The kind that always shows up at your house almost every single day. Always comes to family affairs even though they are not apart of the family. If so how did you handle it?
2006-12-18 08:36:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell your uninvited guest that family time is only for family time and say in a professional manner that is full of courtesy and respect. But you might also point out to him/her that you need some space and time away from them - you need air to breathe so please don't come over unless you are invited. May it clear that it is nothing personally goes him/her, you just need your personal space without him/her always interpreting that time.
2006-12-18 08:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by wonderwoman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey hazel eyes, by the way if you do really have em I am jealous...love hazel eyes...not begging for points just a fact.
Yes OMG have had tons of house guests that I hated having...I could go on aobut it forever but I think I found a solution that worked for me...
I very nicely but firmly tell em upon arrival that they need to carry their weight while here. We are not rich and are not maids...I do it jokingly but they get the hint...really. It is your house and if you are like me, you had not rules, you gotta do the rule thing, it makes it much more pleasant and they will do what you ask...honestly it works for me...
Have a sister who would always tell me when she was coming, the heck w/ my schedule, she "works" and she only has certain time off, well who the he** doesn't,???? We finally had it out this year, and I am finally getting some respect from her, oh she didn't like it but it is my house, my rules...
brother in law, same thing, can't even be bothered to make his bed, he knows the "law" now too and I make him help, they jsut need to know what you expect of them and if they don't like it...welll they can just stay home....good luck
2006-12-18 08:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wasn't there a TV plot about this same thing ... oh yea, Urkle!
Seems like this person is emotionally needy. I guess when they come to the door you could always be on your way out - grab your keys and go. That way you won't blab about family occasions.
When she/he does intrude, perhaps you could also say "Edna, we'd love to have you stay for a drink, but after that we have plans just for the Smith family so you'd better plan to go home about 6." That way you've given her a bit of what she needs without letting her intrude 100%.
2006-12-18 08:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by kramerdnewf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they show up, say that you really aren't feeling up to chatting, and if they come back later, then tell them that your family affairs are none of their business by saything something like "It's a family thing and I'd really rather not talk about it." If they don't get it then ask them to leave.
2006-12-18 08:41:25 · answer #4 · answered by Traveler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They always shows up at my parents house, my parents like them but I don't. So when they shows up, I avoid them and give them that look. haha but they still come in every single day and they also sneak up on me when I leave house.
2006-12-18 08:38:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 11:09:21 · answer #6 · answered by barn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kind of. I have a brother in law who doesn't work, and is homeless and thinks that we owe him a living. I can't stand him and he knows it but still comes around.
2006-12-18 08:40:17 · answer #7 · answered by shell7024 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband tells my sister-in-law that she can't bring her chiauau to our house, because it's full of fleas and has infested our cat the last time it was here. She got really mad and said that she's never comming to our house again. It's a win win!
2006-12-18 08:40:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Ask them nicely to leave and explain to them that they are not family , be nice about it
2006-12-18 08:39:45 · answer #9 · answered by trueangel121301 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I know the feeling. It seems that people like that never end.
2006-12-18 11:53:53 · answer #10 · answered by queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋