told me that, he gets jealous. but i don't flirt with anyone else...ever!.. so is it bad if he gets jealous? or is it ok to make him jealous sometimes?

2006-12-18 08:19:49 · 33 answers · asked by mindi 4 in Singles & Dating

I want my significant other to think im still pretty. Im currently almost 8 months pregnant i dont feel very pretty. The other day we got in a tiny arguement and his main point "You dont dress up for me anymore" That was his main problem with his ex. I dont want our relationship to go down that road. What can i do to explain to him that i dont feel pretty? What can i do to make myself pretty for him?

2006-12-18 08:19:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I changed custody about 5 years ago to my ex husband long story sence then he moved to CA. he is not giving me my visitions and i have talked with my son no more than 6 times and when i do talk with him they r always in the back ground telling him to get off the phone I miss my son so much and cry for him alot every day,I have filed motions on my own befor but it was for him not giving me my visit that ended him with a warent and the judge said this calls for a change of custody I have some money but also alot of bills dont have enough to pay a lawyer so i need help to file this motion can any one help..??

2006-12-18 08:19:41 · 3 answers · asked by lundie_g 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He is always the one that initiates it.

2006-12-18 08:19:34 · 37 answers · asked by Minniex 3 in Singles & Dating