Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

I'm going to buy my girlfriend a surprise trip away for Christmas.

We're not going to go at Christmas though, we'll be going to Barcelona in late February. My principle reason for going to Barcelona is to attend the Liverpool vs Barcelona Chapmpions League game.

I'm not planning to tell my girlfriend this until we get there, she'd go crazy and probably refuse to go otherwise. I'm sure once we're there however she'll warm to the idea. Her being a Man U fan and all......

is this harsh of me?

2006-12-18 09:17:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been chatting to someone online, this has developed into long phone calls and exchanging pictures and myspaces. I think I love him, and he says he loves me (a lot, all the time - as do I). There is nothing that would surprise me about his appearance, as i've seen lots of recent photos (and yes, I definitely know they are because he has a webcam) and we have got to know each other's personalities really well from all the long phone calls (hours and hours) but do you think if we met in real life it could be any different? Can I trust my feelings?

2006-12-18 09:17:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I find him "hot, and am very attracted to him, yet our sex drives are different. How can I make myself want sex more? I feel like I am depriving him!

2006-12-18 09:16:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i like this boy kire`. He knows I like him and we flirt all the time. i think he like me and everyone keep saying that they i go out with him which is not true. But i dont know where these people are getting that rumor from. He got mad at me for a week because i said i dont trust him. the only reason i said that is beacuse he is a lady's man and i was jealous but when i said that i didn't mean it really. we are cool know but how do i get him to ask me out? please i need help

2006-12-18 09:15:21 · 5 answers · asked by PooHBear 2 in Singles & Dating

You know, like italian's are "hung"... I'm wondering specifically about scottish men... does anyone know what the "word" is for them? Not trying to be gross, I honestly want to know.

2006-12-18 09:15:05 · 9 answers · asked by oneinamillion2185 2 in Singles & Dating

Am I cheap if I don't want to buy gifts for my brother, three sisters - in law, mom, dad, step dad, step mom, mother in law, father in law, etc? I only want to buy for the children. Am I being grinchy??

2006-12-18 09:14:50 · 5 answers · asked by g_neva 2 in Friends

I've notified my husband that I no longer have any feelings for him. He said I was insensitive and wrong for doing him dirty. Am I really doing him wrong? I can't help that my feelings have changed. No matter how hard I try to feel something, nothing is there. Wouldn't it be "wrong" to stay and sell us both short of our happiness? If I'm not happy, I know that he won't be.

2006-12-18 09:14:12 · 11 answers · asked by Tana C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My last question asked am i in love with her, but this next question is should i tell her. Last time i told someone they acted diferent towards me. I really have have known this girl for awhile and i would not like to lose her, what should i do?

2006-12-18 09:14:05 · 10 answers · asked by karpflover 2 in Friends

Is he Flirting?
Well.I went to sign up with a gym, and the trainer was kinda cute, I mean he was decent, and we talked for along time about health, and he made an appointment, and at the end of the conversation, he gave me his cell phone number in case I wanted to reschedule and told me that if I needed help with anything let him know....okay as an update, he called me liek a few days later, to remind me to come in, So I showed up, and we went through some exercises,and I told him that I couldn't really afford a trainer, and he's says he's going to give me sessions until I can, so then he asks me when can I come in and see him again, I said sometime the beggining of January, and he's like well, I'll give you free sessions, can you come in next week, and I was like okay, if it's free, and then he was like well you have me cell phone number..just in case..so do you think he was flirting or doing his job?Honestly

2006-12-18 09:14:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I work with this guy who cannot seem to look me in the eyes when we talk. He seems really shy, but i am not sure why it is so hard for him to look me in the eyes. He is not like that with the others. Any advice?

2006-12-18 09:13:41 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 09:13:11 · 42 answers · asked by Jack J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been together with my boyfriend for almost five years and I am really happy with him. The problem is that I don't really like his family. His parents are really nice to me but I find them very different than my parents. It is a family that no one knows of and I simply don't really like them. For this reason I am starting to have doubts on my boyfriend and I don't know what to do. I really love him, he is a great guy, responsabile, respectful and really loves me but everyone tells me that I just don't get married with him, I get married wih the whole family. Should I break up with him?

2006-12-18 09:12:21 · 9 answers · asked by amy r 1 in Singles & Dating

Me & my bf are in middle school. WE have been going out for 2 months. We spend a lot of time together, talking on the phone, and talking over email. Also @ school, and we hug everytime we have 2 part after being together. (3/4 times a day) We also hold hands a lot out of school.This (hugs & stuff) has been going on for about a month....maybe more.
Weelll......today he had 2 go 2 the dentist and missed the only class we had togther. I walked him 1/2 way to the office and when he hugged I kissed him on the cheek really fast, then walked away 2 my next class.
After school I saw him, and he acted really wierd.......he stuttered a lot, and I barely got a hug. We were in a crowded hallway, so it was even more confusing.
Did I make a mistake?? Y do u think he acted so different??

2006-12-18 09:12:04 · 13 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

Be straight with me, I want to know what you really think, not what you think i want you to say.
Ok here goes...

My family went on a vacation this summer, and we were spending a week at my cousin's house in Annapolis. On maybe the fourth day, me and my cousin were talking about school (she was going off to college in Hawaii (where I live)). Somehow, the conversation turned to being about friends, and I was asked to name my friends In school (I'd just finished my second year of college). At that moment, I came to realise that I didn't have any friends, that I had probably gone several days the previous semester without saying a single word at school. I kept avoiding her question, because I didn't want to say "I don't have any friends", but she kept asking me and asking me. Finally, I ended up naming a couple random people that I don't even know, and making up a couple names. I was crushed inside; ever since then, I have become at times very depressed about being so shy and alone....

2006-12-18 09:11:56 · 9 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Friends

ok, im talking to this guy for quite a while now. we've met before, hung out and i really like him. well, it's christmas time and i will be going to visit miami and of course i will see him. i dont know what to get him. since we're really talking and like each other for a few months only, im looking for something not too personal but something that would say "i like u." any ideas?

2006-12-18 09:11:26 · 9 answers · asked by Violet 1 in Singles & Dating

Long term girlfriend cheated on me while I was out of town — she says she's terribly sorry, never wanted to hurt me, blah blah, but she's interested in this guy now and wants to pursue it (he's been a long term supposedly 'neutral' guy friend for years), very angry, hurt, sad, blah,blah — and she's still living with me while she finds a new apartment. My question is, what is the best way to act? I'm angry and sad all at the same time, should I show her how much she hurt me, reveal how tremendously painful and wicked her actions have been and allow her to see me 'sad' or just try to be as cool, calm and as collected as possible and tell her that I want her completely out of my life as soon as possible? She seems to think *that* scenario is the most painful, says she *wants* me in her life and that she loves me more than anything, that without me in her life she would be desolate —she just doesn't want to be 'in love' with me she just wants to keep her 'best friend.' Of course all of this *hurts* me SO MUCH too as I want her in my life as well, but I know that I have to be strong too. This was THE most ****** up thing I can ever imagine doing to a person, friend or whatever — does she deserve ANYTHING from me at all? It kills me to see her in pain and this is clearly causing her anguish, as stupid as that must sound. I still care about her and want to make it better, but she did a HORRIBLE thing to me and I'll probably be recovering from that for years. Does this split-emotional thing make any sense??? Please help, I'm an emotional mess.

2006-12-18 09:10:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

mother-in-law.. I wonder Why?

2006-12-18 09:10:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am stumped on this she doesn't want to do too much but she wants it to be something that he will remember i.e. not cologne or a bottle of liquor ect.... any helpful ideas. Also what is a good amount to spend???

2006-12-18 09:10:07 · 3 answers · asked by AJC 1 in Singles & Dating

and i have NO idea what i should get my bf?!!

i dont want to get him any cologne or cds and all that stuff...i want to get him something cute that will remind him of me....

it's our first christmas together and we have been together for eight months already.....

if you have any unique and cute ideas can you please tell me.....

thanks!!=]

2006-12-18 09:09:56 · 7 answers · asked by cute as a button!.♥ 6 in Singles & Dating

First of all i hate cigarettes they are so nasty.....whats even more nastier is when i kiss my gf only to find out she taste like an ash tray its so freaking gross blah yuck!!!! I have gotten her to quit before but then she started back up and i was like that makes no sense and then she quit again and then started sneaking them again behind my back its so freaking gross i just wanna take the whole pack and chuck it out the window when im with her!!! It really bothers me and i dont know what esle to do about it can someone give me ideas or what to do???? I have already just tried to sit down and talk to her, and i know its hard cuz her friends smoke and her mom buys them for her so what to do??

2006-12-18 09:09:17 · 12 answers · asked by chs200619 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my fiance have save money for this wedding all of a sudden my parents have this really big financial problem, they might lose their house. Is it my responsiblity to help them and postpone my wedding? Is it fair for my fiance? pls help!

2006-12-18 09:09:07 · 23 answers · asked by looklikebradpitt 3 in Weddings

ok my boyfriend wants me to move with him but he doesnt seem to have a solid foundation or knows how to handle money and he always try to be cheap like he even suggest we make a straw house or live in a van what should i do i have all my stuff at my mom house because i live with her and he wants me to come stay with him

2006-12-18 09:09:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we had off campus lunch today, and What do you know, he came to Braums, where I was. He turned around and left when he saw me, then came back in and stared at me. My friend and I got up and left because it was creepy. What should I do about him?

2006-12-18 09:08:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 09:08:24 · 19 answers · asked by Not From The Lebanon 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we dated for a day but i only dumped him because he was my cousins ex and she got really pissed off at me . big mistake he was like my best friend . and i think he really did love me i mean he said that he loved me and i told him to prove it so he kissed me . my very first kiss . and i want him back but dont know how to explain my feelings . plz help i really do still love him . he is 17 and im 14 is that ok??

2006-12-18 09:08:24 · 7 answers · asked by kaila g 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 09:07:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think my bf likes sum1 else.Well,in science class I sit in the very back.This gurl sits infront of me down a couple seats.And my bf sits at the front of the room,the very last seat.But evr=ery morning I will look at him and I will see him looking back,or so I think,and it turns out he will be talking to her.Her name is Michael,yes like the boy's name.But I just don't see y,well..its just that they r both punk and I am kinda punk,and they listen to the same stuff and kno of the same bands that I dont really kno.But they play around w/ eachother...like she can make him laugh and he can make her laugh.But I can make him laugh and i have made him laugh so many x b4.But I also think SHE likes HIM.It annoys me b/c every time i c her I get real jealous.But I just dont c y he doesnt dump me 4 her.They have so much in common it makes me wanna cry.Does he like her?She can make him laugh and he always talks 2 her b4 he talks 2 me.And he said he didn't like ne1 else but I'm still not sure...

2006-12-18 09:07:07 · 11 answers · asked by Whitney 2 in Singles & Dating

how much shopping you got to do?and from me and my family to you and your family,we wish all of you have a merry christmas and a very prosperous new year.god bless all of you.

2006-12-18 09:07:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 09:06:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

c'mon it really cant be THAT bad. i just recently broke up with my boyfriend. [[i broke up with him]] and i was sad and lonely i guess just a lil, but it didnt effect me like i wanted to cut or kill myself. so what does heartbreak REALLY feel like?

2006-12-18 09:06:13 · 11 answers · asked by chisomasonye987 2 in Singles & Dating