Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

I have a good friend who my girlfriend had a crush on before me. Should I get him to help me and see if she'll do anything with him?
There will be no hard feeling between me and him afterwards, I just want to see if she'll take the trap and sleep with him. Is this wrong or a good idea?

My plan is to get her worked up and then make a an excuse where I have to go somewhere. And then have my buddy take her home where I''ll be hidding in her room. And if anything happens I'll catch it in the act. Wrong or does anybody have any better ideas?
Thanks

2006-12-18 08:46:45 · 34 answers · asked by deppressionsucks 1 in Singles & Dating

My soon to be ex-husband and I were awarded today joint physical and legal custody of our son (he was trying to get full), do either of us have to pay child support even though he will spend half the time with dad and half with me?

Thanks All!!

2006-12-18 08:45:05 · 10 answers · asked by norali0116 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay when a girl says that most of her friends are guy friends and that she does not get along with girls at all, what do you guys think? Most of the girls that I have know who said that have had relationship problems and have been unfaithful at some point in a realtionship. Also most girls that I have noticed who say this have low self esteem...

2006-12-18 08:44:57 · 12 answers · asked by Clrcut27 1 in Singles & Dating

they're in cahoots! his mom gives his ex our home phone number, our cell phone numbers, brings her to our house & family functions. the ex used to call & harass both of us constantly when we first got together, then switched to being all 'buddy-buddy' with me. i've had to change my number twice now. they're both lying b*tches that seem to have it out for us & have tried to convince me that he's cheating on me (flat out lies, proven to be so). he does have kids with his ex, but they are going to be adopted by their foster family. my husband says he still has to talk to his ex about the kids, but i just don't get why. she called my new cell phone number less than an hour after our wedding. after everything that she's said & tried to do, i just wish he'd completely cut her out of his life. i know i kinda rambled, got any general advice about the situation?

2006-12-18 08:44:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-18 08:44:30 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel despondant using dating cites with no success. Even on the free ones eg: plenty of fish.com
should i continue???
what does everyone else think???

2006-12-18 08:43:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 08:42:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had a crush on a guy, I told him, and he started acting weird. He said that stuff like this doesn't happen to him. He doesn't even call me any more. But he said I was hot. We were old friends that ended up seeing each other again. Our first reunion meeting was wonderful, his attraction was very strong. I don't know what happened.

2006-12-18 08:41:09 · 15 answers · asked by Punky B. 1 in Singles & Dating

I have an issue with my boyfriend that he gets sex when he wants it, but when I start trying to have sex with him...he changes what we are doing. He will do anything to stop it.This has been a problem since the begining of our relationship,but I dont know how to handle it.I did of course speak to him about how that made me feel.I told him that I thought our relationship should be equal and that I have sexual needs that he is treating like they dont matter.He usually responds to me,"sex isnt the most important thing in our relationship,right?"Then what do i say?When we do have sex, the sex is great!I hate to say it, but every time he has ever tried,I have never been able to say no.I just love him,and long for that connection we do have during sex.I dont want to be one of those sad girls that will just take what she can get when she can get it,but sadly I really have been.I want to feel like a sexy woman that can turn her man on!This has broken my selfesteem a lot! What should I do?

2006-12-18 08:40:54 · 9 answers · asked by LadyAlysse 1 in Singles & Dating

i have 2 mixed kids, and i like black guys or white or asian or whatever. i don't discriminate. but my parents are racist. they want me to tell my kids that they are native american instead of black and my momma finds every reason she can to sway me from dating who i want. how can i tell them that i am my own person, and i can't help who i like?

2006-12-18 08:39:50 · 28 answers · asked by trisha_r_c 3 in Family

I think that the wedding band should be on the outside because it seals the engagement. Is that correct?

2006-12-18 08:39:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

over for dinner?

2006-12-18 08:39:03 · 28 answers · asked by Kortney 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel despondant trying internet dating cites with no success, even the FREE ones eg "plenty of fish.com " is 100% free but have had no luck even with a real photo of myself.

WHAT DOES EVERYONE ELSE THINK?????

2006-12-18 08:38:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am kinda confused right now. I think i maybe only like my memory of her but could anybody give me a list of sings of when you like someone?

2006-12-18 08:37:46 · 12 answers · asked by Lying from you 4 in Singles & Dating

Are you loud or quiet when you are having sex????

2006-12-18 08:37:46 · 45 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

The kind that always shows up at your house almost every single day. Always comes to family affairs even though they are not apart of the family. If so how did you handle it?

2006-12-18 08:36:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Especially to a mother? There's a particular woman who doesn't really do a good job of parenting her daughter, and just gives her whatever her daughter wants in lieu of discipline and proper parenting.

It's sickening at best to even hear about the spoilage.

2006-12-18 08:35:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-18 08:35:04 · 14 answers · asked by trisha_r_c 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 16 years old and I have a shopping addiction. It's all I can think about; buying! All I want to do is drive to the mall and spend money. I have a job but I'm spending all of the money every month the day I get it at the mall; $200. I also steal money from my parents and lie to them about purchases. As well, I have a credit card with about a 5,000 debt on it. My parents have no idea about this. I have also drained bank accounts. I've finally admitted to myself that I have a problem. I don't need to buy clothes, shoes, ect. But it makes me feel happy buying them! I don't know what to do and I'm scared.

And my family can't afford to pay this. I was sapposed to be be saving money for college but I haven't been.

2006-12-18 08:34:41 · 14 answers · asked by Jennifer J 1 in Family

LOL...sounds crazy, right? I started dating my boyfriend several months ago. He was at the end of the 1 year seperation required by SC law before a divorce can be granted. His ex was going to go to his lawyer, sign the papers, and they were going to be done with it. Ever since she found out that he is dating someone new (me:-) she has announced she "is not signing ****" (classy, huh?) and that she is taking him to court, is out for blood, custody of the 2 kids, and money. He and I don't want to do it and don't want to lie to the kids, but we are considering staging a break up...him telling her he failed at his relationship with me and that we are no longer together so she will calm down and sign. Several months later she will find out we "got back together". Is this crazy? Bad idea? Good idea? Advice please and thank you!

2006-12-18 08:34:17 · 14 answers · asked by Jennifer L 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you are a proper loner like me how did you convince your parents you are content alone and don't want or need friends or a girlfriend or to get married one day? I have tried telling my parents I prefer my own company to most other peoples but they can't understand it. They believe I honestly want a girlfriend to settle with eventually and that i don't REALLY like being alone all the time. Nothing could be further from the truth if I had my own house I would not have anyone living with me and I am bored mostly by socialising and yeah a lot of people don't really interest me. I'm not arrogant either because I feel I am boring myself, I find I enjoy little and don't get excited much that even includes my own Birthday or Christmas. Can any of you guys relate this because I know there are more people out there that prefer being with there own more. I have honestly been a loner most of my life (I just turned 22) I don't get lonely (seriously) I could go without seeing people for years.

2006-12-18 08:33:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

After I had sex with the guy, he told me that he didn't know what to do with me except fall in love. He had already got what he wanted, so why did he say that??? I'm not looking to fall for the guy...if i do, then i do, but i'm not trying...i told him straight up that i just wanted a friend with benefits.

2006-12-18 08:33:38 · 23 answers · asked by trisha_r_c 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 08:33:06 · 10 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Singles & Dating

All of my guy friends say I am cute, short, funny, fun to be around, a great listener and a cute, weird laugh. I know that this one guy who is two years younger than me has a crush on me. He sat by me during Bible class last Sunday, but then last Wednesday and this Sunday he hasn't spoke or tired to talk to me. I am a senior in high school. What is wrong with me and what can I do to change it?

2006-12-18 08:32:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or is there something even more usefull it could be used for?

2006-12-18 08:31:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If you knew it was your last day to live what would you do?

2006-12-18 08:31:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I posted a ? before but after much of my mate painting me as a villain I want to be objective so I'm taking a poll.

Would you date a 33 year old guy who

1)smokes pot every day

2) has been declined jobs because he can't pass the test

3) will be left by his wife because of that habit along with other issues

4) only wants to have sex with you--will never marry again and doesn't want kids (too much work)

5) favorite tv shows are Futurama, Simpson, and MythBusters

6) Addicted to XXX movies (what is up with that? Do men do that cuz they're not attracted to their women?)
I'm at the end of my rope. I work 40 hours a week and come home and the dishes are dirty, house a mess, and he asks me what's for dinner. I'm tired! Tired is an understatement. I thought my weight was an issue so everyday after work, cooking dinner and cleaning up, I work out for an hour. I don't want to make him feel worse since he's down and out over not working but I can't take it!

2006-12-18 08:31:23 · 37 answers · asked by javagirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-18 08:31:23 · 10 answers · asked by Jean Marie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I would choose and ENZO FERRARI...the Luxury, Speed, Comfort, and Looks mean everything to me....but then again ITS MY DREAM CAR>....NoT YoUrZ....lol j/k which one will you get?

2006-12-18 08:31:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister is married 15 years and she has been cheating on him for 3 years and he knew it. But her husband thinks she stopped. She is still cheating! I went to visit her (a trip by plane) last month and there was a big party at her house and I was involved with one of the guys that was invited, kissing, touching, etc. I am not married and this guy wasn't either (This guy is friends with my sisters husband). Well Most of us passed out and when I woke up, I was naked next to the guy I danced with most of the night. Of course he took advantage of me!! But my sister and her husband talked behind my back calling me a slut, whore, tramp, easy! I flew home without opening my mouth about how my sister is MARRIED and cheating! Do you think I should tell my sister's husband exactly what my sister is doing? Or mind my business and let them continue thinking I'm a slut (am I)?

2006-12-18 08:30:50 · 17 answers · asked by DrPepper 6 in Marriage & Divorce