I have an issue with my boyfriend that he gets sex when he wants it, but when I start trying to have sex with him...he changes what we are doing. He will do anything to stop it.This has been a problem since the begining of our relationship,but I dont know how to handle it.I did of course speak to him about how that made me feel.I told him that I thought our relationship should be equal and that I have sexual needs that he is treating like they dont matter.He usually responds to me,"sex isnt the most important thing in our relationship,right?"Then what do i say?When we do have sex, the sex is great!I hate to say it, but every time he has ever tried,I have never been able to say no.I just love him,and long for that connection we do have during sex.I dont want to be one of those sad girls that will just take what she can get when she can get it,but sadly I really have been.I want to feel like a sexy woman that can turn her man on!This has broken my selfesteem a lot! What should I do?
2006-12-18 08:40:54 · 9 answers · asked by LadyAlysse 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you're not going to have sex with him again until you get what you want, that you have needs and desires, and that you have done everything he wishes for so long that it is now your turn. If that doesn't work, leave him and find someone that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
2006-12-18 08:43:46 · answer #1 · answered by bigbro3006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 11:09:39 · answer #2 · answered by barn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to learn to say no when he wants to because if you brake up then you will not get it at all but a relationship is about a hole lot more than sex if thats all you want than you should go find a sex buddy.
2006-12-18 08:51:15 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have talked to him and he doesn't change then your not really important to him you might try separating for awhile let him see what life will be like without you. If he moves on to someone else then that should tell you everything you needed to know......
2006-12-18 08:50:00 · answer #4 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop giving him sex. Turn him down like he turns you down. He should feel the same as you.
2006-12-18 08:43:46 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My girl acts just like your boyfriend. It is driving me insane and it's killing our relationship.
2006-12-18 08:44:45 · answer #6 · answered by Colonel Angus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometime you got to do what is best for you
2006-12-18 10:43:47 · answer #7 · answered by SuperSoldierGIJOE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he kills your self esteem. . . walk. This will NOT change.
2006-12-18 08:42:58 · answer #8 · answered by snddupree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a new man hunny :) :) :)
2006-12-18 08:46:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋