Confused & feeling heart broken?

Question

so my lady calls me up wanting to go out to dinner. i said ok that's cool even though we are both tired. anyways, 30 mins later i get home getting ready to leave & she calls me saying that her cousin needs a ride home from his friends' house. now why is she calling me telling me this if her intentions wasnt to pick him up afterwards? this has happened before with her calling and saying he needs this or someone needs that, & i am the understanding one telling her to go take care of what she needs. this is the same girl who 3 wks. ago i asked her to marry me, no answer yet. this is the same girl that blamed me for going to florida for a vacation, & that is the reason for her failing her mid-term, and then couldnt pass her final with a strong enough grade to go on. to make matters worse, i am the one staying up til 5am so i can see her for a few hrs when she is done with work once in a while. i am crazy for putting up with this, should i count my losses & move on? why i am treated like

Answer 1

OH MY GOODNESS you should dump her. it will be better for you to do it now than to drag yourself into this relationship of hell. she doesnt love you or even want to be bothered. you are her "meantime" just stop calling her and occupy your time with something else. if you need to vent email me direct okay but make sure you refreshen my memory. i vent with alot of people and i helped them get throught some tough times (smile)

Answer 2

If she walks all over you know, the chances are when your married it will just be worse. As hard as it is to walk away from any relationship good or bad, I suggest you take a step back, let her come to you and let her put some time into the relationship like you have , if she fails then count your losses, so you can say you gave her a fair chance. both partiues have to give 110% for a relationship can work, even on your bad days.

Answer 3

Quality time is always better than quantity time but when it gets to the point to where you start feeling like your the only one giving then I can relate to your feelings of being taken for granted. Better resolve that now or the future with you two will start looking bleak which means, time to move on. Thats how Love strats withering. You need both people to give or ya'lls LOVE will start to die gradually. Trust me I know. You'll know when you've had enough. There are other people out there that have the time you long for but breaking up is very hard because you want your dream to come alive, right?

Answer 4

Love is kinds blind! We do things out of careing,U have done well in this area.You know woman are really up and down ,they have horemones and u have to try to look past alot to relate.Since men are rational thinkers you can see why u get in a stew over her emotional thinking.It is hard on you staying up and seeing her ,but u do care.Just change your hrs to get enough sleep and expect in a woman lots of stuff you have to accept.And yes u will be blamed for everything thts normal she trusts your love to vent at.Take care and get some rest..........

Answer 5

If you are still in school, it is not a good time to get married. You know that part of your life called your 20s? If you get married at 21, you don't get to live that part. Stop being so pushy and controling. She obviously doesn't want to get married.

Answer 6

Yes, you are crazy for putting up with it. Tell her to either put you first or she can find another to treat like dirt. Obviously her priorities are not in the right place.

Answer 7

I think you know what you need to do.

Be glad she hasn't answered your proposal yet. Maybe she is fooling around, maybe not, but she is not being straight with you and you guys are not ready to marry anyways.

Answer 8

Definatly doesn't sound like she's ready yet.

Answer 9

First, grow a backbone
second, use it to tell her to go to hell

Answer 10

u should move on